FabSwingers.com forum: need more attention

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This isn't a moan up I generally want to get a bit more attention .as I'm not doing to well .no one seems to want to answer messages or chat to me .so is there anything on my profile I can change for the better ? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience...............

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess this isn't entertaining enough lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Go to a social, a club, go in the chat room, join in in the forum, meet people in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess this isn't entertaining enough lol"

Nothing to do with entertaining I'm afraid, there are posts on this subject several times a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you done anything that's been suggested to you in the past?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you done anything that's been suggested to you in the past?"
I have yes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see anything wrong with your profile.

are the messages you write nice and interesting?

at the end there are just so many of you on this website. try to stick out of the crowd with your messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I try to be friendly in my messages I'm never rude .I try to change pics Jeep them up to date and participate in the forums quite a lot to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get out from behind the keyboard, there's a whole world of fun outside the front door. Social events, parties, clubs. Your severely limiting your options and chances of success by only using the online side of swinging.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

lose the face pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

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why ?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"lose the face pics

why ?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

why ?

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cu's I'm not good looking ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet women when they offer might be a good start !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some confidence. From these and other posts you make it comes across your lacking in self belief. Get out and mix it up a bit if you socialise on the scene you will soon walk tall.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get some confidence. From these and other posts you make it comes across your lacking in self belief. Get out and mix it up a bit if you socialise on the scene you will soon walk tall. "

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"lose the face pics

why lose the face pics, if hes willing to have them on show its much better to show them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

Us ladies prefer to see face pics . Makes a refreshing change . Have faith

Jen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every single man who posts one of these threads very likely ensures they'll never meet, or never meet again.

Try some pics of you doing stuff, at gym is always good, shows you are active and into staying fit.

Longer profile with some interesting stuff in it, as women and cpls do tend to read profiles.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"This isn't a moan up I generally want to get a bit more attention .as I'm not doing to well .no one seems to want to answer messages or chat to me .so is there anything on my profile I can change for the better ? Thanks"

On the whole - the profile is negative: "try my luck", "if you come across as rude or dull", "I will block you", negative sounding status etc.

Your profile should be positive - it is there to sell you - make people think "hey, I'd like to know more".

Too many face photos/not enough variety IMHO.

The likelihood of people originating messages to you will be small.

Get yourself into the chat rooms and/or go to social events in your area ... get yourself known (for the right reasons).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a good-looking guy, keep the face pics

As far as the messaging business goes, it's always good to be nice, but don't be TOO nice. Be a bit of a cheeky asshole. After all, that's what got me this far. Stick with me, kid, and you too could have two whole verifications on your profile inside a year!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're a good-looking guy, keep the face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

Completely idiotic thing to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile changes as you see fit, plenty of threads about that stuff if you use the search option in forum.

A profile isn't as important as some, in particular single males, make out - if you make efforts away from here you will get clearer progress in terms of physically being in a place where there are more people in a sexual and / or social environment. Try clubs, socials or events you see mentioned, and if you're positive and social it really helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat"

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice."

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree"

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'."

Well thats my opinion anyway. Needless to say, it doesnt matter if women do it because most men are desperate for a shag either way, but i think youll find a lot of women would be happier for guys to keep their face pics private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.

Never heard a single woman say this.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat"

ok number 1 this isnt a sex site, its a swingers site the name slightly gives it away.

and number 2 I think you will find most women and couples prefer to see a face pic and dont find it weird at all that a man would choose to put a face pic public, and infact would encourage it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swing from the chandeliers then.

Her

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"Swing from the chandeliers then.

Her"

beg pardon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swing from the chandeliers then.

Her

beg pardon."
just my humour lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.

You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.

You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock"

Please ignore these idiots !

You have a smashing profile and lovely pictures. I wouldn't change a thing. The trouble you have is all your local females are blind !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.

You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock

Please ignore these idiots !

You have a smashing profile and lovely pictures. I wouldn't change a thing. The trouble you have is all your local females are blind !"
aww thank you :0) x

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Public face pics is better than a blank avatar and no pics in private

That shouts fake to me

ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess this isn't entertaining enough lol"

Go to a swing club, there are loads near you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.

You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock"

First of a all, any face pics in mine are obscured, there with the consent of any lady in question and could not be identified in any way at all.

Secondly, im more than happy to swap face pics with someone ONCE I GET CHATTING WITH THEM, which im sure you can see is entirely different to not having them at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.

You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock

First of a all, any face pics in mine are obscured, there with the consent of any lady in question and could not be identified in any way at all.

Secondly, im more than happy to swap face pics with someone ONCE I GET CHATTING WITH THEM, which im sure you can see is entirely different to not having them at all"

Your point originally was that its off putting seeing face pics on profiles . Our point was you have other people's faces on yours which ARENT blurred (pleased you have permission but again irrelevant).

It's perfectly normal on here not to have face pics and send them later on . We aren't saying that's not normal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK but I find having no PIC a waste of time .you start chatting to someone send a face PIC and your not their type .saves alot of time having a face PIC .they know what you look like from the start and people can make that choice instead of beating around the bush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep the face pics. It's great to see a face instead of just a cock pic.

You're a good looking guy anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keep the face pics. It's great to see a face instead of just a cock pic.

You're a good looking guy anyway. "
thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK but I find having no PIC a waste of time .you start chatting to someone send a face PIC and your not their type .saves alot of time having a face PIC .they know what you look like from the start and people can make that choice instead of beating around the bush "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.

Never heard a single woman say this."

Nor have I, in fact the opposite most women, myself included, ignore men without face pics

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.

You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock

First of a all, any face pics in mine are obscured, there with the consent of any lady in question and could not be identified in any way at all.

Secondly, im more than happy to swap face pics with someone ONCE I GET CHATTING WITH THEM, which im sure you can see is entirely different to not having them at all"

you originally said lose the face pics as its weird to have them in public and most females couples would think that, well it isnt and they dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.

You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock

First of a all, any face pics in mine are obscured, there with the consent of any lady in question and could not be identified in any way at all.

Secondly, im more than happy to swap face pics with someone ONCE I GET CHATTING WITH THEM, which im sure you can see is entirely different to not having them at all

It's perfectly normal on here not to have face pics and send them later on . We aren't saying that's not normal. "

I never said they were blurred, i said they were obscured...and they are.

Your second point makes no sense to me; i never questioned what was normal or not. You just previously suggested that i may be a kind of guy who only had cock/bj pics...i was merely stating how this isnt the case and that i trade face pics in private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.

You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock

First of a all, any face pics in mine are obscured, there with the consent of any lady in question and could not be identified in any way at all.

Secondly, im more than happy to swap face pics with someone ONCE I GET CHATTING WITH THEM, which im sure you can see is entirely different to not having them at all

you originally said lose the face pics as its weird to have them in public and most females couples would think that, well it isnt and they dont."

My opionion, enforced by previous chats and comments from various women, which i still believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel a separate thread about to start lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree"

I'm a woman and I don't think a guy having a face picture on here is weird or off putting. I prefer seeing a face picture in public pictures cos at least I can decide if I like them beforehand rather than them sending me a private face picture and me then deciding I don't find them attractive.

Op I've only looked through your pictures quickly but my advice would be get rid of the pictures of you wearing double denim!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like you really proved me wrong, eh bananaman?

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"lose the face pics

I agree. I havent looked at your profile so no idea what you look like but theres something weird about someone who happily posts face pics publicly on a sex site. Keep then private, to swap in chat

Why should they be private? It's completely his choice.

Because as i said in my post, i think its weird or at least off putting, and i think a lot of women will agree

Cannot see the logic in that at all. Plenty of people, both men and women, have face pics on display. It's far from 'weird' or 'off-putting'.

You have face pics on your profile just not yours . Which can be a turn off. When looking for a single guy we like to see the guy not the women he's been with sucking his cock

First of a all, any face pics in mine are obscured, there with the consent of any lady in question and could not be identified in any way at all.

Secondly, im more than happy to swap face pics with someone ONCE I GET CHATTING WITH THEM, which im sure you can see is entirely different to not having them at all

you originally said lose the face pics as its weird to have them in public and most females couples would think that, well it isnt and they dont.

My opionion, enforced by previous chats and comments from various women, which i still believe."

lol even when women and couples are telling you the exact opposite, you dont give up, the proofs in the pudding so to speak lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

can someone bloody well start this "face pic or not" debate in a thread... I am itching to have my 2 penneth....

p.s spoiler alert: I don't think the irish bananaman is going to be happy with it!!!

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