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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive been on this site for a few weeks now and im having no luck at all. Im always nice and polite in my messages, attatch pics but yet still seem to get no were, HELP me please

Chris xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive been on this site for a few weeks now and im having no luck at all. Im always nice and polite in my messages, attatch pics but yet still seem to get no were, HELP me please

Chris xx"

Patience mate.

Dont stop being yourself...

And did I mention PATIENCE.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is a virtue.

So is a good profile.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"Patience is a virtue.

So is a good profile."

Patience is a virtue

Posses it if you can

Seldom found in women

And never in a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is a virtue.

So is a good profile.

Patience is a virtue

Posses it if you can

Seldom found in women

And never in a man "

Get back in yer coffi... oh, wait...

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

doh.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is a virtue.

So is a good profile.

Patience is a virtue

Posses it if you can

Seldom found in women

And never in a man

Get back in yer coffi... oh, wait... "
.... Don't make me come over there

* sits on coffi....* hehe's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just had a look at your profile , you have a main pic but i cant make it bigger so hard to see what you look like

maybe upload a few more pics

nice clear head shot (your face lol)

a nice clothed and top off full body shot ... always good to see what a guy looks like under his top

and then the nob pic is always good to see lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive been on this site for a few weeks now and im having no luck at all. Im always nice and polite in my messages, attatch pics but yet still seem to get no were, HELP me please

Chris xx"

What you have to realise that if you're looking to attract sexually liberated adults..."if you want to know ask" isn't going to cut it I'm afraid.

There are 100s of single men who know what they want, set out what they're looking for and still struggle to get meets - you need to stand out too.

So take time and add what you're looking for, sell what you have to offer: don't be afraid to state what you want.

Good luck and I hope you have lots of fun!

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area


"ive been on this site for a few weeks now and im having no luck at all. Im always nice and polite in my messages, attatch pics but yet still seem to get no were, HELP me please

Chris xx"

look at what you have to ffer that will make you stand out from the rest of the singles guys on here. you may find its not your body that peeps is after most but you house. sell the fact you can accomodate, lots of couples can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile is no different from the 1000s of single guys on here mate (very little info), you need to sell yourself a bit better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

guys thanks for the advice, i have changed my profile, if any1 would like to check it out and advise me more id be most greatful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reads better do do you really meet 98 year olds?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Good point.

There are 66 profiles on the site with an age of 80. Most are single men lying, and most haven't logged in for months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see "meets 18-99" I just think "couldn't fill out a simply profile properly"

Though I guess some, who really will meet that range, slip through. Oh well.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

100% better.

Nice to see someone ask for comments and then actually take some notice...

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area


"When I see "meets 18-99" I just think "couldn't fill out a simply profile properly"

Though I guess some, who really will meet that range, slip through. Oh well."

at my age im not loosing out on any possibilities

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers guys, thanks for that, now.....anyone fancy a meet lol =D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read people's profiles before mailing them, sending mails to cpls who are not looking to meet single guys will only alienate you more and depress you when you get deleted or blocked by them.

As said by many, have patience and keep mailing those whose criteria you do fall into.

Try and get to a club or social to get your personality known.

Read other guys profiles, some are very successfull and see how thier profiles compare, check out those who have been here years with no meets and maybe you can work out where they are going wrong on thier profiles and not make the same mistakes

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"As said by many, have patience and keep mailing those whose criteria you do fall into.

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Over and over again???

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By *iercedTattooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

bangor


"cheers guys, thanks for that, now.....anyone fancy a meet lol =D "

Me me me me me!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

anyone else lol =P

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"anyone else lol =P "

Does that mean you're turning the lady down?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nope, id do no such thing =)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"guys thanks for the advice, i have changed my profile, if any1 would like to check it out and advise me more id be most greatful "

Hmmm...better, but it still wouldn't stand out for me. As others have suggested, refine your age range, I don't for one minute believe you'd shag a 70 year old let alone a 99 year old!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmmm...better, but it still wouldn't stand out for me. As others have suggested, refine your age range, I don't for one minute believe you'd shag a 70 year old let alone a 99 year old! "

well you never know lol, depends how many beers ive had lol =D

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

time, patience, common sense...

if you have come looking for "insta-shag" the site doesn't tend to work that way......

it can take months and months to get that first meet, because there are so many people out there...

you have to work out for yourself a way of selling yourself in a way that makes people say "yes I have to meet that person"..

so whether that is by going to socials and standing out.... or by going onto the chatrooms and standing out.... or a million other ways, you now have to figure the rest out for yourself.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put some more pic's up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm...better, but it still wouldn't stand out for me. As others have suggested, refine your age range, I don't for one minute believe you'd shag a 70 year old let alone a 99 year old! "

My age criteria is 19 to 97 and yes I would shag a 97 year old if I found her attractive, ok the chances of finding a 97 year old that I do find attractive is very slim but the reason I put such a varied age gap is because I wanted to show that age is imaterial to us.

I have met a 64 year old that I found attractive and certainly more attractive than many mid 20's women I have seen, but sadly she was too busy with the younger guys at the club that night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm...better, but it still wouldn't stand out for me. As others have suggested, refine your age range, I don't for one minute believe you'd shag a 70 year old let alone a 99 year old!

My age criteria is 19 to 97 and yes I would shag a 97 year old if I found her attractive, ok the chances of finding a 97 year old that I do find attractive is very slim but the reason I put such a varied age gap is because I wanted to show that age is imaterial to us.

I have met a 64 year old that I found attractive and certainly more attractive than many mid 20's women I have seen, but sadly she was too busy with the younger guys at the club that night"

But a 64 year old is only 9 years older than you! I'd shag someone 9 years older than me...oh I did for 25 years!

The OP is 25...and he aint gonna be banging noooo octogenarian!!!

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