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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster

About the fact that I am not meeting whilst pregnant?

Because theres so many chancers begging me to meet them because they have a fetish for pregnant women.

Their usual line being "sex cant hurt the baby" (or words to that effect), I usually respond "thats true sex cant but an STD can". To which I get a message along the lines of "im clean and use condoms or we can just do oral". Are some people really that uneducated that condoms or just oral sex is the magical cure for not catching STD's!

Sorry for the rant, but it has made me feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks very clear to us, but perhaps you need it in brail as well :-0

Apologies for the speeling :-0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" About the fact that I am not meeting whilst pregnant?

Because theres so many chancers begging me to meet them because they have a fetish for pregnant women.

Their usual line being "sex cant hurt the baby" (or words to that effect), I usually respond "thats true sex cant but an STD can". To which I get a message along the lines of "im clean and use condoms or we can just do oral". Are some people really that uneducated that condoms or just oral sex is the magical cure for not catching STD's!

Sorry for the rant, but it has made me feel better.

"

I can see your point, but to be honest, if I was pregnant I wouldn't make reference in any way shape or form to my being pregnant, on here.

I'd just state in my profile I'm here to chat maybe - nothing else.

Least of all enter into a debate with men about contraception.

They'd just be getting off on it yuk

I hated all men when I was pregnant though so..

S x

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hide your profile. Amend your filters all options.

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


" About the fact that I am not meeting whilst pregnant?

Because theres so many chancers begging me to meet them because they have a fetish for pregnant women.

Their usual line being "sex cant hurt the baby" (or words to that effect), I usually respond "thats true sex cant but an STD can". To which I get a message along the lines of "im clean and use condoms or we can just do oral". Are some people really that uneducated that condoms or just oral sex is the magical cure for not catching STD's!

Sorry for the rant, but it has made me feel better.

I can see your point, but to be honest, if I was pregnant I wouldn't make reference in any way shape or form to my being pregnant, on here.

I'd just state in my profile I'm here to chat maybe - nothing else.

Least of all enter into a debate with men about contraception.

They'd just be getting off on it yuk

I hated all men when I was pregnant though so..

S x"

Thats a fair point but to be honest you still get begging messages when you simply put your arent meeting for whatever reason so it can still be frustrating. You would think that pregnancy is the optimum reason not to meet but apparently not to some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hide your profile. Amend your filters all options."

This^^

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

You can expect a load more messages now you have started this thread

Take yourself out off all searches using filters and don't mention the pregnancy,just say you're not meeting

Any that get through after that just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple solution. If your not meeting then hide your profile as others have said. Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't even reply to them, just block them if you don't wanna chat to them.

I don't think you have to explain yourself to anyone either, if they wanna make excuses to try and change your mind then they aren't worth bothering with...i even find it creepy that they think they can persuade you to change your behaviour, kind of like grooming, imo.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Hide your profile. Amend your filters all options.

This^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hide your profile. Amend your filters all options.

This^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want messages either hide your profile, this really does work or set your filters so you restrict who can message you.

I've made a comment on my profile about meeting & messaging, no one reads it tho!!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Some people get off on it so will message and try to persuade you no matter how much you say no.

As has been said, take it off your profile and set up all your filters.

We didn't even mention when Amy was pregnant for this exact reason. Some people won't care that you don't want to risk your child's life, they're just thinking with their knobs.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

filters, there endeth the pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple solution. If your not meeting then hide your profile as others have said. Job done. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't read profiles.

At all.

Some read the bits they want to see!!

Hide it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide profile, block single men, set age filters to 98-99, remove yourself from searches, set all pictures to private. This is what I'd do if I wanted to avoid messages. What I wouldn't do is start a thread announcing I was pregnant. Sure fire guarantee to get innundated with messages from men with a pregnancy fetish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hide profile, block single men, set age filters to 98-99, remove yourself from searches, set all pictures to private. This is what I'd do if I wanted to avoid messages. What I wouldn't do is start a thread announcing I was pregnant. Sure fire guarantee to get innundated with messages from men with a pregnancy fetish!"
all great advice that was given yesterday, buy hey guess what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hide profile, block single men, set age filters to 98-99, remove yourself from searches, set all pictures to private. This is what I'd do if I wanted to avoid messages. What I wouldn't do is start a thread announcing I was pregnant. Sure fire guarantee to get innundated with messages from men with a pregnancy fetish!all great advice that was given yesterday, buy hey guess what "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hide profile, block single men, set age filters to 98-99, remove yourself from searches, set all pictures to private. This is what I'd do if I wanted to avoid messages. What I wouldn't do is start a thread announcing I was pregnant. Sure fire guarantee to get innundated with messages from men with a pregnancy fetish!all great advice that was given yesterday, buy hey guess what "

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I suspect the OP has no intention of hiding her profile. She might not get any messages if she does, then who will she get faux-offended about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another 'hey look at me' thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suspect the OP has no intention of hiding her profile. She might not get any messages if she does, then who will she get faux-offended about?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suspect the OP has no intention of hiding her profile. She might not get any messages if she does, then who will she get faux-offended about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" About the fact that I am not meeting whilst pregnant?

Because theres so many chancers begging me to meet them because they have a fetish for pregnant women.

Their usual line being "sex cant hurt the baby" (or words to that effect), I usually respond "thats true sex cant but an STD can". To which I get a message along the lines of "im clean and use condoms or we can just do oral". Are some people really that uneducated that condoms or just oral sex is the magical cure for not catching STD's!

Sorry for the rant, but it has made me feel better."

Just as a matter of curiosity OP, how far gone are you?

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I suspect the OP has no intention of hiding her profile. She might not get any messages if she does, then who will she get faux-offended about?"

No i dont intend to hide my profile as ive got a good base of friends that like reading my updates of how im getting on. I have however activated all my message filters which a worked sudficiently to avoid frustrations so Im perhaps not the attention seeker you seem to assume. I also have plenty of confidence in myself to not care wether people message me or dony

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By *rmrshoneybadgerCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


" About the fact that I am not meeting whilst pregnant?

Because theres so many chancers begging me to meet them because they have a fetish for pregnant women.

Their usual line being "sex cant hurt the baby" (or words to that effect), I usually respond "thats true sex cant but an STD can". To which I get a message along the lines of "im clean and use condoms or we can just do oral". Are some people really that uneducated that condoms or just oral sex is the magical cure for not catching STD's!

Sorry for the rant, but it has made me feel better."

I got this a lot to. Drove me mad.

The only person that would ever be allowed near me when I'm pregnant is my husband. I think pregnant women are beautiful and very sexy. Your body in full swing. I felt so sexy when I was pregnant even when I was huge. Unfortunately hubby wasn't around.

Lots of men want a pregnant women. But hey don't give up do they.

Hope you have a fab pregnancy. X

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


" About the fact that I am not meeting whilst pregnant?

Because theres so many chancers begging me to meet them because they have a fetish for pregnant women.

Their usual line being "sex cant hurt the baby" (or words to that effect), I usually respond "thats true sex cant but an STD can". To which I get a message along the lines of "im clean and use condoms or we can just do oral". Are some people really that uneducated that condoms or just oral sex is the magical cure for not catching STD's!

Sorry for the rant, but it has made me feel better.

I got this a lot to. Drove me mad.

The only person that would ever be allowed near me when I'm pregnant is my husband. I think pregnant women are beautiful and very sexy. Your body in full swing. I felt so sexy when I was pregnant even when I was huge. Unfortunately hubby wasn't around.

Lots of men want a pregnant women. But hey don't give up do they.

Hope you have a fab pregnancy. X"

Thank you and I always feel sexier during pregnancy but my body is solely for the babies father at this time, shame he works away so my hormonal urges camt be satisfied as often as id like them to be but on the plus side vibrators were invented for a reason

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By *rmrshoneybadgerCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


" About the fact that I am not meeting whilst pregnant?

Because theres so many chancers begging me to meet them because they have a fetish for pregnant women.

Their usual line being "sex cant hurt the baby" (or words to that effect), I usually respond "thats true sex cant but an STD can". To which I get a message along the lines of "im clean and use condoms or we can just do oral". Are some people really that uneducated that condoms or just oral sex is the magical cure for not catching STD's!

Sorry for the rant, but it has made me feel better.

I got this a lot to. Drove me mad.

The only person that would ever be allowed near me when I'm pregnant is my husband. I think pregnant women are beautiful and very sexy. Your body in full swing. I felt so sexy when I was pregnant even when I was huge. Unfortunately hubby wasn't around.

Lots of men want a pregnant women. But hey don't give up do they.

Hope you have a fab pregnancy. X

Thank you and I always feel sexier during pregnancy but my body is solely for the babies father at this time, shame he works away so my hormonal urges camt be satisfied as often as id like them to be but on the plus side vibrators were invented for a reason "

My hubby was away for the last 3 months of pregnancy then back for 13 days I had our son then away again for 4 months. Lol

I was huge at the end I could hardly reach to use toys it was awful I was incredibly horny and no way sort myself. Lol

Enjoy it all. Xx

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By *ercy the Park KeeperMan
over a year ago

Chester


" About the fact that I am not meeting whilst pregnant?

Because theres so many chancers begging me to meet them because they have a fetish for pregnant women.

Their usual line being "sex cant hurt the baby" (or words to that effect), I usually respond "thats true sex cant but an STD can". To which I get a message along the lines of "im clean and use condoms or we can just do oral". Are some people really that uneducated that condoms or just oral sex is the magical cure for not catching STD's!

Sorry for the rant, but it has made me feel better."

Its clear but not everyone reads or even takes notice if its an issue use your filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why come onto a swingers site when your pregnant and dont want sex.....try a general chat site

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"why come onto a swingers site when your pregnant and dont want sex.....try a general chat site "

I did leave when I first found out but I missed the social side and forums, so came back. Ive never thought of swinging as being just about sex

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By *urvymama OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster


" About the fact that I am not meeting whilst pregnant?

Because theres so many chancers begging me to meet them because they have a fetish for pregnant women.

Their usual line being "sex cant hurt the baby" (or words to that effect), I usually respond "thats true sex cant but an STD can". To which I get a message along the lines of "im clean and use condoms or we can just do oral". Are some people really that uneducated that condoms or just oral sex is the magical cure for not catching STD's!

Sorry for the rant, but it has made me feel better.

Its clear but not everyone reads or even takes notice if its an issue use your filters. "

I have been using my filters for a few days now

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