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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had heard a wank before a meet would increase the time fucking and holding back the urge to cum.

Has anyone tried it ? Has it worked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking of Bernard Manning's arse has much the same effect, or just puts you off altogether

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thinking of Bernard Manning's arse has much the same effect, or just puts you off altogether "

Haha not looking to be put off but thanks for image

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wank ten minutes before I'd say yes. A couple of hours might not make much difference. It all depends on the person,some men are ready to go again immediately. I met a,man who came twice in 10 minutes and then again about half an hour later and again about an hour later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you wank ten minutes before I'd say yes. A couple of hours might not make much difference. It all depends on the person,some men are ready to go again immediately. I met a,man who came twice in 10 minutes and then again about half an hour later and again about an hour later. "

That sounds like a very lucky fella. I myself not so lucky but improving trying all sorts. I find the longer slower sesions have had the most intense feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wont work for me I just get too tired if I wank before a meet, that's why I always wank at night before I go to bed, so my cock is charged up for a possible the day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this definitely works, usually my stamina is okay/not great on the first one, but the next time I can last for quite a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you wank ten minutes before I'd say yes. A couple of hours might not make much difference. It all depends on the person,some men are ready to go again immediately. I met a,man who came twice in 10 minutes and then again about half an hour later and again about an hour later.

That sounds like a very lucky fella. I myself not so lucky but improving trying all sorts. I find the longer slower sesions have had the most intense feeling "

I like the longer,slower sessions. Other women will too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never found a wank works before a meet, although round 2 during a meet can last quite a while with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a wank prior to a meet does help you to last longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it's bloody difficult to cum at the best of times.....I try leave it 3 or 4 days before meeting to stand any chance of myself cumming....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think tonight im going to have to give it a go before my meet see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the man to be honest i have had one that cum twice in half an hour, and one that was relentless 6 times over a course of two hours.

It happens or does not happen all human nature, if you cum too soon, go again when you can.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the man to be honest i have had one that cum twice in half an hour, and one that was relentless 6 times over a course of two hours.

It happens or does not happen all human nature, if you cum too soon, go again when you can.

Her"

Does a fast cummer disappoint you though if he cums within five minutes are you not think damn I was just getting into that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the man to be honest i have had one that cum twice in half an hour, and one that was relentless 6 times over a course of two hours.

It happens or does not happen all human nature, if you cum too soon, go again when you can. No i maybe an odd one, but a relaxed attitude to sex, leads to good sex, being realistic with no pressure.

Her

Her

Does a fast cummer disappoint you though if he cums within five minutes are you not think damn I was just getting into that? "

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By *unToRideMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I like to cum minimum twice in a session and often it doesnt take much for the first time. Afterwards go down on the lady have fun turn her on make her cum again and again then go for round 2 that woul;d be my advice dont bother with a wank beforehand save it for the meet. If it takes a while before you can go again that is fine, just dont let it put you off keep playing and enjoying sexy games with your parnter untill you are ready and you will be and then likely to last alllllot longer the second time round by which point she has allready cum several times and will be a very happy lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice ladies and gents ill be putting it in to practice tonight all going well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the man to be honest i have had one that cum twice in half an hour, and one that was relentless 6 times over a course of two hours.

It happens or does not happen all human nature, if you cum too soon, go again when you can.

Her

Does a fast cummer disappoint you though if he cums within five minutes are you not think damn I was just getting into that? "

Can be quite flattering if a guy cums quick, or you think maybe he hasn't has sex for a while too. Just make sure you do other stuff to her if she was just getting into it. Guy above sounds like he knows what he's doing.

I think people would only be offended or disappointed if the guy came quick then left, maybe out of embarrassment or whatever, but it would make him look selfish and leave you feeling like a cum dumpster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got circumsized an can last for ages since. Sometimes I can't even blow a load lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will depend on your refractory period really...I think there is a lot of unnecessary shame connected to a quicker orgasm for men...and ironically the 'stud' may have Anorgasmia and actually can't gain enough stimulation to reach orgasm but that doesn't have the shame attached to it.

Whether you masturbate before a meet...well if you are highly sexed and your refractory period is less than four hours (yes that is the average time a guy needs before he can go again) then go for it if you are anxious about being labelled with premature ejaculation.

BUT ...I'd say...why not have the conversation with your intended meet partner first...they might rather like you to abstain...how much time will you have...what is the nature of the meet etc.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have an issue the other way. Sometimes I am so controlled I cannot cum at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an issue the other way. Sometimes I am so controlled I cannot cum at all. "

I can relate with this too.

But OP, I wouldn't worry too much! As long as you treat the lady right, whoever orgasms first isn't a major issue I'd imagine? Though it's not my style to cum first, I'd imagine as long as you're unselfish it'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyones different. I'd imagine a wank directly before a meet would make you last longer but then for me it would spoil the meet. I played with a couple once and the guy came 3 times in half an hour. I couldn't believe it. And every time there was quite a load. He was a hero!!!

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester


"If you wank ten minutes before I'd say yes. A couple of hours might not make much difference. It all depends on the person,some men are ready to go again immediately. I met a,man who came twice in 10 minutes and then again about half an hour later and again about an hour later. "

Lol used to be able to do that 5ish years ago. I could go hard by leaving it in to soak. But takes a little longer these days

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

I must be out if of practice

The most n one 4 hour session was 9 times. Potato water by the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it extremely difficult to cum through penetration. I often go and wank at home after a meet - and before now I've faked an orgasm as I know it can be embarassing for the female (although it doesn't reflect on the partner at all!)

I generally masturbate over my partner and cum that way. It's extremely rare for me to cum inside someone.

The odd time I have managed it, it's been mind blowingly good but always the result of a week or so of no orgasms before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you wank ten minutes before I'd say yes. A couple of hours might not make much difference. It all depends on the person,some men are ready to go again immediately. I met a,man who came twice in 10 minutes and then again about half an hour later and again about an hour later.

Lol used to be able to do that 5ish years ago. I could go hard by leaving it in to soak. But takes a little longer these days "

"Leaving it in to soak".....love that expression lol.

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By *atCockRayMan
over a year ago

tutbury and hatton

i used to wank off before my ex would come to bed so our love making would last longer and it worked for me

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Depends on the man to be honest i have had one that cum twice in half an hour, and one that was relentless 6 times over a course of two hours.

It happens or does not happen all human nature, if you cum too soon, go again when you can.

Her

Does a fast cummer disappoint you though if he cums within five minutes are you not think damn I was just getting into that?

Can be quite flattering if a guy cums quick, or you think maybe he hasn't has sex for a while too. Just make sure you do other stuff to her if she was just getting into it. Guy above sounds like he knows what he's doing.

I think people would only be offended or disappointed if the guy came quick then left, maybe out of embarrassment or whatever, but it would make him look selfish and leave you feeling like a cum dumpster."

PMSFL.

Now I know why she didn't want to see me again.LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the man to be honest i have had one that cum twice in half an hour, and one that was relentless 6 times over a course of two hours.

It happens or does not happen all human nature, if you cum too soon, go again when you can.

Her

Does a fast cummer disappoint you though if he cums within five minutes are you not think damn I was just getting into that?

Can be quite flattering if a guy cums quick, or you think maybe he hasn't has sex for a while too. Just make sure you do other stuff to her if she was just getting into it. Guy above sounds like he knows what he's doing.

I think people would only be offended or disappointed if the guy came quick then left, maybe out of embarrassment or whatever, but it would make him look selfish and leave you feeling like a cum dumpster.

PMSFL.

Now I know why she didn't want to see me again.LOL"

Lol, had it happen to me a couple of times and yeah don't wanna see them again.

Even on the rare times i don't cum, just the fact that the guy tried and wanted me to is enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SSRI's (Prozac, etc) are another solution - available on prescription, for PE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard cialis can increase volume and delay ejaculation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to cum minimum twice in a session and often it doesnt take much for the first time. Afterwards go down on the lady have fun turn her on make her cum again and again then go for round 2 that woul;d be my advice dont bother with a wank beforehand save it for the meet. If it takes a while before you can go again that is fine, just dont let it put you off keep playing and enjoying sexy games with your parnter untill you are ready and you will be and then likely to last alllllot longer the second time round by which point she has allready cum several times and will be a very happy lady "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens or does not happen all human nature, if you cum too soon, go again when you can.

Her"

The perfect intercourse lasts 20 - 30 minutes for me! NOT longer! If both comes, good, if only one person comes, good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"SSRI's (Prozac, etc) are another solution - available on prescription, for PE."

I wouldn't recommend anything like that for it. The side effects can be horrible

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I say take it as it comes!

Always best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"SSRI's (Prozac, etc) are another solution - available on prescription, for PE.

I wouldn't recommend anything like that for it. The side effects can be horrible "

Well, yes - depends which one. Can confirm the effect - due to being on an SSRI for the usual reasons. I do know they can be prescribed for PE, too. An option, perhaps, if severe - but only via a GP.

Ironically, the 'delay' effect is one of my side effects.... But.. you can have too much of a good thing. Hoping the effect will reduce, as I come off the tablets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"SSRI's (Prozac, etc) are another solution - available on prescription, for PE.

I wouldn't recommend anything like that for it. The side effects can be horrible

Well, yes - depends which one. Can confirm the effect - due to being on an SSRI for the usual reasons. I do know they can be prescribed for PE, too. An option, perhaps, if severe - but only via a GP.

Ironically, the 'delay' effect is one of my side effects.... But.. you can have too much of a good thing. Hoping the effect will reduce, as I come off the tablets... "

And other men can't bloody come at all on them. It's a horrible situation all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"SSRI's (Prozac, etc) are another solution - available on prescription, for PE.

I wouldn't recommend anything like that for it. The side effects can be horrible

Well, yes - depends which one. Can confirm the effect - due to being on an SSRI for the usual reasons. I do know they can be prescribed for PE, too. An option, perhaps, if severe - but only via a GP.

Ironically, the 'delay' effect is one of my side effects.... But.. you can have too much of a good thing. Hoping the effect will reduce, as I come off the tablets...

And other men can't bloody come at all on them. It's a horrible situation all round. "

Err... yes, exactly so. But better than feeling suicidal - ?? I would say 'almost cant come at all' on them, for me. Hoping this will fix soon...

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