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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice needed

I uploaded a new pic earlier and used it as my profile pic. I am worried that it's a bad pic that's putting people off me? The reason for thinking this is that I have not had any replies since I changed my profile pic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Were you getting replies before?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Were you getting replies before?"

Yes lol

Does that surprise you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not change profile pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smiley face looks friendlier and more approachable.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Were you getting replies before?

Yes lol

Does that surprise you? "

Change the pic back then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A smiley face looks friendlier and more approachable. "

I am smiling in the new pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Status might be putting them off

Makes you sound desperate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use funplaything's avatar = loads of replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try shaving 1 of your eyebrows off

might spark some interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Were you getting replies before?

Yes lol

Does that surprise you?

Change the pic back then "

Is that your advice? Tell me which pic of mine I should have as my profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your status is a massive turn off. Just tells me that you see women as pieces of meat on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use funplaything's avatar = loads of replies"

don't give him ideas!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your status is a massive turn off. Just tells me that you see women as pieces of meat on here."

Oh ok, that isn't what I am like. I worship woman and respect them totally. I only get pleasure from seeing a girl having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were getting replies with your other pic and not with your current one then its not rocket science, change it back ! Status is not good to be fair, I'd imagine many women would read that and be put off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Use funplaything's avatar = loads of replies

don't give him ideas!"

Maybe I should copy her bum pic with my own bum lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Status might be putting them off

Makes you sound desperate x"

^^^Totally agree with this comment, if I saw this on my home page? I would C&P into private notes and if you contacted me? There would be no chance!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Status might be putting them off

Makes you sound desperate x

^^^Totally agree with this comment, if I saw this on my home page? I would C&P into private notes and if you contacted me? There would be no chance!"

What puts you off most?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I changed my pic as well, already 10 fabs within 15min, love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I changed my pic as well, already 10 fabs within 15min, love it "

It must be your way with words

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Status might be putting them off

Makes you sound desperate x

^^^Totally agree with this comment, if I saw this on my home page? I would C&P into private notes and if you contacted me? There would be no chance!

What puts you off most?"

It was crude and disgusting! Not the type of man I would want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I changed my pic as well, already 10 fabs within 15min, love it

It must be your way with words"
Thanks and your right there it could be, mind you I included that I liked big brother and I like haribos on my profile to.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"If you were getting replies with your other pic and not with your current one then its not rocket science, change it back ! Status is not good to be fair, I'd imagine many women would read that and be put off. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your status is a massive turn off. Just tells me that you see women as pieces of meat on here.

Oh ok, that isn't what I am like. I worship woman and respect them totally. I only get pleasure from seeing a girl having fun"

Yeh course you do! I'm more inclinded to believe the mysoginistic truthful original status rather than the sycophantic crap that you have replaced it with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Status might be putting them off

Makes you sound desperate x

^^^Totally agree with this comment, if I saw this on my home page? I would C&P into private notes and if you contacted me? There would be no chance!"

That exactly what I do status says a lot about the person I make notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like Men on here, Some Women go for looks/body some like a well written profile but most go for a combination of both before they message you,

Keep changing it until you get the right mix

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Status might be putting them off

Makes you sound desperate x

^^^Totally agree with this comment, if I saw this on my home page? I would C&P into private notes and if you contacted me? There would be no chance!

That exactly what I do status says a lot about the person I make notes "

The notes function is a very handy tool indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Status might be putting them off

Makes you sound desperate x

^^^Totally agree with this comment, if I saw this on my home page? I would C&P into private notes and if you contacted me? There would be no chance!

That exactly what I do status says a lot about the person I make notes

The notes function is a very handy tool indeed "

Me too. Some times it only needs one word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say the cock pic that looks like a goldfish opening its mouth is a NO NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Status might be putting them off

Makes you sound desperate x

^^^Totally agree with this comment, if I saw this on my home page? I would C&P into private notes and if you contacted me? There would be no chance!

That exactly what I do status says a lot about the person I make notes

The notes function is a very handy tool indeed

Me too. Some times it only needs one word. "

I will have to remember that when I update my status,

Unless the damage is already done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Status might be putting them off

Makes you sound desperate x

^^^Totally agree with this comment, if I saw this on my home page? I would C&P into private notes and if you contacted me? There would be no chance!

That exactly what I do status says a lot about the person I make notes

The notes function is a very handy tool indeed

Me too. Some times it only needs one word.

I will have to remember that when I update my status,

Unless the damage is already done

"

or two - fit arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say the cock pic that looks like a goldfish opening its mouth is a NO NO"

Shit, why did I look ! Where's the feeling sick emoticon ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Blimey,I bet he wished he'd never asked the question now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guess there's no hope for me then lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blimey,I bet he wished he'd never asked the question now "

Yep doomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess there's no hope for me then lol"

where there's will there's hope,

Or something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always hope.........slim but there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's always hope.........slim but there"

Not sure if that is supposed to be supportive or your taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking the piss ain't my style.

In my humble opinion, what you need to do is stop trying to please everyone. The simple and brutal fact is some will like the look of you, some won't, some will be indifferent.

Have some conviction to do with your photos what you like. Constant questioning what you should be doing just shows you in a bad light, like you're constantly seeking approval.

A couple of photo tips, selfies are bad at the best of times so you can help yourself by not looking down to the camera, that adds chins and the illusion of weight you might not be carrying. SMILE, nothing's more important than looking friendly and approachable. Get a friend to take a more natural shot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Taking the piss ain't my style.

In my humble opinion, what you need to do is stop trying to please everyone. The simple and brutal fact is some will like the look of you, some won't, some will be indifferent.

Have some conviction to do with your photos what you like. Constant questioning what you should be doing just shows you in a bad light, like you're constantly seeking approval.

A couple of photo tips, selfies are bad at the best of times so you can help yourself by not looking down to the camera, that adds chins and the illusion of weight you might not be carrying. SMILE, nothing's more important than looking friendly and approachable. Get a friend to take a more natural shot. "

Ok thanks for the advice x

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