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By *exy hot wife 84 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

I have poppers and lube! Can anyone give me some advice on making it less painful, tinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to keep an eye on this one! I have to be super horny to be able to take it and enjoy it... Something only my husband has been successful at, otherwise it just stings and hurts and makes me never want to do it again! hahah...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it slow, relax and build up from something small to getting bigger until you feel comfortable.

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By *exy hot wife 84 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Ok, should I clean out my bum before i start? Coz i worry about getting poo on their cocks too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you need to stay relaxed. Work with something small and build up to Mr going in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use someone elses ass

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"Ok, should I clean out my bum before i start? Coz i worry about getting poo on their cocks too"

yes it wouldn't hurt to have a thorough clean down there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, should I clean out my bum before i start? Coz i worry about getting poo on their cocks too"

Yes, use a douche, stops any worry of mess lol and feels better to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It helps if he enters very slowly and your relaxed.

I'm sure you'll love it once it's no longer uncomfortable.

Some of my most intense orgasms have been given this way ??

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By *onkersMan
over a year ago

livingston

rimming and lube

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

I find it more comfortable (as well as nicer for my "visitor!) if I've cleaned. I use a butt plug for a while beforehand (unless I know the cock I'm due to play with is not "testing"!)

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

Lube, time, love and care and you wanting it, have you control penetration

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

And in case you are wondering, yet more lube!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use a douche to clean out so you feel relaxed about that aspect.

Then have a little play on your own and insert a butt plug if it is hard to insert take your time. Play with your clit or cock depending on what sex is taking lol

When u have plug in just leave it in a relax and get used to the feel of it.

Take the plug out after half an hour and make sure you are clean. Then put plug back in. Leave the plug in while you play and take it out when u want to try anal.

Put the cock or strap on in slowly and use lots of water based lube

Play with ur clit or cock while receiving.

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spitting works as well to get it in, knock knock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could always use a small willy

cough cough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have poppers and lube! Can anyone give me some advice on making it less painful, tinks "

Rimming, some fingers, then a cock, then a bigger cock

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Experiment with different positions, including you on top. You can control the speed and depth this way.

The other tips on douche and lube are right. Plus start when very turned on, and your body's loosened up as then you'll find it easier to get your arse more relaxed.

Only use gentle tools as a warm up. Whilst fingers are good, they may make you more uncomfortable than a smoother well lubed toy.

You can start and stop, with breaks, so that you gain confidence in your abilities and comfort level at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, should I clean out my bum before i start? Coz i worry about getting poo on their cocks too

Yes, use a douche, stops any worry of mess lol and feels better to "

Power shower hits the spot. Give yourself time to let it all out, about 2 hours before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing to remember is that if you let somebody try to push inwards, then your bum is trying to open the wrong way, and it can hurt!.

"Push out" as he presses against you, and your bum should relax and open much more easily - without the hurt!

Like anything else, practice makes perfect, and in time you'll get to love every sensual moment of it!!!

(Experience talking!)

Good luck!

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By *exy hot wife 84 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage


"The thing to remember is that if you let somebody try to push inwards, then your bum is trying to open the wrong way, and it can hurt!.

"Push out" as he presses against you, and your bum should relax and open much more easily - without the hurt!

Like anything else, practice makes perfect, and in time you'll get to love every sensual moment of it!!!

(Experience talking!)

Good luck!

"
. thanks hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a good massage works well, gives time for relaxing.

Hex

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Personally I would always douch first, partly as then I relax more,but as this washes out the natural lube I would then suggest using a lube shooter to insert some inside.

You can get desensiting lubes but you have to be very careful with these as their not always compatible with all materials and can mean that if things are going wrong you don't realise your being damaged so quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if there is a slight bit of poo when the guy pulls out? Or is it like porn that it never happens!

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"What if there is a slight bit of poo when the guy pulls out? Or is it like porn that it never happens! "

I'm sure there are websites that cover that sort of thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if there is a slight bit of poo when the guy pulls out? Or is it like porn that it never happens! "

Hugely embarrassing but its a bit like pussy farts. No matter how much you prepare it can still happen ocassionally. Have some wipes handy. Laugh it off.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"The thing to remember is that if you let somebody try to push inwards, then your bum is trying to open the wrong way, and it can hurt!.

"Push out" as he presses against you, and your bum should relax and open much more easily - without the hurt!

Like anything else, practice makes perfect, and in time you'll get to love every sensual moment of it!!!

(Experience talking!)

Good luck!

"

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By *edroseCouple
over a year ago

wigan

You don't need poppers just relax and enjoy start small and build up

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"I have poppers and lube! Can anyone give me some advice on making it less painful, tinks "
hey sexytinks,... Forgive my nievety but " poppers" these are pills right..... how do they work?? And like viagra are there side affects??

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

One minor but important bit if advice is, remember to breathe, slow and deep breathing stops you from tensing your muscles so you aren't resisting your partner's attempt to fully penetrate you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if it's because I really love anal but a bit of spit and being extremely turned on is enough for me. A thicker cock takes a bit longer to become accustomed to but usually only a minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have poppers and lube! Can anyone give me some advice on making it less painful, tinks "

You will find that the poppers help to relax you very much, especially your sphincter muscle. This will allow for easier access.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if there is a slight bit of poo when the guy pulls out? Or is it like porn that it never happens! "

If someone is willing to have sex anally then this is a occupational hazard they'll have to take. If someone is worried about it and doesn't want it to happen then don't do it. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always going to hurt lol

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