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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not really a swinger, as haven't met anyone to swing with. A new girl has moved into my house and she's very sexy. Except I'm 33 and she's 18. She's half naked most of the time and single. I'm single and haven't had sex for a long time. Help.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What do you want advice on? If you should approach that half naked 18 year old? Has she given you any indication that she's interested in you?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"What do you want advice on? If you should approach that half naked 18 year old? Has she given you any indication that she's interested in you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tread lightly.Shes very young, and you don't want to lose a tenant,or friend,whatever she is.Ease into it,tell her your lifestyle and preferences and if she is into you she will let you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree she is very young, and maybe not emotionally mature for you to just 'play' with.

I'd take the advice and tread carefully, don't appear desperate and just be careful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teenagers often experiment with their sexual attractiveness by dressing skimpy, it doesn't mean she's open to anyone.

Try to see her as a potential friend, especially as you have to live with her. If anything else comes about then fair enough.

I was very sexually experimental in my teens with older guys, it was a lot of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you just act how you do with every other woman I guess? Might just be me but I don't really see a problem with that age difference or as though it is anything to panic over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Teenagers often experiment with their sexual attractiveness by dressing skimpy, it doesn't mean she's open to anyone.

Try to see her as a potential friend, especially as you have to live with her. If anything else comes about then fair enough.

I was very sexually experimental in my teens with older guys, it was a lot of fun. "

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford

I think the OP might be thinking more about how others may see any sort of relationship between himself and an 18 year old. As a filthy slapper I would have thrown myself at someone 15 years older than me at 18 and probably still would. If there is a mutual attraction there then go for it. Initially though just be friendly and respectful, with the odd compliment, and when you know her a bit honest with her.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

How would you react if it was your 18 year old relative?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'I'm single and haven't had sex for a long time'

Seems to me that her age is irrelevant, you just want to satisfy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't age difference advice, but should you come on to a housemate / lodger / friend etc.

You know how awkward / awesome it could be, not us.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I'm not really a swinger, as haven't met anyone to swing with. A new girl has moved into my house and she's very sexy. Except I'm 33 and she's 18. She's half naked most of the time and single. I'm single and haven't had sex for a long time. Help. "

Just because you are both single doesn't guarantee that you'll get together. Or have sex.

There will be a range of opinion from "go for it mate" - to "you perve!".

There is only one way to find out - ask her if she'd be interested. Okay - maybe not blurt it out like that - but see what the vibes are between you and work from there.

If all else fails - enjoy the show...

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By *rivingforceMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

Why not just be friends and see where it leads

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By *v_heatherTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Sounds like the start of a readers letter in a 1980s porn mag!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm not really a swinger, as haven't met anyone to swing with. A new girl has moved into my house and she's very sexy. Except I'm 33 and she's 18. She's half naked most of the time and single. I'm single and haven't had sex for a long time. Help.

Just because you are both single doesn't guarantee that you'll get together. Or have sex.

There will be a range of opinion from "go for it mate" - to "you perve!".

There is only one way to find out - ask her if she'd be interested. Okay - maybe not blurt it out like that - but see what the vibes are between you and work from there.

If all else fails - enjoy the show..."

Yep! And just because an 18 year old dresses in skimpy outfits doesn't mean she's necessarily looking for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way!

Wait and read the signals carefully...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we as a couple have a big age gap and find 80 per cent of peeps we contact say no cause of hubbys age . Does age matter

so age can matter .

We don't think so at all we 15 years apart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she fancies you or wants you she will show it in her own time.....

Easy tiger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we as a couple have a big age gap and find 80 per cent of peeps we contact say no cause of hubbys age . Does age matter

so age can matter .

We don't think so at all we 15 years apart"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you approach her and she's not interested, she may well feel threatened and unsafe in her own home.

Don't go there.

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