FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had my fair share of being let down and messaging that has gone nowhere.

I'm not one for reporting or naming and shaming.

But what is the rule when you do get let down by someone who is deliberately wasting your time and others time.

I felt compelled to report a couple of profiles that really wasted my time and people that I arranged to meet with them.

These profiles are still online and the only thing that seamed to have happened is a block of profiles.

When reporting a time wasting profile...Is it (for an easy fix) best practice for administration just to just block one another?

To me it looks like avoidance of the bigger issue of horrid profiles of people who get kicks out of feeling wanted.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

In my opinion the only true time waster is someone who arranged a meet then didn't turn up, and 'forgot' to let me know.

Not getting the result you want from a chat on here is not time wasting. Its frustrating and annoying, but as you were on Fab anyway then how is it wasting your time? If however the people in question have actually not turned up for a meet, report them and move on.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It depends on your definition of timewaster, if you have just exchanged messages then nothing further? Not a timewaster, if you arranged to meet and they failed to turn up with no prior warning, that is a timewaster and time to report

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

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If have been pursuing a man posing as a woman online which is all too common on Fab but still very irritating but you are only wasting your own time if you don't phone up to check if the person is really female.

If it was really a female or couple I guess they just got fed up of you or didn't like what they found when they started to get to know you better. Time was spent but not necessarily wasted for them But I can see how you may feel it may have been wasted for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet arranged for tonight chatted on the fone on sunday and was texting all sunday night then boom nothing txt him today to say that I guess the meet was off still nothing... would he be classed as a time waster or just someone who had cold feet or somthing else cropped up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion the only true time waster is someone who arranged a meet then didn't turn up, and 'forgot' to let anyone know.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I had a meet arranged for tonight chatted on the fone on sunday and was texting all sunday night then boom nothing txt him today to say that I guess the meet was off still nothing... would he be classed as a time waster or just someone who had cold feet or somthing else cropped up?"

He's a coward*, but unless you put your make up on, or cancelled another potential meet, he's probably not a time waster.

* Unless he got struck by lightning or something.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

These profiles are still online and the only thing that seamed to have happened is a block of profiles.

When reporting a time wasting profile...Is it (for an easy fix) best practice for administration just to just block one another? "

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

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By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.

So just because you dont know what action Admin have taken when they reviewed your report it doesnt mean to say that no action has been taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's a coward*, but unless you put your make up on, or cancelled another potential meet, he's probably not a time waster.

* Unless he got struck by lightning or something."

I put off goin to zumba!! And left it too late to arrange anything else lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I put off goin to zumba!! And left it too late to arrange anything else lol"

The cad!! I hardly ever postpone fitness for a meet. They can work round my plans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What nonsense, a time waster are only those that don't turn up. On the basis that the weeks of corresponding on line to them ie being on Fab you would be doing anyway...

Yes you maybe on fab anyway, but equally you may have spent your time and energy talking to someone who actually met with you and did not bail out at the last minute, for no good reason.

We all know and except that things can happen in life, but a genuine person would contact the other person/persons asap out of pure decency and not just ignore messages or de-friend or block etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What nonsense, a time waster are only those that don't turn up. On the basis that the weeks of corresponding on line to them ie being on Fab you would be doing anyway...

Yes you maybe on fab anyway, but equally you may have spent your time and energy talking to someone who actually met with you and did not bail out at the last minute, for no good reason.

We all know and except that things can happen in life, but a genuine person would contact the other person/persons asap out of pure decency and not just ignore messages or de-friend or block etc "

Spot on...a timewaster is only someone who arranges an exact date and time and location and then does not turn up, or offers a very poor excuse for cancelling last minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had my fair share of being let down and messaging that has gone nowhere.

I'm not one for reporting or naming and shaming.

But what is the rule when you do get let down by someone who is deliberately wasting your time and others time.

I felt compelled to report a couple of profiles that really wasted my time and people that I arranged to meet with them.

These profiles are still online and the only thing that seamed to have happened is a block of profiles.

When reporting a time wasting profile...Is it (for an easy fix) best practice for administration just to just block one another?

To me it looks like avoidance of the bigger issue of horrid profiles of people who get kicks out of feeling wanted. "

For someone who claims to be 'not one for reporting' you seem to report a lot of profiles.

Why go back and check on them?

And maybe look at your own part in this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put off goin to zumba!! And left it too late to arrange anything else lol

The cad!! I hardly ever postpone fitness for a meet. They can work round my plans.

i just wouldnt have had the time to shower and make the train to meet him lol aw well tomorrow morning is another day and another meet

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

In our experience there are very few real time wasters on fab - just people who don't do exactly what you want them to do when you want them to do it. Although they are quickly labelled timewasters in many cases they are simply individuals with agendas that don't match your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a time waster, I spend far too much time on the XBOX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a timewaster cos I spend my time down at the gym lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a timewaster cos I spend my time down at the gym lol

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thats not time wasted dude.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a timewaster cos I spend my time down at the gym lol

thats not time wasted dude......."
That's right, its time gained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless your sat hogging a bench and texting/bookfacing/wotsupping etc............in which case, get off the bench and let someone else use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unless your sat hogging a bench and texting/bookfacing/wotsupping etc............in which case, get off the bench and let someone else use it

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Yes or that. I do check my fone and fab between the sets to make the time go quicker there, mind you they can wait for the bench for 5 more min lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In our experience there are very few real time wasters on fab - just people who don't do exactly what you want them to do when you want them to do it. Although they are quickly labelled timewasters in many cases they are simply individuals with agendas that don't match your own."

Nonsense... if they engage you and your time and you have exchanged details,ie face pictures and then progressed onto passing on telephone numbers to simplify arranging a place and date of a potential meet (without pressure of play, more social really) then a day or two before, after weeks of converse taking place. They either delete their friendship with you, or/and block without reason. Then surely that must constitute a time waster?

Adult activities require adult approaches... the above example is certainly not being mature enough to be open and honest and simply say that they are sorry and have progressed a little too fast into the scene.

That is very much accepted by decent people and fully understood.

However, it still constitutes a waste of time without such an explanation...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about if u exchange texts n pics, arrange to meet at their hse (cpl) turn up late cos u got lost, which they knew cos were giving u more directions. Drink sum wine gud chat seemingly all well. Bedtime n they go to theirs u go to the spare...nothing happens.go to the bathroom n hear them having sex. Wld they b considered time wasters........

Be very interested to hearing anyones thoughts on this. Tks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was sex on the agenda before the meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely! "

Then that's pretty bad form on their part and a waste of an evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats what I thought. Waste of an overnite babysitter aswel! pratically got kicked out the next morning! Left in a haze of confusion n horniness...is that even a word...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats what I thought. Waste of an overnite babysitter aswel! pratically got kicked out the next morning! Left in a haze of confusion n horniness...is that even a word...lol "

Aww that's not nice. There's no excuse of course but perhaps they got cold feet when it came to the realism of being faced with a 3sum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps. Did send text for explanation. They said I had got there late, they had had mayb too much too drink n werent really in the mood. Of course had they told me this when I arrived I cld have chatted n left. Cldnt leave after few glasses of wine!!

Confused initially but then got more annoyed at their behavior. How rude n ignorant he was.

Ah well...live n learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons so call "timewaster" can be someone else's great meet, how can you ever really tell.

Annoying but strike it up to experience.

If someone's repeatedly not showing and being reported Then yes should be removed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had my fair share of being let down and messaging that has gone nowhere.

I'm not one for reporting or naming and shaming.

But what is the rule when you do get let down by someone who is deliberately wasting your time and others time.

I felt compelled to report a couple of profiles that really wasted my time and people that I arranged to meet with them.

These profiles are still online and the only thing that seamed to have happened is a block of profiles.

When reporting a time wasting profile...Is it (for an easy fix) best practice for administration just to just block one another?

To me it looks like avoidance of the bigger issue of horrid profiles of people who get kicks out of feeling wanted.

For someone who claims to be 'not one for reporting' you seem to report a lot of profiles.

Why go back and check on them?

And maybe look at your own part in this"

I have only reported two profiles that did no show for an arranged meet and did not contact me before or afterwards.

I have been let down quite a few times and I always put it down to experience and moved on.

But when someone ask to arrange for another couple to join and then decide not to show...Well proves very embarrassing.

I am not a serial reporter...Just wondered the rule on what happens once reported.

Thanks for all the constructive feedback.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"In my opinion the only true time waster is someone who arranged a meet then didn't turn up, and 'forgot' to let anyone know.

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My definition too.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

That is very much accepted by decent people and fully understood.

However, it still constitutes a waste of time without such an explanation... "

I'm really sorry but we said "in our experience". On what authority do you call our experience "nonsense"?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Recently we've had two couples who've arranged to meet, and either the day before or on the day when I've tried to confirm I get the "just waiting for x/y/z, we'll get back to you" and we've not heard anything further. To us, that's a timewaster.

As our time is very limited at the moment, it gives us no time to arrange another meet with someone who does actually want to meet us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had my fair share of being let down and messaging that has gone nowhere.

I'm not one for reporting or naming and shaming.

But what is the rule when you do get let down by someone who is deliberately wasting your time and others time.

I felt compelled to report a couple of profiles that really wasted my time and people that I arranged to meet with them.

These profiles are still online and the only thing that seamed to have happened is a block of profiles.

When reporting a time wasting profile...Is it (for an easy fix) best practice for administration just to just block one another?

To me it looks like avoidance of the bigger issue of horrid profiles of people who get kicks out of feeling wanted.

For someone who claims to be 'not one for reporting' you seem to report a lot of profiles.

Why go back and check on them?

And maybe look at your own part in this

I have only reported two profiles that did no show for an arranged meet and did not contact me before or afterwards.

I have been let down quite a few times and I always put it down to experience and moved on.

But when someone ask to arrange for another couple to join and then decide not to show...Well proves very embarrassing.

I am not a serial reporter...Just wondered the rule on what happens once reported.

Thanks for all the constructive feedback. "

As I said if you are someone 'that has been let down quite a few times' you need to look at your own part in this. You are the only constant factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about if u exchange texts n pics, arrange to meet at their hse (cpl) turn up late cos u got lost, which they knew cos were giving u more directions. Drink sum wine gud chat seemingly all well. Bedtime n they go to theirs u go to the spare...nothing happens.go to the bathroom n hear them having sex. Wld they b considered time wasters........

Be very interested to hearing anyones thoughts on this. Tks

Maybe they just didn't fancy you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is very much accepted by decent people and fully understood.

However, it still constitutes a waste of time without such an explanation... "

So following your logic to it's natural conclusion at what point are they committed to meeting and playing with you?

Because people changing their mind doesn't make them a timewaster.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

That is very much accepted by decent people and fully understood.

However, it still constitutes a waste of time without such an explanation...

So following your logic to it's natural conclusion at what point are they committed to meeting and playing with you?

Because people changing their mind doesn't make them a timewaster. "

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Because people changing their mind doesn't make them a timewaster. "

No, but people not bothering to tell you that they've changed their mind are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because people changing their mind doesn't make them a timewaster.

No, but people not bothering to tell you that they've changed their mind are."

That is our point exactly, however it would appear that some feel that that is ok, the weeks spent talking and arranging dates and exchanging telephone numbers etc seems to be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently drove 30 mins to a guys house. Turned up. Was a message on my phone 'gone to pub. Maybe another time'. Decided he wasn't just a time waster... He was also a grade A knobhead!! ??

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Because people changing their mind doesn't make them a timewaster.

No, but people not bothering to tell you that they've changed their mind are.

That is our point exactly, however it would appear that some feel that that is ok, the weeks spent talking and arranging dates and exchanging telephone numbers etc seems to be ok

I just don't understand why people can't show basic manners. We're all adults and can take it. We'd rather know and arrange something else than be left dangling and not get to meet someone we wanted to

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I recently drove 30 mins to a guys house. Turned up. Was a message on my phone 'gone to pub. Maybe another time'. Decided he wasn't just a time waster... He was also a grade A knobhead!! ??"

Totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recently drove 30 mins to a guys house. Turned up. Was a message on my phone 'gone to pub. Maybe another time'. Decided he wasn't just a time waster... He was also a grade A knobhead!! ??"

Definitely a knobhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because people changing their mind doesn't make them a timewaster.

No, but people not bothering to tell you that they've changed their mind are."

Did them not blocking you a day or 2 before the planned meet not give you a clue that they'd changed their mond?

Granted it's a shitty way to tell you but it's pretty clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recently drove 30 mins to a guys house. Turned up. Was a message on my phone 'gone to pub. Maybe another time'. Decided he wasn't just a time waster... He was also a grade A knobhead!! ??"

Yes indeed.....

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Because people changing their mind doesn't make them a timewaster.

No, but people not bothering to tell you that they've changed their mind are.

Did them not blocking you a day or 2 before the planned meet not give you a clue that they'd changed their mond?

Granted it's a shitty way to tell you but it's pretty clear"

No one blocked us, someone else said that further up I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recently drove 30 mins to a guys house. Turned up. Was a message on my phone 'gone to pub. Maybe another time'. Decided he wasn't just a time waster... He was also a grade A knobhead!! ??"

Crickey, why would anyone choose the pub over a meet with you??

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Time wasting is a mater for perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im wasting time in chat when i should be doing stuff LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" For someone who claims to be 'not one for reporting' you seem to report a lot of profiles.

Why go back and check on them?

And maybe look at your own part in this

I have only reported two profiles that did no show for an arranged meet and did not contact me before or afterwards.

I have been let down quite a few times and I always put it down to experience and moved on.

But when someone ask to arrange for another couple to join and then decide not to show...Well proves very embarrassing.

I am not a serial reporter...Just wondered the rule on what happens once reported.

Thanks for all the constructive feedback.

As I said if you are someone 'that has been let down quite a few times' you need to look at your own part in this. You are the only constant factor"

I do not agree at all why I need to look at my part in this as I am the constant factor.

I would say that maybe I can make a few bad choices as in arranging meets with non - verified guys and new profiles...Sometimes I may get carried away with being taken in by kind messages and arrangements of a meet. It is I who has fallen victim to some of the dreamers on here. I have been very lucky to have met some great people on fab, so being let down from time to time is just one of those things that happens to us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" For someone who claims to be 'not one for reporting' you seem to report a lot of profiles.

Why go back and check on them?

And maybe look at your own part in this

I have only reported two profiles that did no show for an arranged meet and did not contact me before or afterwards.

I have been let down quite a few times and I always put it down to experience and moved on.

But when someone ask to arrange for another couple to join and then decide not to show...Well proves very embarrassing.

I am not a serial reporter...Just wondered the rule on what happens once reported.

Thanks for all the constructive feedback.

As I said if you are someone 'that has been let down quite a few times' you need to look at your own part in this. You are the only constant factor

I do not agree at all why I need to look at my part in this as I am the constant factor.

You regularly get let down, you have fallen victim to dreamers and admit to get taken in. And you don't need to look at your approach?

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we had our very first meet with a guy today, and were so nervous he wouldn't show, but he did and was lovely, think we'd have been GUTTED by a no-show. Sure that will happen at som epoint but today we are well happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" For someone who claims to be 'not one for reporting' you seem to report a lot of profiles.

Why go back and check on them?

And maybe look at your own part in this

I have only reported two profiles that did no show for an arranged meet and did not contact me before or afterwards.

I have been let down quite a few times and I always put it down to experience and moved on.

But when someone ask to arrange for another couple to join and then decide not to show...Well proves very embarrassing.

I am not a serial reporter...Just wondered the rule on what happens once reported.

Thanks for all the constructive feedback.

As I said if you are someone 'that has been let down quite a few times' you need to look at your own part in this. You are the only constant factor

I do not agree at all why I need to look at my part in this as I am the constant factor.

You regularly get let down, you have fallen victim to dreamers and admit to get taken in. And you don't need to look at your approach?

No not at all due to i would say that I'm being let down by a very small minority on here so maintain a positive attitude with my approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we had our very first meet with a guy today, and were so nervous he wouldn't show, but he did and was lovely, think we'd have been GUTTED by a no-show. Sure that will happen at som epoint but today we are well happy

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Glad it went well

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

thank you boobs n balls and jack n danny, buzzing this morning!

Happy Friday everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reporting time wasters?

What next? Reporting that someone gave you a funny look in Tesco? Reporting that the weather failed to match the forecast?

Get over it. It's life and unfortunately due to the tittilating nature of this site, there will be many participants on this and other sites who are here for pure curiosity. I think the formal term is Wankers.

I've met people, I've been let down by people and I've had to cancel the odd meet too... It's life.

I've swapped two messages and been in bed screwing within the hour and spent months chatting to people before meeting.

Some like to explore and question and verify and have birth certificates produced before agreeing to meet. Others grab the opportunity for some mutual fun at the drop of a hat.

Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, often it's exhilarating other times frustrating.

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel that sometimes I am wasting my time

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Men are like buses ... there will be another one along in a few mins ... and sometimes two turn up at the same time ...

Mmwah xxxx...... NEXT !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are like buses ... there will be another one along in a few mins ... and sometimes two turn up at the same time ...

Mmwah xxxx...... NEXT !!!!!!!

One bus would be a miracle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So let me see if I get the gist of this thread .

After spending time chatting on here , exchangiing numbers making phone calls etc .... and finally arranging to meet up , at the time of meeting one party pulls out or doesn't show with no explanation .

Does this make them a timewaster ?

Of course it does !

What staggers me is that some think it doesn't

Changing ones mind is fine , but to not explain and spend all that time arranging is a complete waste of time and begs the question as to the initial motive .

Which part of it is not waste of time pray tell ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do consider myself a newbie here so if I ask dumb ass questions, I apologise.

But I would like to thank you all for your views....Very interesting reading them.

Please be assured that i'm not one to dwell on as posted "wankers" on here and do move on and have my share of fun and frolics on here and I'm sure it will continue.

Firm believer in not letting a small minority spoil my very enjoyable experience on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recently drove 30 mins to a guys house. Turned up. Was a message on my phone 'gone to pub. Maybe another time'. Decided he wasn't just a time waster... He was also a grade A knobhead!! ??

Definitely a knobhead.

We've had that too. Wonders if he was the same "knobhead" that agreed to meet us in the pub and then didn't show up to meet us. When we got home there was a message telling us one of his mates had called round and he'd had to go out for a drink with him instead. Why do people post on meet today and do that ?

Needless to say he got short shrift next time he contacted us.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I recently drove 30 mins to a guys house. Turned up. Was a message on my phone 'gone to pub. Maybe another time'. Decided he wasn't just a time waster... He was also a grade A knobhead!! ??

Definitely a knobhead.

He deserves to be called something stronger than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What nonsense, a time waster are only those that don't turn up. On the basis that the weeks of corresponding on line to them ie being on Fab you would be doing anyway...

Yes you maybe on fab anyway, but equally you may have spent your time and energy talking to someone who actually met with you and did not bail out at the last minute, for no good reason.

We all know and except that things can happen in life, but a genuine person would contact the other person/persons asap out of pure decency and not just ignore messages or de-friend or block etc "

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