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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been on and off fab for a couple of years. I'm aware as a single guy it's harder to get a reply due to the amount of single guys and also the reputation some guys have on here.

Lately I've been struggling to get replys and meets does anyone have any adivice on how I Could improve my chances of getting a reply thus leading to a chance of a meet. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rewrite your profile - the grammar is pretty bad. Maybe think about getting rid of the photos of your penis? We all have one, and many people find it offputting to have it shoved in their face.

Other than that you seem like a decent chap. The main thing is, don't be an arsehole, and don't hassle people.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say your straight but your user name says you a submissive gay, google the meaning of boi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your profile there isn't really a lot about you. There is a lot about what you're looking for but anyone reading your profile might not get an idea of who you are.

You have 6 verifications though mate and that is good.

I'm not sure how your messages come across when messaging people but I try to be les generic and organise my message around them and their profile and try to mention things I liked or read on their profile. I guess those little attention to details showed to you took the time and effort to read about them and it then makes them feel unique or at least makes them feel like they stood out.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You say your straight but your user name says you a submissive gay, google the meaning of boi"

His profile doesn't say anything about him being submissive or gay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havn't had one off here yet, but exciting of the thought of my fab virginity being in tact enjoy yourself and be relaxed in the approach you take on here and take it slowly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You say your straight but your user name says you a submissive gay, google the meaning of boi

His profile doesn't say anything about him being submissive or gay?"

Google Boi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience old chap, don't scatter bomb women with mail. Read profiles, make it clear you have done so, you'll get there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at your profile there isn't really a lot about you. There is a lot about what you're looking for but anyone reading your profile might not get an idea of who you are.

You have 6 verifications though mate and that is good.

I'm not sure how your messages come across when messaging people but I try to be les generic and organise my message around them and their profile and try to mention things I liked or read on their profile. I guess those little attention to details showed to you took the time and effort to read about them and it then makes them feel unique or at least makes them feel like they stood out.

Hope that helps. "

Very good morning advice, well done

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

......"aware as a single guy it's harder to get a reply due to the amount of single guys and also the reputation some guys have on here....."

Nothing to do with you then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have amended my profile a d any feedback on the profile would be appreciated

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By *reindlyguy69Man
over a year ago

dagenham

ts very hard to get meets as a single guy due to the amount of dickheads on here that get all guys tarred with the same brush, its hard to a get a reply most of the time even if its a thanks but no thanks because a lot of guys then become abusive with rejection, but stick with it and have patients

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having received messages from you on my old single profile I think you need to actually read profiles before messaging (your 6 years under my age limit on that one); be more individual in your messages (us girlies can spot copy + paste messages a mile off) and don't be so pushy. Asking for a meet on first message will just get you (as you found out) blocked.

Paws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends as well where you live, all my offers comes from north England tho, non down south England. I need to relocate

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It makes me laugh when men blame other men for their perceived lack of success on here. Why not take a little self responsibility? Maybe it's easier to blame other people rather than do something effective.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

keith why not give this a go..connie x

http://www.fabflirts.com/

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By *he WickedsCouple
over a year ago

Swingtown

Go to a club.

We find Fab is great for maintaining friendships made in clubs. Saying hi to someone/some couple in a club, asking them to verify you, can lead to building friendships and invites for meets or to parties.

It may take time but once you're in the loop.... You're in a whirl!

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