FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By *illywonka76 OP Man
over a year ago

Glos/Wales/West Midlajds

Still looking for my first meet through fabs? Any advice great fully received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried Gurning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some pictures on your profile, no cock shots though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still looking for my first meet through fabs? Any advice great fully received

Little confused, you have 3 verifications, one from a guy saying both played with a woman, surely that means had a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cock shot as a profile pic and nothing else to see ain't going to do you any favours

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Without any photos you've got no chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have verifications, so clearly you have not done badly. You have no photos on display and you state that you cannot accommodate without any explanation. Those last two issues will limit the amount of contact you receive.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis ?

If not there'll be one along in a while to show you the effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have verifications, so clearly you have not done badly. You have no photos on display and you state that you cannot accommodate without any explanation. Those last two issues will limit the amount of contact you receive."

True, cannot accommodate sounds too much like cheating and a lot of people don't like that.

Are you cheating?

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By *illywonka76 OP Man
over a year ago

Glos/Wales/West Midlajds

Thanks for the advice

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By *illywonka76 OP Man
over a year ago

Glos/Wales/West Midlajds

I cannot accommodate as I live with my friend and his 5 year old son, so it's tricky besides which I am hardly ever at home I am always on the road with work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no pics !?

if you cant be bothered then don't expect others too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still looking for my first meet through fabs? Any advice great fully received

Little confused, you have 3 verifications, one from a guy saying both played with a woman, surely that means had a meet"

Not met through Fab perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't eat yellow snow... oh, not that sort of advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice...

Put a pic or two on your profile but please please don't do the "Cock with Sky remote" or "Cock over a toilet full of yellow water!!!" Both unnecessary and bloody disgusting!!

Belle

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i cant see you getting anywhere with no pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i cant see you getting anywhere with no pictures "

You really need to make your profile stand out - and that means you're going to need to have some photos.

As has been said, the fact that you can not accommodate but have provided no explanation as to why will be putting a lot of people off.

They'll likely be thinking 'Hmmm, 38 year old bloke that can't accommodate. Must be married and cheating on his wife'

Oh, and here's another tip. Don't post a forum thread moaning about being unable to get meets - it makes you sound desperate, which in turn does not appeal.

Try to avoid negative status updates.

As has been said many times before, change your approach or change your expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a can of lynx on your todger...

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By *illywonka76 OP Man
over a year ago

Glos/Wales/West Midlajds

I can't accommodate as I share a place with my mate and his son stays overnight a few nights a week

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By *illywonka76 OP Man
over a year ago

Glos/Wales/West Midlajds

That might burn

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By *illywonka76 OP Man
over a year ago

Glos/Wales/West Midlajds

Thanks for this I wouldn't put my cock against a remote let alone take a photo of it thank you for the advice

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Without any photos you've got no chance. "

Wouldn't even read a profile with no pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well you have verifications from meets at a club, which isnt too bad.But for people looking in a window...they wanna see what they wanna buy...its pretty simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even entertain that profile.. Everything about it is a turn off! Just saying.....

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By *illywonka76 OP Man
over a year ago

Glos/Wales/West Midlajds

Thanks for all the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the advice "

5 hours later ... still no pics ,, why ask for advice when its not taken ??

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

"Thanks for all the advice

5 hours later ... still no pics ,, why ask for advice when its not taken ??"

More than 5 hours, its over a day!

Typical, 'advice' thread, dont know why we bother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the advice

5 hours later ... still no pics ,, why ask for advice when its not taken ??"

Maybe because this was all about 'look at my profile'?

Why else would anyone ask for advice and then not take it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the advice

5 hours later ... still no pics ,, why ask for advice when its not taken ??

Maybe because this was all about 'look at my profile'?

Why else would anyone ask for advice and then not take it??"

doesnt HAVE to act on it asap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the advice

5 hours later ... still no pics ,, why ask for advice when its not taken ??

Maybe because this was all about 'look at my profile'?

Why else would anyone ask for advice and then not take it??

doesnt HAVE to act on it asap lol"

So why ask for it?

After all he has been on since and it takes all of five minutes to make adjustments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the advice

5 hours later ... still no pics ,, why ask for advice when its not taken ??

Maybe because this was all about 'look at my profile'?

Why else would anyone ask for advice and then not take it??

doesnt HAVE to act on it asap lol

So why ask for it?

After all he has been on since and it takes all of five minutes to make adjustments?"

maybe he has a life outside fab...despite being logged in

maybe he thanked us fr the advice but doesnt want to put pics up

maybe he has a crap camera or doesnt know how to edit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the advice

5 hours later ... still no pics ,, why ask for advice when its not taken ??

Maybe because this was all about 'look at my profile'?

Why else would anyone ask for advice and then not take it??

doesnt HAVE to act on it asap lol

So why ask for it?

After all he has been on since and it takes all of five minutes to make adjustments?

maybe he has a life outside fab...despite being logged in

maybe he thanked us fr the advice but doesnt want to put pics up

maybe he has a crap camera or doesnt know how to edit"

He was the one asking for his first FAB meet.

Maybe it was the usual thing, wanting to get people to look at his profile.

Never works you know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still looking for my first meet through fabs? Any advice great fully received

Think your profile text is ok, but you definitely need to add some pics. Maybe a couple of full body shots, and a face pic (which you could keep as friends only if need be) There are so many single men on here that we have to have a quick elimination process and we wont usually reply to someone who doesnt have any pics at all. Not sure I would have the part on about the male that you also swing with, as although you are both straight, at a glance it might look like you are bi.

You obviously already attend a club, but you could try attending socials that are local to you?? Juicy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the advice

5 hours later ... still no pics ,, why ask for advice when its not taken ??

Maybe because this was all about 'look at my profile'?

Why else would anyone ask for advice and then not take it??"

spot on

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By *corpi0stingMan
over a year ago

london

Why did people keep writing in this thread? Doh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did people keep writing in this thread? Doh! "

Maybe, because they want to??

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

If you keep on doing the same old things......

You will keep on getting the same old results!

Change your profile

Effort in = results out

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Theres loads of threads offering profile advice, check those out. Hope it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My advice...

Put a pic or two on your profile but please please don't do the "Cock with Sky remote" or "Cock over a toilet full of yellow water!!!" Both unnecessary and bloody disgusting!!

Belle "
pmsl nice one

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By *illywonka76 OP Man
over a year ago

Glos/Wales/West Midlajds

Thanks john

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By *illywonka76 OP Man
over a year ago

Glos/Wales/West Midlajds

Thanks Jack dom bull

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By *illywonka76 OP Man
over a year ago

Glos/Wales/West Midlajds

Thanks for the advice juicy

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By *illywonka76 OP Man
over a year ago

Glos/Wales/West Midlajds

Thanks to all those that have given their advice I will be making a couple of changes shortly just because it shows I am online doesn't mean I am checking my phone every 30 seconds thanks to those that have given me constructive criticism to take on board

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not keen on a name with Willy in it as makes me think your just thinking of your cock and you need pics here too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A cock shot as a profile pic and nothing else to see ain't going to do you any favours"

Unless you have googly eyes on your penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried googly eyes on your penis ?

If not there'll be one along in a while to show you the effect

Haha Damn

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