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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

OMG, I would have died

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not a weirdo.

I'm just thinking the office isn't the best place....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not a weirdo.

I'm just thinking the office isn't the best place...."

Oops sorry I'm meant not a pevert, where did weirdo come from

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Forum Mod
over a year ago

You're not a weirdo,just on a differrnt sexual level to him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry, should of pointed out that he has his own office, with enough privacy to fuck me in when it suits him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I worked there

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, should of pointed out that he has his own office, with enough privacy to fuck me in when it suits him lol"

You've fucked during office hours?!

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

He's boring lol

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

No you're not.... Trust me, there are PLENTY out there who would love to be in a casual relationship with a woman like yourself and one that's actually creative about it too.

Just accept that with this particular individual, you maybe need to just float ideas a bit first - but don't change. I was made to feel guilty for being me when I was younger and it takes a lot to undo it.

Keep having fun.

D

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

He is just not kinky that's all,just because fiolks love sex does not make them kinky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're not a weirdo,just on a differrnt sexual level to him "
yes definately, I now feel our 'relationship' has certainly lost its appeal after he made me feel so aweful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

You don't share the same sexual fantasies and or maybe he respects its an office

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish I worked there"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy is a weirdo for not finding that hot!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's boring lol "

I agree with this.

Loads of guys would love your idea OP, it's well sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hot to trot if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he wants things on his terms, and doesn't like someone so forward. But don't feel bad about it. His loss at the end of the day. And next time he wants to fuck you in his office, just make an excuse not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fantasticly sexy idea... I think would have run to follow out my side of the deal!!

You're not a pervert or a weirdo and gave nothing to worry about... You just have a different level of kink to him.

Tell us if he apologises once he's realised what he's done!

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By *1212Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I would of bent you over there and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me like you might have caught him o the hop, give him a few days and he may well ask you for what you wanted. If not just shrug it off, we don't all have the same level of naughty thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time you're looking for a new job.................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aren't weird or a pervert and he's an ass hole for making you feel bad.

I'd have it out with him tell him not everything is in his control . Sounds to me that's his kink. He decides when and how.

He also owes you an apology. It's okay to not have the same tastes but wrong to make someone feel bad about themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a pervert

I would find that a hot fun thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a pervert

I would find that a hot fun thing to do.

"

Agreed. That would have me climbing the walls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, if HE doesnt want them....

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By *xpatscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the

knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

OMG your not a weirdo. I'd have been that horny I'd have used n filled your knickers right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the

knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?

OMG your not a weirdo. I'd have been that horny I'd have used n filled your knickers right there"

Glad I don't work in the same office as you then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's very sexy not weird at all

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"You're not a weirdo,just on a differrnt sexual level to him yes definately, I now feel our 'relationship' has certainly lost its appeal after he made me feel so aweful "

Hes a twat... if a girl in my office had done that to me....there would have been a huricane bow past you with the speed of my exit..... or we woud have locked the door and sorted it out there.. what a turn on....

I recon he felt he lost control and didnt like it x

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

No I think that was so horny

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

While it's not something that appeals to me, he was rude and insensitive in his response. Talk to him and tell him that he offended you, and give him the opportunity to apologise. He was probably startled and spoke without thinking.

Once he's apologised, discuss what your likes and dislikes are, so incidents like that don't happen again. If you want to keep seeing him, obviously.

By the by, office sex is a lot of fun. There's not many places in my work where Mr and I haven't got frisky

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

Taking the devil's advocate here, you probably took him off guard. He probably thinks the office is not an appropriate place for any 'hanky panky', unless you both have played there before? Furthermore, maybe getting caught in the office and his partner finding out, isnot his idea of fun. Maybe it was something that should have been discussed previously. Give it a few days and see how he responds. If you get no further response from him, shrug it off and find someone not so vanillia as him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish things like that happened in my work place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You aren't weird or a pervert and he's an ass hole for making you feel bad.

I'd have it out with him tell him not everything is in his control . Sounds to me that's his kink. He decides when and how.

He also owes you an apology. It's okay to not have the same tastes but wrong to make someone feel bad about themselves "

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By *himneyMan
over a year ago

South London

No way a pervert, just a highly sexual woman with a desire to show him your deep inner feelings for him. Well done

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Perhaps hed just shagged his wife or girfriend and hadnt got another cum in him yet?

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over a year ago

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Taking the devil's advocate here, you probably took him off guard. He probably thinks the office is not an appropriate place for any 'hanky panky', unless you both have played there before? Furthermore, maybe getting caught in the office and his partner finding out, isnot his idea of fun. Maybe it was something that should have been discussed previously. Give it a few days and see how he responds. If you get no further response from him, shrug it off and find someone not so vanillia as him."

The OP has said that they have had sex in the office 'when it suits him', so it sounds like a level of what was sexually appropriatene had already been established.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"You're not a weirdo,just on a differrnt sexual level to him yes definately, I now feel our 'relationship' has certainly lost its appeal after he made me feel so aweful "

Was he having a bad day? Lol.. Tell him to do one.

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By *immy AndrexCouple
over a year ago

OLDHAM

Wow ! I'd be straight in the toilet sniffing your knickers whilst wanking off

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By *immy AndrexCouple
over a year ago

OLDHAM


"You're not a weirdo,just on a differrnt sexual level to him yes definately, I now feel our 'relationship' has certainly lost its appeal after he made me feel so aweful

Hes a twat... if a girl in my office had done that to me....there would have been a huricane bow past you with the speed of my exit..... or we woud have locked the door and sorted it out there.. what a turn on....

I recon he felt he lost control and didnt like it x"
totally agree !

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Walton-upon-Thames

It was a great idea. I'd have loved it!

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By *RWYNMan
over a year ago

Blaenau Gwent

Yes it's a very sexy thing to do, don't be put off by him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lucky guy !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to have you watch me wank into your knickers ,

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Different strokes for different folks.

I wouldn't want a pair of anyone's damp underwear but that's just my preference. His reaction may have been a bit OTT and immature but it may just be something he's not into and there's nothing wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

Of course your not a weirdo, i would love a lady to do something like that to me. Having said that im not playing behind anyones back, which is probably why he looked horrified? Might not of long seen his wife/girlfriend

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By *onkersMan
over a year ago

livingston

forget it and then do him with the strapon

widen his horizons so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ask you to marry me there and then!

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By *agnumBeltranMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I

went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

That would of got me rock hard and I would of got my cock out and wanked into them with you watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He shouldn't have made you feel bad. That is out of order regardless of his kink (or lack of).

That you thought about how it would be a turn on for you should have made him realise what an insensitive thing it was for him to say to you.

Personally, judging by responses on this thread I think you can safely assume you are neither pervert or weirdo!

Hope he sees sense or if not, that you do and move on!

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

I think you are a pervert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not a weirdo,just on a differrnt sexual level to him "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not a weirdo,just on a differrnt sexual level to him yes definately, I now feel our 'relationship' has certainly lost its appeal after he made me feel so aweful "

So he is allowed to take you to his office and fuck you but you are not allowed to push the boundaries too.? I'd refuse him sex till he sorts himself out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not a weirdo,just on a differrnt sexual level to him yes definately, I now feel our 'relationship' has certainly lost its appeal after he made me feel so aweful

So he is allowed to take you to his office and fuck you but you are not allowed to push the boundaries too.? I'd refuse him sex till he sorts himself out "
valid point well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd find it a bit weird actually. And I'm kinky.

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By *d Jenny newTV/TS
over a year ago

Bradford

Sounds like alot of fun to me! Wish i could do the same to some one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here definitely not, this would be classed as pretty normal, aren't we all a little perverse? On here? in the real world perhaps, maybe he was unsure of what reaction to give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"
you are not wish I worked there would gladly do that for you xx

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

Sounds really hot to me, can do that for me any day, thou i will probably haul you over the desk and fuck you there and then. . Then you can out your dirty knickers back on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So he's married and not getting any, or enough, at home, which is the reason he has a sexy little minx at work who is happy to be a plaything (mutually of course), and I'm guessing part of the attraction was the fact that you're a bit naughty and risque? Yet he makes you feel like this when you do something that was possibly part of why he lusted after you in the first place?

Personally I'd be telling him to shove it, or refuse and call him a pervert the next time he's horny and wants a quickie in the office.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

You are a pervet when they don't fancy you.

Anyway this short story should have been put on Stories and Fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"
id love to meet a pervy weirdo like you again your lots of fun and what a lovely girl to do it without bein told or asked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not weird you have just read him wrong... A lot of men would think that was hot. Then you have the square ones would think you needed sectioned.

Next time he wants a fuck tell him hes a weirdo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" when it suits him "

Jumps out at me more than anything else.

A little kink is good, if you had posted your knickers through his front door, then maybe that would count as weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of guys would have been turned on by that, obviously not his thing...shame! Doesn't make you a weirdo or a pervert x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol yep def a perv but a very cool one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

He is the weirdo!

If you had done that to me, it would have been the quickest wank in history!

He should have thought how great the sex would have been the next time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he should of had a wank in his own pants and gave them too her

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Can't believe how he reacted to be honest. I bet he feels a little intimidated by your sexual confidence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" when it suits him

Jumps out at me more than anything else.

A little kink is good, if you had posted your knickers through his front door, then maybe that would count as weird.

"

Don't put ideas in her head lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Quick update:-

That's it, it's over!

After we'd both had time to reflect, we chatted earlier. The fact that that he was still shocked and couldn't understand "why on earth you'd want to do something like that" burst my bubble and made me realise how sexually incompatible and see it for what it was.

Oh well, you know what they say,

The best way to get over a man is to get under another lol

Thanks for all the posts though guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's boring lol "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm called a pervert regularly. My automatic response "your point is?"

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By *eanne4funWoman
over a year ago

Walsall

Can come work for me if like xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick update:-

That's it, it's over!

After we'd both had time to reflect, we chatted earlier. The fact that that he was still shocked and couldn't understand "why on earth you'd want to do something like that" burst my bubble and made me realise how sexually incompatible and see it for what it was.

Oh well, you know what they say,

The best way to get over a man is to get under another lol

Thanks for all the posts though guys x"

Sounds to us like he was happy with his "sly cheating quicky" but when he realised you were not just a "toy" for his pleasure, he decided its not good anymore!!!

Maybe post the french knickers to his wife still unwashed with his credit card reciept attached anyway .... that maybe what he thought may happen next and he bottled it!!!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

No you're not a weirdo, incidentally I'm looking for a new secretary

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quick update:-

That's it, it's over!

After we'd both had time to reflect, we chatted earlier. The fact that that he was still shocked and couldn't understand "why on earth you'd want to do something like that" burst my bubble and made me realise how sexually incompatible and see it for what it was.

Oh well, you know what they say,

The best way to get over a man is to get under another lol

Thanks for all the posts though guys

Sounds to us like he was happy with his "sly cheating quicky" but when herealised you were not just a "toy" for his pleasure, he decided its not good anymore!!!

Maybe post the french knickers to his

wife still unwashed with his credit card reciept attached anyway .... that maybe what he thought may happen next and he bottled it!!! "
NOOOOOOO!

I would never that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick update:-

That's it, it's over!

After we'd both had time to reflect, we chatted earlier. The fact that that he was still shocked and couldn't understand "why on earth you'd want to do something like that" burst my bubble and made me realise how sexually incompatible and see it for what it was.

Oh well, you know what they say,

The best way to get over a man is to get under another lol

Thanks for all the posts though guys

Sounds to us like he was happy with his "sly cheating quicky" but when herealised you were not just a "toy" for his pleasure, he decided its not good anymore!!!

Maybe post the french knickers to his

wife still unwashed with his credit card reciept attached anyway .... that maybe what he thought may happen next and he bottled it!!! NOOOOOOO!

I would never that."

He is sat at home worrying you might though we bet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that was his loss

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

Brilliant! Screw him being frigid! #Vanilla

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By *ercy the Park KeeperMan
over a year ago

Chester


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

There is a time and place and sometimes the office is for working in. To some its weird to others its inappropriate.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"
no ya not a weirdo at all! think its wise ta make sure others are on the same wavelength/ level as ourselves before we venture into such things...As you have seen ... not all are, unfortunatly ... ( boring shits!!! Lol ) ( Mrs )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he wants things on his terms, and doesn't like someone so forward. But don't feel bad about it. His loss at the end of the day. And next time he wants to fuck you in his office, just make an excuse not to."

My thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our opinion is YES you're a complete and utter pervert (which is never a bad thing) but NO you're not a weirdo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our opinion is YES you're a complete and utter pervert (which is never a bad thing) but NO you're not a weirdo "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you had done that for me, I would have come over and over and over and over into your knickers because that is so hot!!!!! My office door is open anytime.

Your not weird or a pervert, just a highly sexed kinky little devil x

????????

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By *issy NickersWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Maybe he wants things on his terms, and doesn't like someone so forward. But don't feel bad about it. His loss at the end of the day. And next time he wants to fuck you in his office, just make an excuse not to.

My thoughts exactly."

Whether on fab or in the office lots of people only like things on their terms else they treat you as weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can come work for me if like xx "

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By *iberatedPairCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk

Yes total pervert. But as I say it to you. I Woukd grab you too your knickers down. Grab you around the neck and shove those cum filled knickers in your mouth. An proceeded to fuck you until I spunk deep in u. Then remove the knickers. Wipe up my cum. And send you on your merry little way. There's a goid little girl.

Mr by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Onwards and upwards OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would turn me on so much and would happily oblige!

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By *ookingaboutMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

don't hang up on labels

you found a limit, of his

if his limit isn't what you want, need or desire move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I'd be over impressed tbh

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By *ushcrafter1000Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

I would have been off like a shot and soaked them in a hot sticky cumshot. He's the weirdo.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

no .. your very kinky and imaginative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not a weirdo,just on a differrnt sexual level to him yes definately, I now feel our 'relationship' has certainly lost its appeal after he made me feel so aweful "

maybe it was just a bit of a shock and knee jerk reaction from him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no .. your very kinky and imaginative "

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By *ezjez369Man
over a year ago

london

A way back I met a woman and after we'd met a few times for drinks she'd insist on pulling her knickers down a tad and wanting me off into them,pulling them back up and going home to hubby for him to clean up. Pervert? No, kinky horny bitch? Absolutely!

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By *ezjez369Man
over a year ago

london

That'll be wanking me off then !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A way back I met a woman and after we'd met a few times for drinks she'd insist on pulling her knickers down a tad and wanting me off into them,pulling them back up and going home to hubby for him to clean up. Pervert? No, kinky horny bitch? Absolutely! "
which way did she go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that guy has been shagging you in his office and then treats you like that when you suggest something a bit risque' strikes me as being a bit weird himself.

I should give him the big E as he sounds like a controlling so and so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

I would have gone to the men's loo and done the deed then leave the knickers on your desk. Sorted. You're not weird. He's just not as kinky as you are.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Nah not weird. If you had of wiped two slices of bread instead of your knickers and made him a sarnie that would have been weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's just a boring bastard he should be ashamed of himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not good that the way he reacted made you feel bad, but I don't really think we should be calling him for not being into it. You probably just caught him off guard, I know that's no excuse but could well be the reason. Don't have sex with him again if he makes you feel bad.

Wouldn't be my thing either, so I'm in the vanilla and prude crew too by the sounds of people on this thread's reaction.

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By *vent44ukMan
over a year ago

Galashiels

No not a pervert or a weirdo, just adventurous, wish more ladies were as adventurous. Personally I would have definitely obliged and erupted a massive load in them, the thought has got me dribbling precum as I write this. Going to have a look at your profile now and probably erupt my load looking at you and thinking of your smooth underwear on my cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

Maybe he's more used to a Vanilla relationship with his partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

Sound like a ok request to me if you still have the knickers I would do it with pleasure for you !!!!

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By *irtydeviants82Couple
over a year ago

Exeter, Devon

No you are not a weirdo!! This sort of thing turns my hubby on loads and myself, share your dirty knickers this way!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to marry u x


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today,w I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had the chance to do that . Seems your friend just isn't as kinky or fun as you thought . If anyone wants to think of you as weird , then I'll be weird with you . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a pervert. but in a romantic way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So any update on this

Was it just down to be a little shocked at the time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He seems boring and definitely too boring for you. I think it could of been fun, but clearly he's not that interesting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A fantasticly sexy idea... I think would have run to follow out my side of the deal!!

You're not a pervert or a weirdo and gave nothing to worry about... You just have a different level of kink to him.

Tell us if he apologises once he's realised what he's done! "

Apologise for what, not liking the idea of smelly knickers shoved at him with a demand to cum in them ...why should he apologise for that? The guy wasn't impressed, doesn't make him wrong ffs, maybe she doesn't know him as well as she thought....maybe she should apologise to him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

no just hot and sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"
.

Far from it! I think that is soooooo hot, I'd have been in the loo like a shot... Maybe you are shaggin the wrong man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not good that the way he reacted made you feel bad, but I don't really think we should be calling him for not being into it. You probably just caught him off guard, I know that's no excuse but could well be the reason. Don't have sex with him again if he makes you feel bad.

Wouldn't be my thing either, so I'm in the vanilla and prude crew too by the sounds of people on this thread's reaction. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't know when he's well off !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got any jobs going I could do with a new 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

Well I I know is that after sucking your knickers clean I would have been happy to have wanked into them and given them back to you, he sounds like a bit of a prude,

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

You are indeed a perverted weirdo, he is also a perverted weirdo but obviously his perversions aren't the same as yours...I'm also a perverted weirdo as I found that incredibly hot! There's nothing wrong with being a pervert or a weirdo...just as long as you share your perversions and weirdness with people that will welcome and savor them! I've been in a very similar situation, felt like you did afterwards and then realised that there was nothing wrong with what I did but I just chose to share my perverted weirdness with the wrong person! All I can say is...learn from it, trial and error and all that jazz!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

Not a weirdo. Wish I worked in your office so I could help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, long story short, I've been having great but casual sex with a guy from my office, he's attached so meets are quick and few and far between but I just can't get enough of him.

Anyway, today, I winked at him as I walked past his office and went into the ladies loo, there I masterbated to orgasm and then wiped myself with a pair of French knickers he bought me. I went straight to his office, leaned over his desk, told him what I'd done whilst handing him the knickers and asked him to go do the same into my knickers and let me have them back.

He looked at me absolutely horrified, gave me the knickers back and called me a weirdo. I felt so humiliated. Is this really that bad, am I a weirdo?"

He was a lucky fella lol

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Nothing wrong with a bit of heat of the moment horniness

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