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By *uzzb OP   Man
over a year ago

nr Sherborne

Hi

I'm a gay male and love being fucked. Trouble is, sometimes the big boys go so deep it hurts. I have resorted to asking to be flat topped, once the cock is in. That's much nicer for me, but I wondered if the top gets as much satisfaction? All the other positions seem to have the same problem for me - anyone any advice, please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I'm a gay male and love being fucked. Trouble is, sometimes the big boys go so deep it hurts. I have resorted to asking to be flat topped, once the cock is in. That's much nicer for me, but I wondered if the top gets as much satisfaction? All the other positions seem to have the same problem for me - anyone any advice, please?"

Well only meet/sleep with people who respect your boundaries...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flat topped? As in without your legs bent?

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

why not get on top

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By *uzzb OP   Man
over a year ago

nr Sherborne

flat topped = me flat on my front and the other guy flat on top - just like missionary although I'm the wrong way up !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"flat topped = me flat on my front and the other guy flat on top - just like missionary although I'm the wrong way up !"

Oh. Ok. Didn't know it was called that. It's still great. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the female half of the couple here so probably completely different...but at certain times my cervix is at a slightly different angle and most positions with a big guy are erm uncomfortable, the best for me at those times is being flat topped so similar to what you say...but I also find spooning positions ok...or where I'm in a little spoon position with a leg up and hes in a kneeling up kinda position but I control the depth more with my leg...not sure if that translates, or if thats not worked for you already, but either way my other half gets as much out of it as me...cant imagine it would be any different for yours

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By *ockCuckerMan
over a year ago

Wirral

That position is how i used to be bummed, as we called it, when i was a teen

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By *exy hot wife 84Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Its a fantasy of mine to see my hubby getting fucked! How should i go about asking him?

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Just point him in the direction of this thread he will soon get the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a fantasy of mine to see my hubby getting fucked! How should i go about asking him?"
dont ask, TELL him

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I call it flat doggy.

TM of a much loved and missed friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My solution to not getting hurt by guys with big cocks was don't meet guys with big cocks, only meet guys with cocks you can manage and don't hurt you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't listen to me!! Been to a sauna today; he was huge! My insides have taken a battering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I'm a gay male and love being fucked. Trouble is, sometimes the big boys go so deep it hurts. I have resorted to asking to be flat topped, once the cock is in. That's much nicer for me, but I wondered if the top gets as much satisfaction? All the other positions seem to have the same problem for me - anyone any advice, please?

Well only meet/sleep with people who respect your boundaries..."

This^^^

If a guy is just ramming in their knowing he's causing you discomfort/pain, then he's not a gent!!

I will always wait for the "fuck me deeper/harder" confirmation before I go ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I'm a gay male and love being fucked. Trouble is, sometimes the big boys go so deep it hurts. I have resorted to asking to be flat topped, once the cock is in. That's much nicer for me, but I wondered if the top gets as much satisfaction? All the other positions seem to have the same problem for me - anyone any advice, please?

Well only meet/sleep with people who respect your boundaries...

This^^^

If a guy is just ramming in their knowing he's causing you discomfort/pain, then he's not a gent!!

I will always wait for the "fuck me deeper/harder" confirmation before I go ahead. "

I quite liked it rough but my bum knows about it this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of us like rough sex, but i, personally, don't like causing "uncomfortable pain", thats why i wait for the go ahead people should be able to tell when the person on the receiving end isn't enjoying it.

But true, nothing quite like getting that message saying "my pussy/ass is broken today, thanks" that there is good, when there is no message, that is not so good

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By *uzzb OP   Man
over a year ago

nr Sherborne

thanks everyone. Seems to me I need more experience (so a very nice private messager has suggested) and things will settle down. Also watch out for the big blokes with a big hammer !!

Now I just need to get over the problem of going a bit soft when I try to fuck someone - by the time the condom is on and lubed, and I've found the hole, its gone from ramrod to - well - not so ramrod !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try skyns condoms. Much more sensitivity and they don't taste yuk so I can continue with a helpful BJ for my lovers to ensure ramrod status is preserved

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By *uzzb OP   Man
over a year ago

nr Sherborne

thanks - worth a try.

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