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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

maybe its my approach, maybe its my user name,, whatever it is, it not working, just looking for some horny chat with horny people,, not much too ask for on a site like this surely,, any advice would be more than weclome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many have said on the countless other similar threads, most people will look at your profile before reading your message, and if your profile doesn't grab them, your message will most likely not even get a second thought.

Unfortunately, your profile as it currently stands isn't doing a lot for you. This is where you get to 'sell yourself' as it were. It is where you make that all important first impression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically as more and more single men join, women will get more picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't be interested in horny chat, its not our thing and as said your profile isn't helping you my h

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't do dirty/ horny chat, I'm here to actually meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More about the action than talking dirty for us. We get asked for the whole dirty phone/Kik/Skype stuff but see nothing in it.

Sure if you hang round the chat rooms you will find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pictures at all and plenty of profiles with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many men can turn me on simply by chatting. It's boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do dirty/ horny chat, I'm here to actually meet people

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Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also don't like 'horny' chat. I like physical sex. Possibly search for people who have kik on their profile, they (but not all) tend to like dirty chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One, your profile is mediocre at best and two, dirty chat isn't super high on many ladies agendas I don't think.

Sorry to be blunt fella, but that's how I see it....

Do a forum search on profile advice, that may at least help you stick out a little if you choose to follow the advice given...

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

As the majority above say, we tend to use this site more for meets. In fact anyone trying to start sexy-chat is more than likely to be written off as a bit of a time-waster I'm afraid.

On the plus side, if it is just sexy-chat with stunning women you're after, I know a site where the management ensure there are always plenty if men, sorry, I mean ladies, with pics from Russian websites where they're always happy to oblige...

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so one comment was i do not have a pic , well that is now fixed, and another comment was try kik , what is kik ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has already been said not interested in online fun we use this site to meet and keep in contact with people we've met, what's the point in dirty chat when you can have real fun ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so one comment was i do not have a pic , well that is now fixed, and another comment was try kik , what is kik ?"

kik is a chat app for your phone, people use it to trade pics and chat about sex.

people with kik on their profile might only be using it as a means to contact others off site, but they are more likely to be the ones interested in sex chat or naughty phone fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so one comment was i do not have a pic , well that is now fixed, and another comment was try kik , what is kik ?

kik is a chat app for your phone, people use it to trade pics and chat about sex.

people with kik on their profile might only be using it as a means to contact others off site, but they are more likely to be the ones interested in sex chat or naughty phone fun."

and also the ones who arrange meets and don't turn up so avoid getting thrown off site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so one comment was i do not have a pic , well that is now fixed, and another comment was try kik , what is kik ?

kik is a chat app for your phone, people use it to trade pics and chat about sex.

people with kik on their profile might only be using it as a means to contact others off site, but they are more likely to be the ones interested in sex chat or naughty phone fun.

and also the ones who arrange meets and don't turn up so avoid getting thrown off site."

I hear Kik is really popular with fellas pretending to be ladies

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Horny chat bores me to death

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Horny chat bores me to death "

Badly spelled horny chat would make me hoot with derision.

OP: sort your spelling out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do dirty/ horny chat, I'm here to actually meet people

Same "
me to sorry

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Aren't there special 0890 numbers for those who want to talk the talk? I prefer those who can walk the walk, much more satisfying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe its my approach, maybe its my user name,, whatever it is, it not working, just looking for some horny chat with horny people,, not much too ask for on a site like this surely,, any advice would be more than weclome"

Possibly what you're looking for doesn't rate at all on most people's wish list on a Swingers website, you may be better off on a specialised phone sex site.

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