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Getting introduced to the club scene

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys, I'm just wondering how is it best to get introduced to the club scene? I'm 18, a virgin and the thought of going to a club terrifies me.

Also if there are any couples or ladies in the Liverpool region who is willing to help me get started I would be eternally grateful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, I'm just wondering how is it best to get introduced to the club scene? I'm 18, a virgin and the thought of going to a club terrifies me.

Also if there are any couples or ladies in the Liverpool region who is willing to help me get started I would be eternally grateful "

You do not get introduced. Just go.

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Maybe ask the couple who verified you???

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Not many clubs would let you in to be honest. 21 seems to be the minimum age for most clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if i could of gone to a club when i was 18, even though i wasnt a virgin it would have still scared me

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By *iccardaTV/TS
over a year ago

Wallasey

Townhouse is on the Wirral and probably your closest club if you are in Liverpool if you contact them they will be happy to chat about coming over to see the club and possibly becoming a member

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Townhouse is on the Wirral and probably your closest club if you are in Liverpool if you contact them they will be happy to chat about coming over to see the club and possibly becoming a member "

That was the one I was intending to go to

I think phoning them might be for the best

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By *iccardaTV/TS
over a year ago

Wallasey

i can assure You the owners are wonderful, give them a ring now, Wednesday is open night when they show potential new members round

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"i can assure You the owners are wonderful, give them a ring now, Wednesday is open night when they show potential new members round"

It's a great club and full of friendly people. Don't think too hard about it - just do it! You won't look back and will wonder why so were so worried xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i can assure You the owners are wonderful, give them a ring now, Wednesday is open night when they show potential new members round

It's a great club and full of friendly people. Don't think too hard about it - just do it! You won't look back and will wonder why so were so worried xx "

Thanks guys, making me feel a lot more assured about going to Townhouse

Do either of you want to accompany me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i can assure You the owners are wonderful, give them a ring now, Wednesday is open night when they show potential new members round

It's a great club and full of friendly people. Don't think too hard about it - just do it! You won't look back and will wonder why so were so worried xx

Thanks guys, making me feel a lot more assured about going to Townhouse

Do either of you want to accompany me?"

There's a FAB social @ Townhouse, Friday 27th Feb, take a look in the swinging club/event ads section for more details.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"i can assure You the owners are wonderful, give them a ring now, Wednesday is open night when they show potential new members round

It's a great club and full of friendly people. Don't think too hard about it - just do it! You won't look back and will wonder why so were so worried xx

Thanks guys, making me feel a lot more assured about going to Townhouse

Do either of you want to accompany me?"

Why do you need someone to accompany you hun?

If you are joining you'll need to go for the induction so we can't come on that with you, you'll have to be brave and go it alone! There'll be other newbies there too so don't worry.

Alternatively come to the Fab social on 27th Feb. You don't need to be a member to come, just get your name on the guest list. There will be lots of new people that night so might make you feel more at ease x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll check out the Fab meet on the 27th, thanks again guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Townhouse is a great choice, you certainly won't regret it, they are really friendly and will make sure that you feel welcomed.

Just be friendly and respectful yourself and you'll have a fabulous time. The Fab social is shaping up to be a great night so having your name down for that would be a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the messages guys, gonna put my name down for the social i think

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Sorry to rain on your parade but you're 18 and a virgin and have youth going for you and the prospect of going to I university and you're on a swingers site.

Why aren't you down at Vodka Revolution or Yates Wine Lodge chatting up girls of your own age and developing your own sexual history and skills, as opposed to coming on here?

If it's about losing your virginity then no doubt someone might decide to help you out as a novelty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to rain on your parade but you're 18 and a virgin and have youth going for you and the prospect of going to I university and you're on a swingers site.

Why aren't you down at Vodka Revolution or Yates Wine Lodge chatting up girls of your own age and developing your own sexual history and skills, as opposed to coming on here?

If it's about losing your virginity then no doubt someone might decide to help you out as a novelty. "

Fancy keeping your negativity away from he here mate? It's my own choice what I do sexually so I don't think you need to concern yourself with what I should be doing

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

It's a forum....

If you don't want to read negative responses then perhaps you've not fully grasped the concept of free speech. You might want to brush up on that before you get to university.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Sorry to rain on your parade but you're 18 and a virgin and have youth going for you and the prospect of going to I university and you're on a swingers site.

Why aren't you down at Vodka Revolution or Yates Wine Lodge chatting up girls of your own age and developing your own sexual history and skills, as opposed to coming on here?

If it's about losing your virginity then no doubt someone might decide to help you out as a novelty.

Fancy keeping your negativity away from he here mate? It's my own choice what I do sexually so I don't think you need to concern yourself with what I should be doing"

I really do not think that the advice given was 'negativity' but rather an alternative choice which you may wish to consider

I for one, also think that someone that young would be better off developing life-skills in the big-wide vanilla world before making the decision to restrict themselves to swinger's clubs. The choice however, is yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting introduced to the club scene is easy. All you have to do is choose a club and go along. Honestly though we would say you're a little young but that's just our opinion.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There's a guy on another post on here looking for someone to go to his first club with. Might be worth contacting him.

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