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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there Forumites.

I just need some reassurances I guess and where better to come.

I've just been freaked out by a message who has now gone 'unlos'

There appeared to be a short exchange of messages but I cant remember his username, he did irritate me but I just ignored his last message, logged on just now to find the message 'you're being played' and 'you cannot reply as unlos'

I have reported it to admin but not sure they can do anything if he's gone.

Has this happened to anyone and should I be worried?

I have a great circle of friends on here so can't imagine it would be anyone on my friends list as I know them all pretty well.

Your thoughts would be appreciated, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it hun. It's freak Sunday today. I'm apparently a man and all the people I have met have been uglies. There ya go! Never made any proor contact. Totally unsolicited. Freak!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This weekend has been the worst for messages of abuse. We probably went a year or so without getting any and have had three morons message us rubbish. Has actualy made us think about turning on the filters and going hunting on out terms.

Shame. Don't let it worry you just some saddo thinking he has messed with you. Don't give him the pleasure of any more worrying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it. I think people say things to make you worry. I had a guy tell me he's going to ruin my life because He knows my family. I'm yet to have any chaos caused. Just a guy with a hurt ego

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Don't let it worry you, the more you react, the more they get excited

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

what did he mean, you are being played?

I'd just chalk it up as a weirdo to be honest. Why has it freaked you out so much?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what did he mean, you are being played?

I'd just chalk it up as a weirdo to be honest. Why has it freaked you out so much?"

This is my 3rd single profile as I've been head f**cked by guys in the past, hence I am much more careful. I'm reading these replies and thinking you're all right of course. He's obviously a loser who has nothing better to do. This is why I love the Forums so much. Thank you xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Ignore ignore ignore. You make him more important by giving him thought. Don't.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And here was me thinking about turning my filters off as I haven't received any new messages today! (joke)

To the OP, just ignore! It's obviously someone just wanting to cause some trouble, nothing to worry about and chin up x

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By *iggy1Woman
over a year ago

DORCHESTER

Dam right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore ignore ignore. You make him more important by giving him thought. Don't."

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Also take off you status! Your playing into his hands! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How strange, just a bitter "can't get a meet type" exacting his own brand of tough justice no doubt, nothing to worry about.

I received a message this morning on a site about fish, that simply read "your shit" So I replied, hello, that's nice, but ai think you'll find it's actually you're, but nice try anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure there's a lot admin can do tbh, just try and forget and move on.

I'm probably a bit to sensitive for my own good and this type of thing freaks me out too.

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also take off you status! Your playing into his hands! x"

Done

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure there's a lot admin can do tbh, just try and forget and move on.

I'm probably a bit to sensitive for my own good and this type of thing freaks me out too.

x

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That's my problem too I think

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

There are some people who like to try to freak people out on here and do that sort of thing...report if you feel you should [i imagine they can see who has sent messages in admin? never sure about that...]

As you say, if you have good friends they will be exactly that...good friends.

Take care and hope you feel less spooked soon

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I totally get why it freaked you out but it really isn't worth worrying about. We all get the nasty little toys out of the pram missives from time to time and refusing to bite is the only way to deal with them.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

You will always get nutters on any site. Just be web wise and block them. Men do occasionally get matters too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently had someone write to the verifications I had at the time on here - they sent a nasty message about me and then appeared on the recipient's message board as 'unlos'. Someone very jealous I guess

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Probably some loser you said no to,i had a man say he would tell them all about me being on here.I don't know what i did to him but he left the site and rejoined,soon blocked him.Sorry he made you feel bad,keep your chin up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all so much. I knew coming in the Forums would be a good idea.

Feeling much calmer now xxxx

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

my Ex Had some strange guy from Manchester Stating he would tell her family and freinds all about her activities on fab unless she met him. She had ti delete her Single profile in the end.

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

People can be very shitty

I had a ex try to ruin my life after 5years of no contact.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

really surly it should water under bridge at the point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is my 3rd single profile but one I intend to keep, had it for almost 2 years now. It makes no sense the people want to stir things up from the past like none of it is their fault. I have a feeling I know who was behind this now.

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