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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it me or am I impatient, ive had one replyer to my advances but mainly get brushed of from attractive and not so attractive so easily, im an okay looking guy, genuine and wanting to get ahead in the swing world. I had one person who I would love to meet be all advancing then switch and delete and ignore for no reason. Originally didnt meet because im not personally verified. Whats wrong with me??

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Your profile screams of desperation

Don't put things on your profile like that, women will be put off

It makes us sound like objects just to pls you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do a forum search, 'profile help'

You'll get tons of useful tips

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By *angerpointCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

There's nothing wrong with you but your profile needs some work. You need to say what you can offer, what you're into and remember that there are lots of single guys on here looking for the same thing. You need to make your profile stand out. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might be good looking but if women don't get an idea of who you are from a profile then they will be put off.

Some couples or women don't want endless back and forth messaging about getting to know who you are, they probably want to know that simply by reading your profile.

It's not about just what YOU want it's also what you can offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile screams of desperation

Don't put things on your profile like that, women will be put off

It makes us sound like objects just to pls you "

This.

Start by rewriting your profile to talk about what you offer, not what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social event. It worked for me.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Your profile screams of desperation

Don't put things on your profile like that, women will be put off

It makes us sound like objects just to pls you "

Completely agree. Not a tempting profile at all. That would get one look from us and a no thanks.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Have to agree with the others. Profile comes across terribly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or am I impatient, ive had one replyer to my advances but mainly get brushed of from attractive and not so attractive so easily, im an okay looking guy, genuine and wanting to get ahead in the swing world. I had one person who I would love to meet be all advancing then switch and delete and ignore for no reason. Originally didnt meet because im not personally verified. Whats wrong with me??"

Why are you approaching people you describe as "not so attractive"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to agree with the others. Profile comes across terribly. "

Yep ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A tongue like a magic carpet? Eh? And sorting girlfriends? I am lost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

oh boy... where to start....

like others have said.... your profile isn't very good and screams of desperation

the headline to your profile even as a long time forum person made me cringe.... and if they is the effect on me, i can imagine it would be an instant no from a lot of other people...

another person who thinks it is just good looks that get you by...

so take a piece of advice from a munter it isn't matter how good looking you think you are if your words and your personality dont back it up....

sit down, pen, piece of paper and actually think about what you are trying to get across......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice Mangina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All text in your profile needs revamping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice Mangina. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, patience is a virtue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let the rabbits see the carrot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Struggling to get any replies yet where am I going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Struggling to get any replies yet where am I going wrong"

Start your own thread rather than hijack this one. But I suggest you rewrite your profile, using more than one sentence, first. Try a forum search on profile help first.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Struggling to get any replies yet where am I going wrong"

Don't message women and say 'show us ya minge, ya slutty wench' cos it don't work*

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK


"Is it me or am I impatient, ive had one replyer to my advances but mainly get brushed of from attractive and not so attractive so easily, im an okay looking guy, genuine and wanting to get ahead in the swing world. I had one person who I would love to meet be all advancing then switch and delete and ignore for no reason. Originally didnt meet because im not personally verified. Whats wrong with me??"

Need to be patient. VERY VERY patient. Lol.

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

Why do some single blokes moan about not getting replies or meets. There is no rule saying people have to reply, if you cant take the heat leave the kitchen,,,, simples

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By *ohnnyBi4nowMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Why don't you get some better pics taken? Your not a bad looking guy, if u got it u might as well flaunt it, some tasteful full body and ass shots might do the trick. Johnny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some single blokes moan about not getting replies or meets. There is no rule saying people have to reply, if you cant take the heat leave the kitchen,,,, simples"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get some better pics taken? Your not a bad looking guy, if u got it u might as well flaunt it, some tasteful full body and ass shots might do the trick. Johnny"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or am I impatient, ive had one replyer to my advances but mainly get brushed of from attractive and not so attractive so easily, im an okay looking guy, genuine and wanting to get ahead in the swing world. I had one person who I would love to meet be all advancing then switch and delete and ignore for no reason. Originally didnt meet because im not personally verified. Whats wrong with me??

Need to be patient. VERY VERY patient. Lol. "

WHY do you need to be very very patient. That's nonsense. You just need to be sensible and make an effort. Like Fabio said....even us "munters" (his word lol...not mine) can get plenty meets.... Look at my profile. I'm no great looker but I have plenty verifications (if that's what the OP is after....as he seems to be.

Every time , for every thread like this....the answer is the same. Effort in equates to results out!

It really isn't rocket science!

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By *inglecuckoldMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I certainly have a hard time because of my interest but I find being polite and unrushed will always help, ive had several meets but not working to something long term....but that's okay, I didn't pick this route as it was an easy lay I was after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some single blokes moan about not getting replies or meets. There is no rule saying people have to reply, if you cant take the heat leave the kitchen,,,, simples"

Another whinging look at my profile please I deserve a meet,......next ,maybe there are better guys that people want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are in Blackpool why not try one of the clubs up that way. You might get better results in person, being so attractive and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club club club club club club club club .... and thats not us hitting you over the head lol .... visit a club !

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