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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I seem to be getting absolutley nowhere in here, I assumed that as I am alright looking, well endowed, speak politely to women who do respond, still don't get anywhere, Advice please ladies and gents

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First off your pic is very dark and you can hardly see it.

Also I found your profile text to be unfriendly and uninviting!

You stated on it, that it was crap - that's not going to get you a meet!

Talk about yourself, your likes, dislikes and what your looking for. Make it friendly and appealing - show humour!

Make it stand out from the rest! You have to put effort in yourself to get something out of here! Be patient and polite.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

No pics

Calling women demanding (yes I know it's tongue in cheek, but still)

A couple of parts sound a little arrogant - "your needs WILL be met" etc. might want to reword that.

Not much about your likes and dislikes, or what you can offer, really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, will give it a try, much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you, will give it a try, much appreciated "

Look at other profiles to give you ideas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because your well endowed doesn't mean women are gagging to meet you or that you're guaranteed a reply

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"

You stated on it, that it was crap - that's not going to get you a meet"

^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just copy and paste my profile for a nominal fee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just copy and paste my profile for a nominal fee."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because your well endowed doesn't mean women are gagging to meet you or that you're guaranteed a reply "

You must know by now that lots of single guys think being on here means a guaranteed free fuck?

When realisation kicks in we get the posts saying no one wants to meet me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can you check my new one guys please , thanks for the feedback lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you check my new one guys please , thanks for the feedback lol"

There was an old one?

Is the new one the improved version?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because your well endowed doesn't mean women are gagging to meet you or that you're guaranteed a reply

You must know by now that lots of single guys think being on here means a guaranteed free fuck?

When realisation kicks in we get the posts saying no one wants to meet me..."

I thought it was free! Shit.....I owe a lot of money now I think.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah it sure does hurt the ego, lesson learnt here, thanks lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Profile is still far too short, and all I can see is the dark pic

You could be Brad Pitt for all I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good but a better public photo would enhance more. Can't see anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it sure does hurt the ego, lesson learnt here, thanks lol"

I'm quite all right actually, but thanks for caring

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never thought " oh free fuck" or "easy women" just didn't consider or respect the fact that it still requires effort and thought when creating profiles, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because your well endowed doesn't mean women are gagging to meet you or that you're guaranteed a reply

You must know by now that lots of single guys think being on here means a guaranteed free fuck?

When realisation kicks in we get the posts saying no one wants to meet me..."

I'm half asleep, no brain filter at all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep your profile as a work in progress, keep adding, talking away as you see fit, add some nice pics whatever...

Ego maniac dropped you a good hint...don't copy his obviously but look about at other guys profiles for ideas and that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just keep your profile as a work in progress, keep adding, talking away as you see fit, add some nice pics whatever...

Ego maniac dropped you a good hint...don't copy his obviously but look about at other guys profiles for ideas and that..."

Christos, don't hog my sale, I was onto a sure thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't really talk to you based on the fact I would assume you weren't really interested in what the site is about! My assumption only.

Your profile pic is pretty bad.

I don't feel like I know anything about you from your profile. I don't give away much on mine but I do hint about my likes and dislikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I actually dont think your profile is that bad.

If you are messaging..chatting but still getting nowhere...

..then you need to be more assertive about where the conversation goes.

You're profile is ok.

Maybe take the "young" out of it. You're 32 and that's not exactly young.

And lose the "mature woman"...that might stop some messaging you as many HATE that identification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely need a better profile pic....

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Just because your well endowed doesn't mean women are gagging to meet you or that you're guaranteed a reply "

Actually, there are plenty of profiles that state they are after VWE. He should specify his measurements for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely need a better profile pic...."

That's not the problem.

Read his OP.

Second thing..

There are guys with Blacked out default silhouettes on here that still get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started God chat but if I say I polish is finish chat lol so sometime I thinking is something wrong with some ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely need a better profile pic....

That's not the problem.

Read his OP.

Second thing..

There are guys with Blacked out default silhouettes on here that still get meets. "

Just my personal opinion hunny, the blacked out non profile pic people don't get my attention either x but yes I agree with your other points

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Sounds good but a better public photo would enhance more. Can't see anything."

I can see your boobies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just keep your profile as a work in progress, keep adding, talking away as you see fit, add some nice pics whatever...

Ego maniac dropped you a good hint...don't copy his obviously but look about at other guys profiles for ideas and that...

Christos, don't hog my sale, I was onto a sure thing! "

It's a dog eat dog market....I've bartered a sale of a quarter of my profile for a fiver a line now

Yours is a prizewinner, you'll get seven fifty a line easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely need a better profile pic....

That's not the problem.

Read his OP.

Second thing..

There are guys with Blacked out default silhouettes on here that still get meets. "

Ha this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started God chat but if I say I polish is finish chat lol so sometime I thinking is something wrong with some ppl "

Write a sentence properly, that doesn't make any sense whatsoever

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I started God chat but if I say I polish is finish chat lol so sometime I thinking is something wrong with some ppl

Write a sentence properly, that doesn't make any sense whatsoever"

I understood what he wrote and I'm sure his written English is better than your written Polish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started God chat but if I say I polish is finish chat lol so sometime I thinking is something wrong with some ppl

Write a sentence properly, that doesn't make any sense whatsoever

I understood what he wrote and I'm sure his written English is better than your written Polish "

Luckily I don't know any polish

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I started God chat but if I say I polish is finish chat lol so sometime I thinking is something wrong with some ppl

Write a sentence properly, that doesn't make any sense whatsoever

I understood what he wrote and I'm sure his written English is better than your written Polish

Luckily I don't know any polish"

Why luckily?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started God chat but if I say I polish is finish chat lol so sometime I thinking is something wrong with some ppl

Write a sentence properly, that doesn't make any sense whatsoever

I understood what he wrote and I'm sure his written English is better than your written Polish

Luckily I don't know any polish

Why luckily?"

Complicated language for me to learn, I know Italian and french, but Polish looks tricky!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks everyone, New profile pic, half finished profile text,

I value your honesty, feedback.....and humor lol.

This is a huge community and I didn't think to tap intoall this experience etc, cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean that I write that I am a Pole, it ends the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not bad now but I am not a fan of the part about being discreet because you're recently seperated......it insinuates that you were going behind her back when you opened this account, lying is not a personality trait that many admire.

Apart from that, just what everyone has already said about a need for pics.

You'll find not many people will bother replying to someone without pics.

Enjoy your new freedom, and the site!!

Juicy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok thanks everyone, New profile pic, half finished profile text,

I value your honesty, feedback.....and humor lol.

This is a huge community and I didn't think to tap intoall this experience etc, cheers"

New pic much better!!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I started God chat but if I say I polish is finish chat lol so sometime I thinking is something wrong with some ppl

Write a sentence properly, that doesn't make any sense whatsoever

I understood what he wrote and I'm sure his written English is better than your written Polish

Luckily I don't know any polish

Why luckily?

Complicated language for me to learn, I know Italian and french, but Polish looks tricky!"

For a multilingual person I find your attitude to a person who's first language isn't English baffling and the use of "luckily" strange.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I see what you mean, although that aren't the case, it sounds that way,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started God chat but if I say I polish is finish chat lol so sometime I thinking is something wrong with some ppl

Write a sentence properly, that doesn't make any sense whatsoever

I understood what he wrote and I'm sure his written English is better than your written Polish

Luckily I don't know any polish

Why luckily?

Complicated language for me to learn, I know Italian and french, but Polish looks tricky!

For a multilingual person I find your attitude to a person who's first language isn't English baffling and the use of "luckily" strange."

Coz I've tried learning Polish and it didn't go well at all.

And I didn't know English wasn't his first language

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I know 3 languages but English is hard to writing maybe just for my grammar is hard for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I know 3 languages but English is hard to writing maybe just for my grammar is hard for me "

I do apologise, I didn't know you were Polish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can give u few lesson polish language. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much better profile pic! Much better!

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