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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But does anyone think going to the club's is more productive than one to one meets? I have no verification's and it's not through a lack of trying. But any clubs I have been to I have had an enjoyable evening with like minded people and it's a lot less soul destroying. This is a sex site so everyone should know what they want its just a question of finding someone attractive to you simples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't a sex site, the url says fabswingers, its a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club and get veri'd there

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"But does anyone think going to the club's is more productive than one to one meets? I have no verification's and it's not through a lack of trying. But any clubs I have been to I have had an enjoyable evening with like minded people and it's a lot less soul destroying. This is a sex site so everyone should know what they want its just a question of finding someone attractive to you simples?"
Have you not got veris from club meets? Often a good way to get em... That prob would help here too, as no veris puts many off ( even tho we were all there once when we started!)

We tend to go to clubs more. Mainly cos we both enjoy that whole set up and the type of parties we attend at different venues.

... Why not just enjoy clubs, as we have found that often it opens doors to other adventures too..

We have met people who don't use fab at all ... Is another swinging world out there ! Good luck with all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id say going out n meeting real people in any club or bar is the way to go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am not fussed about veri's I have been to bizarre events in London a number of times usually booking through their own website and have had a good time. I was just thinking aloud as I had been in contact with a couple arranging a meet only for the contact to stop. Alot of people have complained about time wasters ruining their plans obviously a club meet avoids that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes i like 121 meets and sometimes i like club meets

depends on my mood that day

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We currently feel like we're going nowhere. Can't get to a club as we can only play between 3 and 6 some days at the moment. Can't even get a couple interested in meeting us for a coffee.

Really wondering today why we're bothering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes i like 121 meets and sometimes i like club meets

depends on my mood that day "

Gimme a shout about a 1-2-1 when you are ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes i like 121 meets and sometimes i like club meets

depends on my mood that day

Gimme a shout about a 1-2-1 when you are ready "

woop

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

I prefer club meets for group fun but to meet 121 I prefer to find people here - more choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do like a good club night and meeting different people. Can't beat the ambience of a good club and the facilities it offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do pretty good either way so don't mind. Give us a club night for a night out and the delights that are on offer but just as happy meeting people 1-2-1 at homes. Something nice about being as to relax in good sexy company.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"We currently feel like we're going nowhere. Can't get to a club as we can only play between 3 and 6 some days at the moment. Can't even get a couple interested in meeting us for a coffee.

Really wondering today why we're bothering "

You have a LOT of constraints so it's little wonder you're struggling a bit more than your average couple.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"We currently feel like we're going nowhere. Can't get to a club as we can only play between 3 and 6 some days at the moment. Can't even get a couple interested in meeting us for a coffee.

Really wondering today why we're bothering

You have a LOT of constraints so it's little wonder you're struggling a bit more than your average couple. "

I wouldn't say a lot, but some. We are hoping to sort the time issue soon though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't rely fab for sex lol

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"We currently feel like we're going nowhere. Can't get to a club as we can only play between 3 and 6 some days at the moment. Can't even get a couple interested in meeting us for a coffee.

Really wondering today why we're bothering

You have a LOT of constraints so it's little wonder you're struggling a bit more than your average couple.

I wouldn't say a lot, but some. We are hoping to sort the time issue soon though "

It's not just the time issue though is it? You've said you're a bigger lady (not to everyone's taste) with a fb (not everyone likes playing with fb couples), your fb is married (that will be a no-no for many) PLUS there's the time issue. I'm sure you will find someone but I'm just saying you're up against a few barriers. Good luck though

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Do like a good club night and meeting different people. Can't beat the ambience of a good club and the facilities it offers. "

Totally agree plus for us it's all about the fun not the verifications (probably why we don't have any) as no one we have ever spoken to in a club has asked us if we have a veri...and why should they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"id say going out n meeting real people in any club or bar is the way to go"

Hey Mikki. Shall we do just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club and get veri'd there"

lol!!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"It's not just the time issue though is it? You've said you're a bigger lady (not to everyone's taste) with a fb (not everyone likes playing with fb couples), your fb is married (that will be a no-no for many) PLUS there's the time issue. I'm sure you will find someone but I'm just saying you're up against a few barriers. Good luck though "

Interesting. When we have gone to a club we've always had plenty of fun, so the other things don't seem to be an issue there. I wonder why it's different

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Don't enjoy club nights, never have, never want to go back to one again. Far far too picky to enjoy them.

Of course, we have an easier time here being a couple, that's understood.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"id say going out n meeting real people in any club or bar is the way to go"
Odd one this, on the face of it yes its obviouse advise.However take myself for example in a club or bar enviroment i,m not all together comfortable or that confident.Yet in a swingers club or social I seem ok???

Still can,t get my head round that.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"It's not just the time issue though is it? You've said you're a bigger lady (not to everyone's taste) with a fb (not everyone likes playing with fb couples), your fb is married (that will be a no-no for many) PLUS there's the time issue. I'm sure you will find someone but I'm just saying you're up against a few barriers. Good luck though

Interesting. When we have gone to a club we've always had plenty of fun, so the other things don't seem to be an issue there. I wonder why it's different"

Not sure - maybe it's a case of not feeling complicit in aiding someone else to play behind their partners back in a private meet. It's THEIR responsibility that they've gone to a club - not a specific arrangemnt. Also, size-wise, people can see you face to face and decide whether you float their boat. Plus the time thing isn't an issue. I know I wouldn't want to be checking my watch every 10 minutes in a 'timed' meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old ugly unattractive people still go to clubs.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"It's not just the time issue though is it? You've said you're a bigger lady (not to everyone's taste) with a fb (not everyone likes playing with fb couples), your fb is married (that will be a no-no for many) PLUS there's the time issue. I'm sure you will find someone but I'm just saying you're up against a few barriers. Good luck though

Interesting. When we have gone to a club we've always had plenty of fun, so the other things don't seem to be an issue there. I wonder why it's different

Not sure - maybe it's a case of not feeling complicit in aiding someone else to play behind their partners back in a private meet. It's THEIR responsibility that they've gone to a club - not a specific arrangemnt. Also, size-wise, people can see you face to face and decide whether you float their boat. Plus the time thing isn't an issue. I know I wouldn't want to be checking my watch every 10 minutes in a 'timed' meet."

Yeah, maybe. We've never needed to keep checking the time though

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Old ugly unattractive people still go to clubs. "

Can't speak for myself but Flik is stunning so there's at least one attractive person that still goes to a club....plus we've seen plenty more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Old ugly unattractive people still go to clubs. "

Oh!!... That's why people are wearing gimp masks.

Disagree with your comment I found clubs/parties a pleasing mixed crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Old ugly unattractive people still go to clubs. "

I'm 22!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"sometimes i like 121 meets and sometimes i like club meets

depends on my mood that day "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Old ugly unattractive people still go to clubs. "

I take the sweeping statement that you don't attend clubs then?

Don't knock what you've not tried.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

There's plenty of clubs in London to go and ask if anyone is from fab and be verified that way

Alternatively host a party at yours

Free booze? Lol

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Old ugly unattractive people still go to clubs.

I take the sweeping statement that you don't attend clubs then?

Don't knock what you've not tried. "
this...

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Old ugly unattractive people still go to clubs.

I take the sweeping statement that you don't attend clubs then?

Don't knock what you've not tried. "

The statement wasn't exclusive. They didn't say ONLY old minders go to clubs. I think they were saying that clubs are not just a haven of heavenly bods.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Mingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't a sex site, the url says fabswingers, its a swingers site"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you say not bothered but getting verified might stop those that chat and decide against taking it further - one social or club night should suffice- ask the hosts to verify you as genuine

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

In answer to the original post - why don't you try a fetish website if you like water sports. More chance of finding someone with similar interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do veris guarantee meets, joined 28 days ago, verified by 35 meets, or joined 8hrs ago, verified by 2 meets. Are these veris like Olympic competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP can't you ask I like minded person you have had a good time with to write you a verification? Or someone who works at the club perhaps?

I prefer 1-2-1 meets no need for a club if I have one of those.

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