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By *nthony101099 OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

Hi everyone,

Just putting it out there I've sent many messages to different people and not one reply am I doing something wrong.

If I do get a reply to this please no messers with stupid remarks.

Appreciate the help thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's normal.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's what you're saying to them. I also don't mean to be rude, but your avatar isn't very flattering. You may want to take more pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask the same question to people with this problem - would you reply to you? Look at your profile through a woman's eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here a week - be patient.

Have a good look around the forums.

Many single guys, mostly newbies, have asked why they don't seem to be getting very far and they all get told pretty much the same thing.

Single Guys vastly outnumber single women and couples on here. Many women get inundated with around 100 messages per day, so simply don't have time to reply to them all.

If you look around the site, particularly at the FAQ's (http://www.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ) you will find that the subject of 'no replies' has been covered.

http://www.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ#noreply

In short, you should take a non-response as a 'No thanks' or 'not interested'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is a virtue! Rome wasn't built in a day!! Life is like a box of chocolates!! I could go on with many more!!

I've been here for two years and you can count the number of female friends have made on two hands, though a fair few have passed by the wayside!!

Take your time and enjoy the ride, join the banter in the forums that I have started to do over the last few weeks as I didn't bother before. Those friends will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What type of message are you sending? It's hard to help without knowing. But a woman in here can get literally hundreds of messages per day so you need to stand out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What type of message are you sending? It's hard to help without knowing. But a woman in here can get literally hundreds of messages per day so you need to stand out! "

Stand out? Are you actually asking for a cock pic you hussy?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Most females read the profile first and to be honest, it is not very enticing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What type of message are you sending? It's hard to help without knowing. But a woman in here can get literally hundreds of messages per day so you need to stand out!

Stand out? Are you actually asking for a cock pic you hussy? "

Oi!! Cheeky!! x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hi everyone,

Just putting it out there I've sent many messages to different people and not one reply am I doing something wrong.

If I do get a reply to this please no messers with stupid remarks.

Appreciate the help thanks."

Don't say 'hey, ya dried up ol' lezzie, wanna get ya fanny dripping?' because it doesn't work*

*very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

Just putting it out there I've sent many messages to different people and not one reply am I doing something wrong.

If I do get a reply to this please no messers with stupid remarks.

Appreciate the help thanks.

Don't say 'hey, ya dried up ol' lezzie, wanna get ya fanny dripping?' because it doesn't work*

*very often "

Once will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if the profile the photos are good i will reply

if no profile or photos or lacking i wont reply

x

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By *nthony101099 OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

Thanks for feedback

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Thanks for feedback"

That's what people say who go to help and support groups for vomiters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for feedback"

Of course there is the old problem of you not accommodating, which is a recurring theme on these types of threads.

You may have quite a valid reason, however most people will assume you are cheating, hence you will narrow your number of replies down even more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a message that stands out , with a bit of imagination , I get loads that just say "hi bbe fancy a fuck" or "wot u up 2" , if there is no pics and lack of profile info and no verification I tend not to reply xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're tall, a lot of women on here love that (not sure if men do, they never mention it that i've noticed). Try get a pic that shows off your height, am sure that'd help a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah same as hardly no replys

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