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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We don't display face photos on our profile, however we do send face pics out if requested asking to see there's by return just of late finding it rather bad form that people don't send them by return or say "I will show them to the wife send ours back if she is interested" kind of line? Hold on, maybe worth sending us back to see if we will be interested? Even had one day the aforementioned line and then message the next day saying very nice here is us, guess what? We were not interested! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just one of those things, someone's gotta send first and if the recipient doesn't fancy the look of the sender then its unlikely they'd return one anyway.

We've sent ours first many a time with no reply. We just assume they're not interested and have moved on. No dramas.....

If we've received a picture from some we didn't fancy, wouldn't bother to send one back, there's no point and we'd just reply saying thanks but no thanks instead.

Everyone goes about things in their own way, I honestly believe that none are the only right way or the only wrong way, there's only the way that's best for the individual/couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All good points guess we were having one of those bad fab days! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All good points guess we were having one of those bad fab days! Xx"

We all have 'em. Deep breaths, smile on face and don't let those who irk you bring you down.

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

The ones that piss me off are the ones that ask for face pics but have no public ones themselves. When i respond by telling them that it'd be polite to send there's with the request first they get shirty and disappear.

Dave

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

If I recieved a message with a pic and wasn't interested I wouldn't send one back nor would I expect one in return if I sent first and the recipient wasn't interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The ones that piss me off are the ones that ask for face pics but have no public ones themselves. When i respond by telling them that it'd be polite to send there's with the request first they get shirty and disappear.

Dave "

Agree with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have face pics on display on my profile.

On the rare occasion that someone messages me, I would expect them to send a face picture if they have none on display on their profile - though I don't actually stipulate this as a requirement on my profile - Seen this on others and find it off-putting.

One or two have messaged with a pic, but most don't. When I ask if they'd be kind enough to send pictures, either they cease communicating or send more of the same kinds of faceless pics that they do show.

I do wonder about the mentality of some people sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never get replies after sending face pic's

Ok it's not entirely true, but jools is far better looking than I.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm chatting to someone I forget they haven't seen my face. I always send when asked

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I would not send a face pic to someone I wasn't interested in if they send theirs first... seems kinda pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to send a face pic if requested. I just wish someone would request it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones that piss me off are the ones that ask for face pics but have no public ones themselves. When i respond by telling them that it'd be polite to send there's with the request first they get shirty and disappear.

Dave "

Why do people have to have face pics public? Get real!!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Oh, and I very rarely send mine first after a few scary/weird experiences with local single guys... so think on that when you are asking single ladies to send a face pic that identifies them.

One single guy I sent mine to, refused to send one back, but would then randomly message me saying he'd seen me in local shops with my son etc...

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"The ones that piss me off are the ones that ask for face pics but have no public ones themselves. When i respond by telling them that it'd be polite to send there's with the request first they get shirty and disappear.

Dave

Why do people have to have face pics public? Get real!!"

Where does it say they have to have public face pics?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We also find it a little off putting if someone local requests our pics and then doesn't send one back, it's them saying we know what you look like now but you don't know us heh heh attitude! X

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"Oh, and I very rarely send mine first after a few scary/weird experiences with local single guys... so think on that when you are asking single ladies to send a face pic that identifies them.

One single guy I sent mine to, refused to send one back, but would then randomly message me saying he'd seen me in local shops with my son etc... "

This is exactly why we don't send face pics.

That must have been really unsettling for you,I think I'd have felt very vulnerable.

Hope he's buggered off and let you be now x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Oh, and I very rarely send mine first after a few scary/weird experiences with local single guys... so think on that when you are asking single ladies to send a face pic that identifies them.

One single guy I sent mine to, refused to send one back, but would then randomly message me saying he'd seen me in local shops with my son etc...

This is exactly why we don't send face pics.

That must have been really unsettling for you,I think I'd have felt very vulnerable.

Hope he's buggered off and let you be now x"

Yes, he got the hint and went... after setting up 5 or 6 different profiles to get round my block. Wasn't nice tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, and I very rarely send mine first after a few scary/weird experiences with local single guys... so think on that when you are asking single ladies to send a face pic that identifies them.

One single guy I sent mine to, refused to send one back, but would then randomly message me saying he'd seen me in local shops with my son etc...

This is exactly why we don't send face pics.

That must have been really unsettling for you,I think I'd have felt very vulnerable.

Hope he's buggered off and let you be now x

Yes, he got the hint and went... after setting up 5 or 6 different profiles to get round my block. Wasn't nice tho."

No one needs that in their life, glad it's sorted for you.

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