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"they could be general tips to anyone wanting a meet.....except the part about being treated like a real girl means buying you stuff. I have never expected to be bought stuff by guys i meet." | |||
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" 3. Some girls want a quick fumble and thats fine. Done it myself a few, but some want to be treated like real girls, buy then small things and generally take charge, spoil her and stuff. Remember, she has to buy endless stockings, clothes, makeup, perfume, wigs, shoes.....I could go on. Dont just expect to turn up and benefit from all that without doing your part." I assume that your advice for TV's who like men would be to make sure that they buy them something too. Like socks, pants, aftershave, razors... you know... so that they look nice for their dates? | |||
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"most men dont read profile just like the pics, and most think you are a takeaway you can be ready in 15 mins, most of have jobs and it does take time to get ready as prev posts, as for getting out pass neighbors i have a large boiler suit put my wig and shoes in a bag, if you drive with head slightlydown you can still view the rd till clear of neighbors, wear a cap as well, change when your clear" I agree with this,only when they do read my profile they don't turn up..... | |||
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"Well all good advice,I wonder how many guys will bother to read this,I guess not many unfortunately." Only about 2% of site users use the forums | |||
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"Can I just say that some of you girls look totally gorgeous " You may | |||
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"Can I just say that some of you girls look totally gorgeous You may " You are | |||
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"thank u....lady 303 " nice to get some feedback,and from a lady,thank you 303.... | |||
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"Can I just say that some of you girls look totally gorgeous You may You are " Who me? Nah. I'm just an aging trollop (Thank you anyway ) | |||
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"Can I just say that some of you girls look totally gorgeous You may You are Who me? Nah. I'm just an aging trollop (Thank you anyway )" noooooo you're not! | |||
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"post states only 2% of fab use forums, i would think it about right as about 2% on here are worth the time , i just had another meet now at 06 15 am do they think we sleep in stockings full make up so we are always available" If you continue to have meets at 06:15 even though it appears you don't like to then yes, some will think you sleep in stockings and full make up. | |||
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"they could be general tips to anyone wanting a meet.....except the part about being treated like a real girl means buying you stuff. I have never expected to be bought stuff by guys i meet. " . Totally agree. Not expecting any kind of gifts, presents or rewards for meets. Sometimes it can be offensive (i can buy you this & that if we meet etc). . Just give us your respect, your friendship, your honesty and kindness... ..but we demand your strength...he he.. | |||
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"Can I just say that some of you girls look totally gorgeous You may You are " I could learn a lot from the tgirls on here. Ive never been very feminine. And yes before anyone points it out my profile is hidden. Im moving house and cant be arsed with packing and meets | |||
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"Can aging trollops not be gorgeous as well? Can't believe how few admirers have commented, I may be the first but hopefully not the last. I'm as guilty as most people when it comes to wanting a quick fumble, but they have led to some fantastic times. But yes planning ahead is always best." I totally concur | |||
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"Can I just say that some of you girls look totally gorgeous You may You are I could learn a lot from the tgirls on here. Ive never been very feminine. And yes before anyone points it out my profile is hidden. Im moving house and cant be arsed with packing and meets" I hope the move goes smoothly. Very stressful in my experience. Obviously I cant and wouldn't comment on your femininity as I've never met you. Femininity isn't a look or an image. It comes from within. The way you move. The way you look at people. Femininity/masculinity are on a similar sliding scale to sexuality, in my opinion. You can dress anyone up in all the feminine trappings. You can learn to be more feminine or masculine but there are some things that you just can't teach. Hopefully I can slide up and down the scale mmmm. Lol | |||
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"Guys when you get Men in frocks seeking to impose a list of does and donts apon you simply pass them by.... Theres plenty of us with willing mouths and arses that will serve you just as you are...." Here here .. Ax | |||
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"buy then small things and generally take charge, spoil her and stuff. Remember, she has to buy endless stockings, clothes, makeup, perfume, wigs, shoes.....I could go on. Dont just expect to turn up and benefit from all that without doing your part." Ah yes, because it's not as if women have to buy all those things too. Of course men should be expected to "do their part" by buying gifts for TVs. You are doing them a favour by meeting them, after all. | |||
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"Exactly. Mind you you ladies don't have to buy expensive fake tits and a male wardrobe as well" We do, however, need a sufficiently extensive wardrobe to wear all the time and to suit any occasion. We can't get away with just outfits for meets and going out plus a couple of suits, some shirts, smart casual and jeans. We need to pay for hairdressers because we don't just slap on a wig. The cost of a hair cut for a man is usually a fraction of what it costs a woman. We buy styling products and straighteners and gadgets for curling our hair. We tend to wear makeup and perfume more frequently so we need more of it. We usually need bras all the time; decent bras are expensive and need replacing fairly often when worn all the time. Those of us who are top-heavy have to pay a small fortune for bras because only a few of the cheaper options go above an E cup and virtually none go larger than a G cup. We also sometimes need different underwear for different situations, such as sports bras. When was the last time a TV needed a sports bra?! My last sports bra cost a shade less than £50. Finding one to fit me at all was a tall order. We are more likely to have a skincare routine, and to have our nails done, and so on. Then there's the cost of tampons which is part and parcel of being female, which our meets are benefiting from. I could go on but you probably get the point. | |||
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"Also, if you're wanting to meet a TS, don't call her a TV because none of the above relates to our lifes lol But, that said, good points on your behalfs " This thread is clearly about TVs and their admirers. I don't think anyone mentioned wanting to meet a TS or suggested there's any ambiguity. If you want people to draw the distinction between TV and TS, maybe try not dragging TS ladies into a thread clearly about TVs and potentially confusing matters? | |||
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" Such a shame point 3 spoils it. " . Yup.... it's a shame that others might read that statement and generalise to all CD/TV. | |||
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"Also, if you're wanting to meet a TS, don't call her a TV because none of the above relates to our lifes lol But, that said, good points on your behalfs This thread is clearly about TVs and their admirers. I don't think anyone mentioned wanting to meet a TS or suggested there's any ambiguity. If you want people to draw the distinction between TV and TS, maybe try not dragging TS ladies into a thread clearly about TVs and potentially confusing matters?" its the men on here you want to be saying that to no. I was duley noting the obvious since no doubt men would be viewing this thread thinking TV and TS were the same | |||
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"Also, if you're wanting to meet a TS, don't call her a TV because none of the above relates to our lifes lol But, that said, good points on your behalfs This thread is clearly about TVs and their admirers. I don't think anyone mentioned wanting to meet a TS or suggested there's any ambiguity. If you want people to draw the distinction between TV and TS, maybe try not dragging TS ladies into a thread clearly about TVs and potentially confusing matters? its the men on here you want to be saying that to no. I was duley noting the obvious since no doubt men would be viewing this thread thinking TV and TS were the same " Whether men (or women) know the difference between TV and TS is a totally separate issue. This thread was quite clear that it refers to TVs. There's no suggestion from anyone on this thread that they think TV and TS are the same. I know you are mortally offended to think you could be confused with a cross-dresser, which I completely understand, but hijacking a thread clearly about TVs to try to include TSs is more likely to make that connection in some minds than to break it. No men brought TS ladies into the discussion, at least not that I saw, so your assumption that some are thinking it may well be wrong. Those who want to meet a TS lady will either know the difference or will have watched too much porn and won't have a clue. Would you actually want to meet the latter type? Surely them identifying their lack of understanding early on is a good thing? I'll happily clarify the difference between TV and TS on any thread on which someone demonstrates confusion but I don't see it as a point that needs to be brought up on any and every trans- thread. | |||
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"Also, if you're wanting to meet a TS, don't call her a TV because none of the above relates to our lifes lol But, that said, good points on your behalfs This thread is clearly about TVs and their admirers. I don't think anyone mentioned wanting to meet a TS or suggested there's any ambiguity. If you want people to draw the distinction between TV and TS, maybe try not dragging TS ladies into a thread clearly about TVs and potentially confusing matters? its the men on here you want to be saying that to no. I was duley noting the obvious since no doubt men would be viewing this thread thinking TV and TS were the same Whether men (or women) know the difference between TV and TS is a totally separate issue. This thread was quite clear that it refers to TVs. There's no suggestion from anyone on this thread that they think TV and TS are the same. I know you are mortally offended to think you could be confused with a cross-dresser, which I completely understand, but hijacking a thread clearly about TVs to try to include TSs is more likely to make that connection in some minds than to break it. No men brought TS ladies into the discussion, at least not that I saw, so your assumption that some are thinking it may well be wrong. Those who want to meet a TS lady will either know the difference or will have watched too much porn and won't have a clue. Would you actually want to meet the latter type? Surely them identifying their lack of understanding early on is a good thing? I'll happily clarify the difference between TV and TS on any thread on which someone demonstrates confusion but I don't see it as a point that needs to be brought up on any and every trans- thread." (Point 3 of the OP is still a spoiler. You don't need to bring gifts to get into our knickers. Just respect). | |||
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"Amazed to see someone suggesting guys bring gifts to a meet. The most important thing for anyone wishing to meet me is to understand it will have taken me an awful long time to get ready. i don't often get ready at home because I don't want my neighbours to know what I do. They're bound to notice a hot new lady driving my car!! I like a few days notice for a meet. I need to clear it with my wife and I like to plan what I'm wearing." Poor you. You never read my comments. I do not ask for gifts. Some people are decent enough to bring a bottle or chocs. Next time please refrain from making assumptions. | |||
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"Amazed to see someone suggesting guys bring gifts to a meet. The most important thing for anyone wishing to meet me is to understand it will have taken me an awful long time to get ready. i don't often get ready at home because I don't want my neighbours to know what I do. They're bound to notice a hot new lady driving my car!! I like a few days notice for a meet. I need to clear it with my wife and I like to plan what I'm wearing. Poor you. You never read my comments. I do not ask for gifts. Some people are decent enough to bring a bottle or chocs. Next time please refrain from making assumptions." Making assumptions? Are you suggesting we have ALL misunderstood this point? :- "3. some want to be treated like real girls, buy then small things, spoil her and stuff. Dont just expect to turn up and benefit from all that without doing your part." I try to refrain from making assumptions. This kind of post just reflects badly on the majority of us who just want to have fun and don't feel the need to ask for gifts. | |||
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"I cut n pasted it. Even with the spolling mistake! It's what you said even if it wasn't what you meant. That's why everyone is pulling you up for it honey x" I think you may have mixed two posters up? The OP suggested men should bring gifts. The poster you responded to was being offended over comments made to the OP but isn't the OP. | |||
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"Believe it or not men actually make an effort before a meet as well Shock horror i will actually have a shower , brush my teeth, shave put on deodorant and aftershave Put some thought into what I'm going to wear Do my hair clean my nails You know all the things that i would never dream of doing normally Ohh sorry was that me being sarcastic and believe it or not i do all that regardless of wether im meeting a woman or a tv or even occasionaly a ts and yes i do know the difference " Goodness, that must take you hours | |||
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"I cut n pasted it. Even with the spolling mistake! It's what you said even if it wasn't what you meant. That's why everyone is pulling you up for it honey x I think you may have mixed two posters up? The OP suggested men should bring gifts. The poster you responded to was being offended over comments made to the OP but isn't the OP." Oh yeah similar avatars. All these damn tgirls are beginning to look alike to me | |||
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" Oh yeah similar avatars. All these damn tgirls are beginning to look alike to me " I stand out and perhaps not in a good way | |||
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" Oh yeah similar avatars. All these damn tgirls are beginning to look alike to me I stand out and perhaps not in a good way " Nope. Just another flippin TV | |||
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" Oh yeah similar avatars. All these damn tgirls are beginning to look alike to me I stand out and perhaps not in a good way Nope. Just another flippin TV " | |||
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" Oh yeah similar avatars. All these damn tgirls are beginning to look alike to me I stand out and perhaps not in a good way Nope. Just another flippin TV " Mwahhhh xx | |||
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"Advice for TV admirers from a TV Here are a few words of advice to all you admirers. so may guys make the same mistakes over and over again and if you read this, you wont! 1. READ HER PROFILE and only then message her accordingly with something that shows you are on the same page. If you dont say much, or completely the wrong thing, you are toast! 2. Be available. A TV has to take up to 3 hours to get ready (plus quite a long time to get changed back)and often has to make special arrangements to have somewhere to get changed. So if she says, "Can you meet me between 7 and 10 this evening" thats when its possible. If you reply "How about next Wednesday in my lunch hour" shes just going to get fed up and stop considering you. 3. Some girls want a quick fumble and thats fine. Done it myself a few, but some want to be treated like real girls, buy then small things and generally take charge, spoil her and stuff. Remember, she has to buy endless stockings, clothes, makeup, perfume, wigs, shoes.....I could go on. Dont just expect to turn up and benefit from all that without doing your part. 4. Be prepared to make an effort. some guys are so lazy and unprepared. Good luck!As a couple a decent outfit each costs a lot...hair done eye lashes...cost is endless, we wouldnt expect the other couple to pick up the tab " Well said, so many TVs ask for gifts, this is a sex site, not a carity site, I buy all my own things, & wouldn't change that, A gift in exchange for sex is prostitution, | |||
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