FabSwingers.com forum: im finding it hard to get verified

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi do anyone hav any tips for me to get verified? thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet a verified member.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attend a social local to you...they're advertised in the events section as a rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet a verified member. "

Next question....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its no as easy as dat verified members wont meet non verified members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its no as easy as dat verified members wont meet non verified members"

so go to a social as someone has suggested.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"its no as easy as dat verified members wont meet non verified members"

Consider that statement for a few minutes: if that is true, how did the non verified members get verified?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I looked them up and it says only verified people invited.its very annoying

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I looked them up and it says only verified people invited.its very annoying"

You mean the party hosts only want to invite verified members to their sex party?

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I know that you may think being here for 4 months would suggest you'd have a meet in that time, but that depends on loads of things...if you are pleasant [i mean properly pleasant not pretending!] and are in touch messaging a few nice people, then you will eventually meet someone who will have got to know you, recognised you are genuine and not messing anyone around...then there is a chance you will meet [even for a social] ...then they will presumably be happy to verify you...

That's about the best I can suggest...good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looked them up and it says only verified people invited.its very annoying"

May as well give up then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could go into chat and get cam verified...contribute in there and here on the forums to get to know folk as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try heading to a club and just chat to people? I got my first veri by accident when a nice guy I met in a club spotted me on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its no as easy as dat verified members wont meet non verified members"

Yes they will.

As Steve says, how did anyone verified get verified.....positive mental attitude fella.

Some good advice on this thread already, get to a social or some such thing....if your gonna find negative reasons as to why this won't work then you can't be helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I take verifications with a pinch of salt, and look upon them as being rather disingenuous. Basically, they're not worth the bull that some are written with. I mean, who's going to give a bad verification anyway?

To be honest, too many veri's and I'm put off contacting people. As well as, if they also have a very long list of friends.

I actually ask not to be verified. I have one veri on my profile and that's only because some won't meet unless you have been verified. It was my first one. After that, I prefer to be more discreet.

What goes on the net, stay's on the net, and usually gets plastered all over the net. Even if you do put one of them legal disclaimers at the bottom of your profile - like that's actually going to stop anyone using your pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not verified, but still enjoy the site, I do like the social side so I'm happy.. Guess it depends on you, and what you want it's a time thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a single guy on here, im only fairly new myself, in my opinion im not the best looking of the bunch, im not very well endowed but my point is ive had meets and verifications. My advice to any single guy that is having issues is to make an effort on there profile, show your personality in there with something that will make the audience smile, even be provocative and entise them with your sexual imagination.people dont like to see one liners in there profile for eg " im Dave, i want a fuck, mail me" thats a no go, so spend some time on your profile, it took me awhile to find out about myself and what i did and didnt like so i could write my profile, so maybe go to swingers clubs, go out dogging in popular locations and get a feel for what you like and dont like. My photos arnt that good but im going to work on some more imaginative/creative photos..be creative and most of all be yourself. Also when you mail people, read there profiles first and maybe try relate to them, always be respectful. If you follow that advice im sure people will back me up and say that you will meet and socialise with alot more fabbers which will entail in you recieving more verifications!. Dont think about the verifications, just be yourself and things will follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I take verifications with a pinch of salt, and look upon them as being rather disingenuous. Basically, they're not worth the bull that some are written with. I mean, who's going to give a bad verification anyway?

To be honest, too many veri's and I'm put off contacting people. As well as, if they also have a very long list of friends.

I actually ask not to be verified. I have one veri on my profile and that's only because some won't meet unless you have been verified. It was my first one. After that, I prefer to be more discreet.

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You have two veries but ones by a man which you do not show...prob because your profile says straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares if you are verified or not . It doesn't mean anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think verifications should be scraped, only thing that would be need is a foto verified, maibe a new idea to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might want to take a look at your profile and pictures. Your profile is what gets you views and possibly replies. As it stands, it's not a great one.

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