FabSwingers.com forum: out numbered

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Here's one, I know I'm not the only guy is this situation, but no matter what I try I never seem to get an end result on fab.

I've met 1 lady in my time here and it was fantastic.

But now it seems that no matter how I approach I don't even get a no thank you.

I've tried profile pics. Private pics. Cock pics. You name it... I've worded my profile differently too but still no luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your status is a little bit of a downer, no one wants what no one else wants - it won't help. An avatar would help, perhaps of your torso. I'd be put off by your being selective (in your profile text) as it's likely you'll reject people and I'd rather avoid the risk.

All I really expect is a nice, interesting message that shows they're interested in me specifically and a picture. And no negativity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your status is a little bit of a downer, no one wants what no one else wants - it won't help. An avatar would help, perhaps of your torso. I'd be put off by your being selective (in your profile text) as it's likely you'll reject people and I'd rather avoid the risk.

All I really expect is a nice, interesting message that shows they're interested in me specifically and a picture. And no negativity. "

Thank you for your honesty I've had a re jig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile reads OK to me (though I am a bit of a grammar police and prefer properly constructed sentences). I personally would not be interested as there are no photographs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Profile reads OK to me (though I am a bit of a grammar police and prefer properly constructed sentences). I personally would not be interested as there are no photographs."

Although I do express I can send them.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two things:

1. Get an avatar up.

2. Inject some humour into your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profile reads OK to me (though I am a bit of a grammar police and prefer properly constructed sentences). I personally would not be interested as there are no photographs.

Although I do express I can send them....."

You do but you know what they say. Your profile is your shop window. There are many more windows to look at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Two things:

1. Get an avatar up.

2. Inject some humour into your profile."

Two things.

1.Enough of the pointing

2.get a better suit

Enough humour for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two things:

1. Get an avatar up.

2. Inject some humour into your profile.

Two things.

1.Enough of the pointing

2.get a better suit

Enough humour for you?

Ooh, touchy, touchy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Two things:

1. Get an avatar up.

2. Inject some humour into your profile.

Two things.

1.Enough of the pointing

2.get a better suit

Enough humour for you?

Ooh, touchy, touchy!

Just showing I've got a sense of humour.

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

Even if you had messaged me first, I wouldn't even click on your profile - no picture = no interest.

Not to mention no picture just screams having something to hide...

If I was a hot single lady who got 100 messages a day, why would I waste my time talking before I even know I I find the person attractive??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Even if you had messaged me first, I wouldn't even click on your profile - no picture = no interest.

Not to mention no picture just screams having something to hide...

If I was a hot single lady who got 100 messages a day, why would I waste my time talking before I even know I I find the person attractive?? "

Nothing to hide apart from my book ridden ginger haired face really.

Spotty school boy look.

No I'm just summing up the position of many others I guess.

It's a dog eat dog world out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even if you had messaged me first, I wouldn't even click on your profile - no picture = no interest.

Not to mention no picture just screams having something to hide...

If I was a hot single lady who got 100 messages a day, why would I waste my time talking before I even know I I find the person attractive??

Nothing to hide apart from my book ridden ginger haired face really.

Spotty school boy look.

No I'm just summing up the position of many others I guess.

It's a dog eat dog world out there. "

And you are not doing anything about it despite the well-intentioned advice proffered to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even if you had messaged me first, I wouldn't even click on your profile - no picture = no interest.

Not to mention no picture just screams having something to hide...

If I was a hot single lady who got 100 messages a day, why would I waste my time talking before I even know I I find the person attractive??

Nothing to hide apart from my book ridden ginger haired face really.

Spotty school boy look.

No I'm just summing up the position of many others I guess.

It's a dog eat dog world out there.

And you are not doing anything about it despite the well-intentioned advice proffered to you?"

Exactly. I got told to get a better suit! How rude. Don't diss Primark suits!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Even if you had messaged me first, I wouldn't even click on your profile - no picture = no interest.

Not to mention no picture just screams having something to hide...

If I was a hot single lady who got 100 messages a day, why would I waste my time talking before I even know I I find the person attractive??

Nothing to hide apart from my book ridden ginger haired face really.

Spotty school boy look.

No I'm just summing up the position of many others I guess.

It's a dog eat dog world out there.

And you are not doing anything about it despite the well-intentioned advice proffered to you?"

I never said I was not going to action on the advice. Too many people jump to conclusions.

I certainly appreciate the advice that's been offered.

Anything to help improving my chance of a good hard shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile picture would be a good idea, does not need to be a face pic , I always delete messages that don't have a profile picture so would not even read your profile, which states photos available on request

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A profile picture would be a good idea, does not need to be a face pic , I always delete messages that don't have a profile picture so would not even read your profile, which states photos available on request

Sorry "

Thanks for your feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profile reads OK to me (though I am a bit of a grammar police and prefer properly constructed sentences). I personally would not be interested as there are no photographs.

Although I do express I can send them.....

You do but you know what they say. Your profile is your shop window. There are many more windows to look at."

My thoughts too. I don't accept messages from guys with no pics.

If their initial message catches my eye, and they refer to having read my profile, I look at theirs. They have to be different in some way or funny or ironic, then I MIGHT be interested.

Just keep trying and don't open with "Poor me. No one wants me" as some do - not endearing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even if you had messaged me first, I wouldn't even click on your profile - no picture = no interest.

Not to mention no picture just screams having something to hide...

If I was a hot single lady who got 100 messages a day, why would I waste my time talking before I even know I I find the person attractive??

Nothing to hide apart from my book ridden ginger haired face really.

Spotty school boy look.

No I'm just summing up the position of many others I guess.

It's a dog eat dog world out there.

And you are not doing anything about it despite the well-intentioned advice proffered to you?

I never said I was not going to action on the advice. Too many people jump to conclusions.

I certainly appreciate the advice that's been offered.

Anything to help improving my chance of a good hard shag."

Given up. There is a weight of good-natured opinion. You choose to ignore it. Fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even if you had messaged me first, I wouldn't even click on your profile - no picture = no interest.

Not to mention no picture just screams having something to hide...

If I was a hot single lady who got 100 messages a day, why would I waste my time talking before I even know I I find the person attractive??

Nothing to hide apart from my book ridden ginger haired face really.

Spotty school boy look.

No I'm just summing up the position of many others I guess.

It's a dog eat dog world out there.

And you are not doing anything about it despite the well-intentioned advice proffered to you?

I never said I was not going to action on the advice. Too many people jump to conclusions.

I certainly appreciate the advice that's been offered.

Anything to help improving my chance of a good hard shag."

Any your last comment probably reveals the real you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually don't read messages where they don't have a profile pic. It doesn't have to be a face photo, but why would you not have any photo at all?

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By *ookingaboutMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Here's one, I know I'm not the only guy is this situation, but no matter what I try I never seem to get an end result on fab.

I've met 1 lady in my time here and it was fantastic.

But now it seems that no matter how I approach I don't even get a no thank you.

I've tried profile pics. Private pics. Cock pics. You name it... I've worded my profile differently too but still no luck.

Try meeting people at social events or clubs

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By *ebedee2009Man
over a year ago

South Croydon

Im by no means an oil painting -well possibly a Jackson Pollock- but I think I compensate by having a great sense of humour. If you can make the ladies laugh, then you're that wee bit closer to some success. Oh and don't be pushy or demanding, all the one's I've met, be it socially or otherwise, have unanimously told me they HATE that!

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