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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at your profile and ask yourself.......Would you meet you based on what you can read there?

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Hi Greg

How's you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?"

This.

And you kinda look like an extra from Queer as folk

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?"

if you can't "help yourself" to help yourself... how is anyone else going to help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is 20 words long. Zero effot = zero reward.

Plus it comes across as you just wanting to empty your balls and not really caring who with - not a good image to portray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read my profile.

THAT is how you get the bitches and hoes, my friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're profile doesn't say a lot about you. People need an idea of who you are.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Maybe loose the vodka pic, it's doing you no favours.

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By *aymondBaroneMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Maybe loose the vodka pic, it's doing you no favours."
I agree.. makes you look a bit of a chav.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"Your profile is 20 words long. Zero effot = zero reward.

Plus it comes across as you just wanting to empty your balls and not really caring who with - not a good image to portray"

I totally agree

All the detailed profiles listing likes dislikes and information get all the action

Ahem ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its normal for men to wait sometime, hang in there lol.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

No comment

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

well youve only been here 4 months and it is hard work on here

you have to put in a lot of effort and that still no guarantee you'll get any fun...its probably easier going to a swingers club tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the above. Put some effort in mate!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've gotta agree, your profile description sucks! Plus you need to delete or hide a few pics.

Your one of so many on here so you really do need to say and show why all those other single guys should be bypassed in favour of you!

Good luck!!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

oh dear....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been given exactly the same chance that everyone else on here was given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?"

Your pics aren't too bad (delete the one with the vodka bottle and p*ssed look) but your profile says absolutely nothing about you. You need to sell yourself, and tell people what you can offer a potential meet and what you are are hoping for from one.

When we look for single blokes to meet, profiles that show a little personality and intelligence are usually the ones that get a reply.

Side Note - Statuses whining about a lack of replies/meets is a MASSIVE turn off.

Juicy x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

........"If you change your mind, I'm the first in line

Honey I'm still free

Take a chance on me

If you need me, let me know, gonna be around

If you've got no place to go, if you're feeling down

If you're all alone when the pretty birds have flown

Honey I'm still free

Take a chance on me

Gonna do my very best and it ain't no lie

If you put me to the test, if you let me try

Take a chance on me

(That's all I ask of you honey)

Take a chance on me

You're welcome!

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

On the whole your Profile is shit.

Although you should be commended for the lack of cock pics...that's one good thing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree your profile text needs more work. What about mine, I fear I may have been too wordy in mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you need to ask yourself would you be interested in somebody with a nondescriptive profile ! Write a bit about yourself ! You need to sell yourself on here !

Her x

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By *az191000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

Your a guy on fab lol dosnt really matter what you write there's about 40 to 1 ratio of guys to woman on here so if you ain't model material or been verified some how your stuck ,

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

You have a whiny status, look a bit lad on holidayish in your photos and say nothing about what you like or what kind of person you like in your profile. There are probably many more single guys on here than any other group and nobody's going to bother asking you more when there are loads of other people in your demographic that they can easily find out more about from their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your a guy on fab lol dosnt really matter what you write there's about 40 to 1 ratio of guys to woman on here so if you ain't model material or been verified some how your stuck , "
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I've been on here as a single female ! The verifications didn't bother me as we all start off new at some point ! Patience is the name of the game !! Try going to a few socials or clubs so people get to know you ! Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read my profile.

THAT is how you get the bitches and hoes, my friend. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd me interested in your views on my profile. Not convinced about my profile pic as its aimed at couples. But I hope my profile text isn't too bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd me interested in your views on my profile. Not convinced about my profile pic as its aimed at couples. But I hope my profile text isn't too bad"

nice clear face photo and profile which is readable and sounds good..

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree your profile text needs more work. What about mine, I fear I may have been too wordy in mine"

Yours is pretty good, its not 'too wordy' and it sells you as an articulate and intelligent gent. If you were local to us you would get the courtesy of a reply from us at least xx

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?"

your profile is pathetic and you think "been" is spelt "bin".

Good lord.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"I agree your profile text needs more work. What about mine, I fear I may have been too wordy in mine"

Nah it's fine and has a funny element, always good.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd me interested in your views on my profile. Not convinced about my profile pic as its aimed at couples. But I hope my profile text isn't too bad"

Mostly, your profile is good. See, OP? Look at this guys profile and compare it to yours. The only thing I'd stress about would be the ...."always smell nice"...because what if you were on the way to a meet and you slipped and fell in a silage pit? I'd add a proviso to that bit, you know, elephant dung accidents etc.

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

northwich

All of the above ,

What I suggest is get yourself to clubs and socials get to know ppl and get verified single guys do have to work so much harder to prove u are genuine guys and u get out what effort u put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer, personally, to go to clubs (abfabs) with a female rather than alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read my profile.

THAT is how you get the bitches and hoes, my friend's. "

I hate to stroke your ego, but true... great profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ur still interested by the time u get to mine , ur profile says one thing to me, ur a player who don't care who u play with because u will probably be d*unk anyway , I like the fact it's not covered in cock pics but you need to remove the vodka one , write something about what ur looking for and tell us what you have to offer us x happy fabbing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read my profile.

THAT is how you get the bitches and hoes, my friend's.

I hate to stroke your ego, but true... great profile "
. It made me chuckle too xx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I worry ours is a bit long, but it gets all the points across.

One or two line profiles get passed by from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't go for anyone who has "looking for loads of sex" on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At leadt you have pics including your face. More than many of the no-hopers on here.

Your 1and a half lines of text however.....leaves so much to be desired.

Basically says shag me....I will shag anything!

May explain the one and only positive reply on this forum.....I mean....would you? I know I wouldn't !

I'm an average looking, nothing particularly special kinda guy......look at how many verifications I have.....now look at my profile compared to yours.

Sort yourself out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If ur still interested by the time u get to mine , ur profile says one thing to me, ur a player who don't care who u play with because u will probably be d*unk anyway , I like the fact it's not covered in cock pics but you need to remove the vodka one , write something about what ur looking for and tell us what you have to offer us x happy fabbing xx"

Yes I agree with what you have put but the trouble with giving good advice is that he may take it. I'd rather know that the fella I've chosen to meet isn't a vodka swiggin player who would shag half the site given the chance. So OP if your profile reflects you do us all a favour and leave it the way it is.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If ur still interested by the time u get to mine , ur profile says one thing to me, ur a player who don't care who u play with because u will probably be d*unk anyway , I like the fact it's not covered in cock pics but you need to remove the vodka one , write something about what ur looking for and tell us what you have to offer us x happy fabbing xx

Yes I agree with what you have put but

the trouble with giving good advice is

that he may take it. I'd rather know that

the fella I've chosen to meet isn't a

vodka swiggin player who would shag

half the site given the chance. So OP if

your profile reflects you do us all a

favour and leave it the way it is. "

Happily, it won't make one iota of difference if he does remove his vodka photo because anyone with a hint of common sense will green arrow him as part of their research. I've had the same problem with trying to deny it being me dressed as a sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do what works for you.

Your profile is your shop window. There is no magic formula I'm afraid as what might attract some people will push others away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?"

You mean no one wants to give you the free fuck you are after??

Shame on them!

After all, it only takes a line or so of really bad spelling as a profile and a moaning post to get a fuck, doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say he probably gets the understands now... .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read my profile.

THAT is how you get the bitches and hoes, my friend. "

*Other types of female also available*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it! We're jumping on this band wagon whilst the wheels are still in motion! How's ours?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read my profile.

THAT is how you get the bitches and hoes, my friend. "

Credit where its due, your profile write up is mint!! Not sure there's a need for quite so many torso pics though....However nice they are!!

Juicy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck it! We're jumping on this band wagon whilst the wheels are still in motion! How's ours????? "
its terrible, would in no way wanna meet ya at all

Honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your a guy on fab lol dosnt really matter what you write there's about 40 to 1 ratio of guys to woman on here so if you ain't model material or been verified some how your stuck , "

Cack...I was a waddling great 44inch waist and unverified when I had my first meet.....

How does any guy on here get there first veri?

By getting themselves across well in their profile, a bit of patience, contacting the right people and generally having a positive attitude and a bit of respect towards the whole thing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck it! We're jumping on this band wagon whilst the wheels are still in motion! How's ours????? "

Shit....I'm not in a single one of your pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck it! We're jumping on this band wagon whilst the wheels are still in motion! How's ours????? its terrible, would in no way wanna meet ya at all

Honest "

Where's that bloody block button!!!!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?"

Try harder I saw a bloke today with 370 verificationsif he an do it so can you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your a guy on fab lol dosnt really matter what you write there's about 40 to 1 ratio of guys to woman on here so if you ain't model material or been verified some how your stuck ,

Cack...I was a waddling great 44inch waist and unverified when I had my first meet.....

How does any guy on here get there first veri?

By getting themselves across well in their profile, a bit of patience, contacting the right people and generally having a positive attitude and a bit of respect towards the whole thing.... "

totally with this vomment. Sod all to do with numbers or luck. All to do with marketing . .. well padt 200 vetifications and counting. Im a grey haired, balding average guy in real life....but a sexual demon on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to add....i have fat fingets and my typing is shit too!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Fuck it! We're jumping on this band wagon whilst the wheels are still in motion! How's ours????? "

More than adequate. How's mine?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im good thank you sorry i ant seen all posts yet are you ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we've given our thoughts on a few profiles from this thread we're intrigued to know what people think of ours?? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forgot to add....i have fat fingets and my typing is shit too!"

We suffer the same affliction with the chubby digits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im good thank you sorry i ant seen all posts yet are you ok"

Try and use reply and quote to specify who your answering fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck it! We're jumping on this band wagon whilst the wheels are still in motion! How's ours?????

More than adequate. How's mine? "

Just one minor thing missing... You really do need one or two pictures of yourself in various and very compromising positions with a couple specifically from Colchester to be perfectly honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taxi!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we've given our thoughts on a few profiles from this thread we're intrigued to know what people think of ours?? Xx"

Great pics and description x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we've given our thoughts on a few profiles from this thread we're intrigued to know what people think of ours?? Xx

Great pics and description x"

Thank you! Had a sneaky perv at yours and think your pics are brilliant, some of them artistic even xxx

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"As we've given our thoughts on a few profiles from this thread we're intrigued to know what people think of ours?? Xx"
. Good pictures and you also explain clearly what you are looking for . It might be even better if you added some hobbies and interests . Overall a good informative well written profile with nice pictures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry to everyone i have only just seen alot of people have replied i have now changed my profile i have only read a few comment and thankyou to all those who helped me out i am very greatful i hope people do not think i am a time waster or anything cos i am far from it im actually a good lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we've given our thoughts on a few profiles from this thread we're intrigued to know what people think of ours?? Xx

Great pics and description x

Thank you! Had a sneaky perv at yours and think your pics are brilliant, some of them artistic even xxx"

Wow, really! Thankyou x

I'm not bad with an IPhone lol xx

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?"
. Maybe avoid text talk and as you are unable to accommodate offer to pay for a hotel room. You will need to add you hobbies and interests and give a lot more information on the type of person that you are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to everyone i have only just seen alot of people have replied i have now changed my profile i have only read a few comment and thankyou to all those who helped me out i am very greatful i hope people do not think i am a time waster or anything cos i am far from it im actually a good lad"

Better, but your probably going to be roasted for poor punctuation sooner or later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG.....a first on the forums. A guy who read advice and acted on it.

Profile may not be perfect still nut an efgirt has been made.....so come on ladies....give the guy a chance !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG.....a first on the forums. A guy who read advice and acted on it.

Profile may not be perfect still nut an efgirt has been made.....so come on ladies....give the guy a chance !!"

What's "efgert" mean? Sounds Dutch??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck it! We're jumping on this band wagon whilst the wheels are still in motion! How's ours?????

More than adequate. How's mine? "

Awesome.

I'm on board the band wagon, how does mine shape up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou for your comment i sm greatful and finally updated my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have tried and will update again soon

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Thankyou for your comment i sm greatful and finally updated my profile"

It's getter better (all the time)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe the audacity of this guy!!!!!

Taking people's advice and saying thanks what next!!

Good work OP!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Fuck it! We're jumping on this band wagon whilst the wheels are still in motion! How's ours?????

More than adequate. How's mine?

Awesome.

I'm on board the band wagon, how does mine shape up?"

Says it all really. With a touch of humour. Makes me want a cup of tea and to whistle the Hovis music though. And I'm not even Northern.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well ive changed my profile hope now its ok its staying the way it is now thsnk you to all for the good advice i hope now my profile is ok n thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou for your comment i sm greatful and finally updated my profile"

I wouldn't put all the comments in about your profile not being very good.

Go straight in to talking about you.

Try paragraphs:

1. Talk about you as a person.

2. Talk about your likes.

3. Talk about your dislikes.

4. State what you are looking for.

5. Close your text, say that you look forward to meet people etc.

Remember to use punctuation and capital letters. Read it back through to ensure it makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we've given our thoughts on a few profiles from this thread we're intrigued to know what people think of ours?? Xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Deleted that picture now

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Your a guy on fab lol dosnt really matter what you write there's about 40 to 1 ratio of guys to woman on here so if you ain't model material or been verified some how your stuck , "

That's not strictly true...I've spoken to lots of great men on here...it's really down to the approach and the effort to converse first..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou for this i might change it tomorrow changed it alot tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be over-reliant on getting meets on here, no matter how well your profile is written you have to keep in mind that you can't please everybody. However people swing for different reasons so don't let it get to you in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou for this i might change it tomorrow changed it alot tonight"

Nice one mate now you have that sorted, start getting out to local socials and clubs and enjoy yourself!

Juicy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£50 bargain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG.....a first on the forums. A guy who read advice and acted on it.

Profile may not be perfect still nut an efgirt has been made.....so come on ladies....give the guy a chance !!"

There was a chap yesterday too....something in the water?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much better indeed. I would take out the bit about being ban from driving though, as may put some people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou for this i might change it tomorrow changed it alot tonight"

take your time and treat your profile as a work in progress...you can tweak and adjust it as you change and stuff occurs to you...

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By *ikeC2012Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?"

Try using spell check and use capital letters where appropriate.

Every little helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd me interested in your views on my profile. Not convinced about my profile pic as its aimed at couples. But I hope my profile text isn't too bad"

Start your own thread instead of high jacking someone else's

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