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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're you the flogger or the flogged

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Flogee!! I've tried spanking myself.... It's not the same

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Flogee!! I've tried spanking myself.... It's not the same "
. I am some experience from the bondage clubs in Cap d Agde . Control or lack of control can be an interesting experience .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what advice do you need as the flogee? I'm also a flogee and I just submit to what my Mistress decides I am to take.

She reads my signals and takes it slightly further than I can take. I've cried before. Absolute heaven

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you but I'm not really looking to get into bondage or anything like that... Just someone who enjoys spanking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm wondering wheres the best place to look for someone who's interested in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you but I'm not really looking to get into bondage or anything like that... Just someone who enjoys spanking "

Then all I can suggest is that you communicate with the person who is spanking you. Let them know what feels good and how hard you like it.

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering wheres the best place to look for someone who's interested in it "

Lots of people will soanking you if you just ask. As for someone who's really into it; be careful what you wish for! My tears were real!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Danny loves a good spanking, in fact she now requests such lol

The trick is to 1 alternate from cheek to cheek, 2 build on the momentum and ferocity 3 listen to your partner, enabling you to gage their comfort level, which you can gentle notch up from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have also tried canning, that takes a knowledgeable person to carry such activity out, very intense and enjoyable though!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm wondering wheres the best place to look for someone who's interested in it

Lots of people will soanking you if you just ask. As for someone who's really into it; be careful what you wish for! My tears were real!! "

Haha!! That's what I'm a bit worried about!! the guy that did it before had a fabric cat o nine tails whip (not sure if that's what it's proper name is!!)

And sort of built the strength up while stroking and playing..... Very erotic !!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like to be flogged every now and again. It's very enjoyable if the person doing it gets in right. Start off lightly, building up. Give them little signs when you like it by sticking your arse up a bit, lol. My problem is I left my fave flogger in a hotel room and I haven't replaced it yet!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the fetish markets. very friendly people who will happily chat. Birmingham is the brum bizarre bazaar. London is the London alternative market or the London fetish fair. If you don't fancy that,maybe we could meet up for a chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all your advice,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

You don't have to be into any other part of the Bdsm scene to enjoy flogging. Many people enjoy it on it's own. We would suggest you find someone or some people who enjoy the same thing, tell them what you are looking for and if you feel comfortable with them and they do with you the just enjoy what you enjoy.. Good luck with your search. We would suggest you check out your local Fet munch. There will be one in your area.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi,

You don't have to be into any other part of the Bdsm scene to enjoy flogging. Many people enjoy it on it's own. We would suggest you find someone or some people who enjoy the same thing, tell them what you are looking for and if you feel comfortable with them and they do with you the just enjoy what you enjoy.. Good luck with your search. We would suggest you check out your local Fet munch. There will be one in your area. "

Thanks I always thought they were for the serious bdsm peeps, so I'll check it out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go onto Fetlife and all local munches are listed. Just go along and have a good chat with others that are into the BDSM scene they are not all hardened lol

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

To give the spank an extra zing try it with a slightly wetted hand/bum.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience "

We've recently got into this and we're enjoying it so much....exploring and testing our limits is exciting and surprising...loving being tied up, spanked and whipped...

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience

We've recently got into this and we're enjoying it so much....exploring and testing our limits is exciting and surprising...loving being tied up, spanked and whipped... "

I think you need to find someone you trust and have a go. As long as you read their reactions it's great fun. We recently bought a crop as the flogger wasn't enough for Mr so the experimentation continues

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience

We've recently got into this and we're enjoying it so much....exploring and testing our limits is exciting and surprising...loving being tied up, spanked and whipped...

I think you need to find someone you trust and have a go. As long as you read their reactions it's great fun. We recently bought a crop as the flogger wasn't enough for Mr so the experimentation continues "

Trust is key! As soon as Paul puts the collar & blindfold on me I get wet with excitement and anticipation...I know that if something is too much for me he will ease up...my pleasure is his...as his is mine...

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience

We've recently got into this and we're enjoying it so much....exploring and testing our limits is exciting and surprising...loving being tied up, spanked and whipped...

I think you need to find someone you trust and have a go. As long as you read their reactions it's great fun. We recently bought a crop as the flogger wasn't enough for Mr so the experimentation continues

Trust is key! As soon as Paul puts the collar & blindfold on me I get wet with excitement and anticipation...I know that if something is too much for me he will ease up...my pleasure is his...as his is mine... "

The right words whispered in your ear at the right moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't have anyone like that so that's why I was trying to go down the ' someone who knows what their going' route instead!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to hook up with couples that have experience. Then either have a private type trial play with them, ie observe them in BDSM activity, then have them try it on you.

Who knows you may progress onto BDSM events at clubs with them also.

What fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think your right. It's quite difficult to explain what I want over text!! Thanks x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience

We've recently got into this and we're enjoying it so much....exploring and testing our limits is exciting and surprising...loving being tied up, spanked and whipped...

I think you need to find someone you trust and have a go. As long as you read their reactions it's great fun. We recently bought a crop as the flogger wasn't enough for Mr so the experimentation continues

Trust is key! As soon as Paul puts the collar & blindfold on me I get wet with excitement and anticipation...I know that if something is too much for me he will ease up...my pleasure is his...as his is mine...

The right words whispered in your ear at the right moment "

The sudden sting of a smack on the buttocks...or the biting of a nipple...

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


" right words whispered in your ear at the right moment

The sudden sting of a smack on the buttocks...or the biting of a nipple... "

I just got one of those...... And I wasn't the one who had been wanking without permission!

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By *aven QueenWoman
over a year ago

Putney

I absolutely love being spanked and flogged - had some brilliant experiences at clubs - good place to meet and if u ask usually they are more than willing to show u the right way : )

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By *ns2006Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Is there anyone that could give me some advice about flogging and spanking? I had a very enjoyable experience but I'm not sure where to take it from there! I'm not hugely interested in getting into the fet scene but I'd very much like to find someone with my shared intrest who has a bit of experience "

Hi, we go to fetish meetings at Liberty Elite, good fun get back to us if you would like some more info.

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple
over a year ago

South wales

Got flogged for the first time last night really enjoyed it

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have also tried canning, that takes a knowledgeable person to carry such activity out, very intense and enjoyable though!!!"

I can recommend a man with a cane, he knows what he's doing.

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