FabSwingers.com forum: well I need help....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I've been fucking this one girl for quite awhile now....I know her inside and out...while she hates to blow me, but loves when I go down on her, I get get her to do more then lick my cock a couple of times...I don't want to force her, as I do care about her and our relationship.... I want a bj just as much as she wants me to go down on her.

She also begs for my cock in her and loves to fuck me but she isn't a squiter and she's loud the entire time so I can't tell if I'm giving her any orgasms...I just want to make sure she's getting as much out of it as I am....what do y'all think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she doesn't like to suck then you'll just have to accept that. Could all the noise she makes be her faking it perhaps?

Try talking to her about making it better for her. Ask her what she especially enjoys.

Is she your girlfriend or just a FB?

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

You can't know her inside out if you don't know if you are giving her orgasms!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

errrrm, well, for a start, you could try talking to her.

have a chat, a giggle, a laugh, and maybe ask her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't tell if your giving her an orgasm....then chances are you are not.

Squirting isn't necessary for orgasm either, so it's not that.

Don't try to force her to give you bjs though....this will prevent her from relaxing and may be why she isn't having orgasms.

The scene in When Harry Met Sally has a lot to answer for in terms of VERY OBVIOUS FAKE ORGASMS!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Squirting does not necessarily mean she's having/had an orgasm anyway.

If she doesn't want to give you blow jobs then you can accept it or find another woman who will.

As others have said, talk to her.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Do you know the reason why she does not like giving blow jobs? Is it the fear of getting cum in her mouth? Does she think blow jobs 'are dirty'? You can still have lots of fun if she just uses her tongue underneath/around the head, ot running her lips along the length of the shaft.

If you find out why - then you might be able to experiment more.

I rarely cum from blow jobs - but on the rare occasion - I always give good notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've been fucking this one girl for quite awhile now....I know her inside and out...while she hates to blow me, but loves when I go down on her, I get get her to do more then lick my cock a couple of times...I don't want to force her, as I do care about her and our relationship.... I want a bj just as much as she wants me to go down on her.

Like they said have a conversation with her. I will give bjs but won't take it to completion as someone said previously, maybe she has a fear of cum in her mouth. I do have that fear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Squirting does not necessarily mean she's having/had an orgasm anyway.

If she doesn't want to give you blow jobs then you can accept it or find another woman who will.

As others have said, talk to her."

This

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

To be brutely honest neither of you sound very experienced which is more than likely the problem.

Squiting and orgasm are both pleasurable experiences but not the same and in my experience both require different stimulation its rare they occur together. Guys seem to quest after squirting like its the holy grail, its not, for me orgasm is the much more pleasurable of the two experiences so. Trust me if shes orgasmed youd know it. As for her she sound like shes wailing like a banshee, porn movie style as "thats what all men want" shows a lack of experience on he part too. So it might be time to move on so you can both find something more fulfilling.

Of course that merely my opinion

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Ask if you can watch her make herself cum. Then you'll know what noises she really makes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just accept her decision your lucky to be getting the rest or you could have a chat with your wife about it pmsfl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask if you can watch her make herself cum. Then you'll know what noises she really makes..."

this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice guys and gals. I'll start talking to her about it. Yes we are both inexperienced I guess you can say. I've been with plenty of girls but I only had sex with two of them...and she has been with me and one other guy but only played a little with him. They didn't go all the way. Well we will just have to go from there and I'll have to find a bj friend lol

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Just remember silence doesn't mean your sexual performance left her speechless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a silent partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Damn lol now I just feel like shit. Oh well I guess the only thing I can do is see what she says.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

The most important thing in any sexual relationship is communication. If you don't have that, there will be problems.

Hopefully you can both be clearer on what you like/dislike and want from your relationship, and have much more fun together. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn lol now I just feel like shit. Oh well I guess the only thing I can do is see what she says."

don't feel like shit. ask her what she likes and what she likes to be done and ask her to show you in turn you can show her what u like

sex is allabout fun too

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Tell her to sign up for the bad girls bible. It's a newsletter sent to her email On a regular basis . It's written for women be a man . It leads on to a link called the BJ bible . It's interesting and very helpful for you both . Telling us girls things we would never now because a man won't tell what he really really wants and a girl is not a mind reader .

Communication !!!

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