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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm really turned on by the idea of sucking a nice big cock but am worried about the possibility of catching some nasties from it. Just curious as to the experience of people on here and whether anyone has caught anything from a BJ.

Probably opening myself up to some smartarse comments but am interested to know how safe/unsafe this is in practice.

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can catch every sexually transmitted disease from a blow job. Nuff said really! X

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

never heard of anyone catching anything personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read somewhere, the biggest one on the increase is the HPV virus which can cause throat cancer, scary stuff, but you try insisting somewhere wear a condom for oral!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience in the medical background I can pass on some of me knowledge of this.

It is possible to catch some diseases via oral sex - particularly Chlamydia, Herpes, Gonorrhoea.

HIV is very low risk in oral sex.

My advice is keep your oral hygiene healthy. Use mouth wash regularly and wash your mouth before and after oral sex. Brushing teeth is not advised before oral sex as this can cause small micro- scratches and bleeding (hence allowing infections pass on easily).

Of course a condom is the safest bet, but oral sex is relatively low risk, so if you want to take the chance, always make sure you are both clean physically too. What you play with should be hygienic - cock, vagina and mouth!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, I know that there are certain things which you can catch. Has anyone actually used a condom for oral? Are you better off just leaving it and wanking off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read somewhere, the biggest one on the increase is the HPV virus which can cause throat cancer, scary stuff, but you try insisting somewhere wear a condom for oral!"

Yes this is true as well, condoms are the safest definitely. It would be an interesting idea for everyone to be tested for a range of different diseases before having sex, there would then be no need for condom.

It would also be interesting if we could confirm the health status of a person via text on their permission of course - Everyone having their own unique code or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my experience in the medical background I can pass on some of me knowledge of this.

It is possible to catch some diseases via oral sex - particularly Chlamydia, Herpes, Gonorrhoea.

HIV is very low risk in oral sex.

My advice is keep your oral hygiene healthy. Use mouth wash regularly and wash your mouth before and after oral sex. Brushing teeth is not advised before oral sex as this can cause small micro- scratches and bleeding (hence allowing infections pass on easily).

Of course a condom is the safest bet, but oral sex is relatively low risk, so if you want to take the chance, always make sure you are both clean physically too. What you play with should be hygienic - cock, vagina and mouth!

"

Thank god there are some people on this forum with common sense and educated in sexual health, the more people that practice safe sex the better and once you eventually get to know, trust and respect the person you are with them you can try without

but until then, safe sex should be for everyone

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Hmmm, getting to know the person, trust and respect . . . . is NOT going to keep you safe.

Both going for a proper sexual health check up and not meeting anyone else WILL.

Jane x

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


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but until then, safe sex should be for everyone"

no it shouldnt ...what an arrogant attitude that is ...if you want to practice it then good on you but every thought you have 'should not be for everyone'

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


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Thank god there are some people on this forum with common sense and educated in sexual health, the more people that practice safe sex the better and once you eventually get to know, trust and respect the person you are with them you can try without

but until then, safe sex should be for everyone"

Sorry but this is a very dangerous attitude.

There is no such thing as safe sex.

All sex carries risk.

Until people are aware of this and understand that you can still catch STDs when wearing a condom they will be a risk to themselves and others.

A study published 5 years ago in the USA found -

"The panel studied condom effectiveness in preventing the eight most prevalent sexually transmitted diseases: HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, chancroid, trichomoniasis, genital herpes, and human papillomavirus (HPV). Condoms were not found to provide universal protection against any of these diseases."

That is not to say wearing a condom gives no protection it does but it does not guarantee protection.

A condom offers safer sex not safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have worn a condom while receiving oral on a few occasions. If the female insists on it, then it's not a problem. However it does, for me, cut down on the sensitivity and I rarely cum from oral anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only give a bj to a guy if they wear a condom. I respect that some guys don't get much sensation from it so they can decline it if they want and we can find something else to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thank god there are some people on this forum with common sense and educated in sexual health, the more people that practice safe sex the better and once you eventually get to know, trust and respect the person you are with them you can try without

but until then, safe sex should be for everyone

Sorry but this is a very dangerous attitude.

There is no such thing as safe sex.

All sex carries risk.

Until people are aware of this and understand that you can still catch STDs when wearing a condom they will be a risk to themselves and others.

A study published 5 years ago in the USA found -

"The panel studied condom effectiveness in preventing the eight most prevalent sexually transmitted diseases: HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, chancroid, trichomoniasis, genital herpes, and human papillomavirus (HPV). Condoms were not found to provide universal protection against any of these diseases."

That is not to say wearing a condom gives no protection it does but it does not guarantee protection.

A condom offers safer sex not safe sex.

"

Its a very good point. However it must be remembered that condoms are not universal because of the 1-2% of cases where the disease is passed on. In these cases its mainly because of lack of education in use or accidents during use.

As i mentioned earlier the most universal way of staying 100% safe(which is probably unrealistic currently) is to confirm the health status of the person you are having sex with -perhaps with an STI screen certificate that can be verified over the phone/text/in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thank god there are some people on this forum with common sense and educated in sexual health, the more people that practice safe sex the better and once you eventually get to know, trust and respect the person you are with them you can try without

but until then, safe sex should be for everyone

Sorry but this is a very dangerous attitude.

There is no such thing as safe sex.

All sex carries risk.

Until people are aware of this and understand that you can still catch STDs when wearing a condom they will be a risk to themselves and others.

A study published 5 years ago in the USA found -

"The panel studied condom effectiveness in preventing the eight most prevalent sexually transmitted diseases: HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, chancroid, trichomoniasis, genital herpes, and human papillomavirus (HPV). Condoms were not found to provide universal protection against any of these diseases."

That is not to say wearing a condom gives no protection it does but it does not guarantee protection.

A condom offers safer sex not safe sex.

Its a very good point. However it must be remembered that condoms are not universal because of the 1-2% of cases where the disease is passed on. In these cases its mainly because of lack of education in use or accidents during use.

As i mentioned earlier the most universal way of staying 100% safe(which is probably unrealistic currently) is to confirm the health status of the person you are having sex with -perhaps with an STI screen certificate that can be verified over the phone/text/in person

"

Seeing as some std's take months to show up on a test and others a couple of weeks, they would have to remain celibate for a long time before you could be confident they were 100% clear.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Not dissing Carl above here.

I met this dominatrix off another site....... anyway she said her dungeon mistress said she'd get more work if she let the punters throat fuck her. She declined saying that she dint want any STDs/STIs and you can catch a lot from oral.

I was gobsmacked because I've received and given oral to quite a few, I'd not heard of catching anything

On my next visit to the GUM I asked a nurse, she was specialising in this subject. She said it was a slight risk, she said you'd need to injest 7 litres of bodily fluids, or there would need to be a cut/open wound in the mouth........ and on the cock/pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read somewhere, the biggest one on the increase is the HPV virus which can cause throat cancer, scary stuff, but you try insisting somewhere wear a condom for oral!"

Not trying to poke fun at you or this serious matter, but I just got a thought of an older lady with a graspy voice giving advice on throat cancer and blow jobs to young teens. "Don't fall for peer pressure" like smoking.

Interesting subject, since I love giving/receiving oral!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not dissing Carl above here.

I met this dominatrix off another site....... anyway she said her dungeon mistress said she'd get more work if she let the punters throat fuck her. She declined saying that she dint want any STDs/STIs and you can catch a lot from oral.

I was gobsmacked because I've received and given oral to quite a few, I'd not heard of catching anything

On my next visit to the GUM I asked a nurse, she was specialising in this subject. She said it was a slight risk, she said you'd need to injest 7 litres of bodily fluids, or there would need to be a cut/open wound in the mouth........ and on the cock/pussy "

What utter twaddle!

You can catch clamydia or gonorea without injesting any fluid and without cuts.

I'd change clinic if I heard such misguided, inaccurate advice.

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London


"Use mouth wash regularly and wash your mouth before and after oral sex. "

My STD doc told me not to use antiseptic mouthwashes as they change the good bacteria

Fine to use e.g. salt water

Agree about no brushing

Precum is apparently as risky as cum, may be more so. Swallow fast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say some of the words being used are quite a mouthful lol

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

well it depends who u go with and how lucky/unlucky u are .ive sucked loads if cocks ..im still alive and feel ok. but maybe ive got something and dont realise it . .or maybe the next one maybe the death of me ..like everything in life it has its risks.

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24


"From my experience in the medical background I can pass on some of me knowledge of this.

It is possible to catch some diseases via oral sex - particularly Chlamydia, Herpes, Gonorrhoea.

HIV is very low risk in oral sex.

My advice is keep your oral hygiene healthy. Use mouth wash regularly and wash your mouth before and after oral sex. Brushing teeth is not advised before oral sex as this can cause small micro- scratches and bleeding (hence allowing infections pass on easily).

Of course a condom is the safest bet, but oral sex is relatively low risk, so if you want to take the chance, always make sure you are both clean physically too. What you play with should be hygienic - cock, vagina and mouth!

"

This

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I've sucked dozens and caught nothing so far. I get my throat swabbed just to be sure. I also insist that guys are straight out of the shower before I'll do it. HPV is thought to also cause MS.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Crossing the road carries a risk of death, as does driving, drinking a lot, smoking, eating red near etc

In fact you'll struggle to find many activities that haven't actually killed someone at some point

The issue isn't whether it's theoretically possible for something to go wrong, because the answer is always yes, it's the likelihood and probability of it

Oral without does carry a risk but it is low and far lower than virtually all of the activities I listed above

If you never do anything without any risk you'll barely leave the house

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Not dissing Carl above here.

I met this dominatrix off another site....... anyway she said her dungeon mistress said she'd get more work if she let the punters throat fuck her. She declined saying that she dint want any STDs/STIs and you can catch a lot from oral.

I was gobsmacked because I've received and given oral to quite a few, I'd not heard of catching anything

On my next visit to the GUM I asked a nurse, she was specialising in this subject. She said it was a slight risk, she said you'd need to injest 7 litres of bodily fluids, or there would need to be a cut/open wound in the mouth........ and on the cock/pussy "

She is misinformed. That is inaccurate information.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

And a dominatrix letting someone throat f**k her... Really?

Surprising to read to say the very least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not dissing Carl above here.

I met this dominatrix off another site....... anyway she said her dungeon mistress said she'd get more work if she let the punters throat fuck her. She declined saying that she dint want any STDs/STIs and you can catch a lot from oral.

I was gobsmacked because I've received and given oral to quite a few, I'd not heard of catching anything

On my next visit to the GUM I asked a nurse, she was specialising in this subject. She said it was a slight risk, she said you'd need to injest 7 litres of bodily fluids, or there would need to be a cut/open wound in the mouth........ and on the cock/pussy "

The risk you mention of here in terms of ingesting 7 litres of bodily fluids only applies to saliva and viruses like HIV. This does not apply to bacteria such as chlamydia ect. I can confirm this information since I have a degree relating to this area of health....

In regards to other comments on here...yes its true that STI checks can take long, I only mentioned it in an ideal world without the need of condoms. Only a small version of this exists - thats in the porn industry!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Safer Sex is all we do... I ( mrs) do suck cock without a condom. I don't take any Cum in my mouth apart from my partners ( My Choice! ) No one has ever had a problem with this, at all! Have regular visits to Gum clinics and have mouth swabs...as well as all eles.

Works for us and never had any concerns at all

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I've sucked dozens and caught nothing so far. I get my throat swabbed just to be sure. I also insist that guys are straight out of the shower before I'll do it. HPV is thought to also cause MS."
... There is No known cause of MS ... Many theories , but nothing proven. If They knew what caused it then perhaps they could cure it?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I also suck cock without a condom. It doesn't matter what flavour they make them, they still all taste of rubber

And I also regularly get a check up at my local clinic

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I also suck cock without a condom. It doesn't matter what flavour they make them, they still all taste of rubber

And I also regularly get a check up at my local clinic "
nothing worse than condom breath! Would rather go without if honest ... Yuck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I also suck cock without a condom. It doesn't matter what flavour they make them, they still all taste of rubber

And I also regularly get a check up at my local clinic nothing worse than condom breath! Would rather go without if honest ... Yuck! "

I'm thinking that part of the appeal to oral would be tasting the cock and it sounds like sucking with a condom is not the best then! May have to scratch that idea then.

I understand that people say life is about taking risks but will the reality of sucking a big cock actually warrant taking that risk??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find skyns all that offensive to suck.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I also suck cock without a condom. It doesn't matter what flavour they make them, they still all taste of rubber

And I also regularly get a check up at my local clinic nothing worse than condom breath! Would rather go without if honest ... Yuck!

I'm thinking that part of the appeal to oral would be tasting the cock and it sounds like sucking with a condom is not the best then! May have to scratch that idea then.

I understand that people say life is about taking risks but will the reality of sucking a big cock actually warrant taking that risk??"
well I wouldn't enjoy sucking a cock with a condom on.. Wouldn't be able to give it my best at all! So I wouldn't do it and happily go without oral sex at all in those circumstances. I like tongue on Cock/ pussy. As i said earlier , regular trips to gum clinic... Not having anyone but my partner cum in my mouth works for us. We use Condoms for all eles totaly... Yes is still a risk in others eyes ... However I feel there are much higher risks some indulge in... ( Their choices also & up to them) The fact we are all having sex with multiple partners, to some would be a huge risk in itself.. condoms or not . As is breathing the air we breath and plain living at times ...

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

For those that do do OWO and get checkups, ever found anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use condoms for oral, neither do I have men cum in my mouth at all. I do get checked though and have been clear each time

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"Not dissing Carl above here.

I met this dominatrix off another site....... anyway she said her dungeon mistress said she'd get more work if she let the punters throat fuck her. She declined saying that she dint want any STDs/STIs and you can catch a lot from oral.

I was gobsmacked because I've received and given oral to quite a few, I'd not heard of catching anything

On my next visit to the GUM I asked a nurse, she was specialising in this subject. She said it was a slight risk, she said you'd need to injest 7 litres of bodily fluids, or there would need to be a cut/open wound in the mouth........ and on the cock/pussy

What utter twaddle!

You can catch clamydia or gonorea without injesting any fluid and without cuts.

I'd change clinic if I heard such misguided, inaccurate advice.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer oral without

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