FabSwingers.com forum: Lying

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you do about people lying about their age on their profile??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

not much you can do really since you can't really prove it

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By *hatterfabWoman
over a year ago

Wakefield

Report???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have a message from them with one age and then their profile says another xx

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"What do you do about people lying about their age on their profile??"

Nothing you can do really, no proof unless you ask for ID from a potential meet

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

Why would you if you genuinely meet beats me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A met a guy been talking to him for a while said he was 27 and to be fair he did look it he seemed really nice met him in his car had some fum then he told me he was really only just 19.. was not amused reported him and blocked but was still on the site and still is

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Have a message from them with one age and then their profile says another xx"

Typing error?

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Have a message from them with one age and then their profile says another xx"

There are blokes on their profile say they have 9 inches when really they have 6! Afraid its one of the peperils of this site, people manipulating the truth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

16 years lmao xx

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By *iceduoCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

With one exception every woman I've met in the 18 months I've used this site has admitted lying about their age.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"With one exception every woman I've met in the 18 months I've used this site has admitted lying about their age."

Nope, just remembered another one. Make that two exceptions.

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

I've never gutted about age but never fibbed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"16 years lmao xx"

Hoping you mean their age has a 16 year time shift?

If they are 16 then they shouldn't be on this site!!

Either way, just report and leave it to admin to deal with.

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Wok-ish Horsell temporarily

I'm totally honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I report profile that say the age is different but they can't change it

that way admin can help them change it

Never been lied to that I know off, but I don't ask them to produce ID

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

My age is genuine

and although many women I've met admit to shaving a few years of theirs it doesn't bother me in the slightest. And anyway, as a gentleman I never ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lying about age is something people have done "since time immemorial".

My take on lying about age is:-

Age is but a number, you are only as old as the person you feel (grins).

Compatibility is more important.

I have different _iews about lying in general.

Hope that helps.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Why the heck would someone lie about their age,I wouldn't want to see the look of horror on a guys face when I'd lied about being a few years younger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I report profile that say the age is different but they can't change it

that way admin can help them change it

Never been lied to that I know off, but I don't ask them to produce ID

I do the same, not sure if admin get them to amend it?

On the ID though, I was meeting a guy for about 6mths who told me he was 30 to begin with. He later admitted he was 24 and I wouldn't believe him till he showed me his driving licence!

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By *eedscouple99Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

As long as they look nice and young (legal obviously) we don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them though you might have to do it more than once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why the heck would someone lie about their age,I wouldn't want to see the look of horror on a guys face when I'd lied about being a few years younger!"

To get round the message filters

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs

"What do you do about people lying about their age on their profile??"

I lie about my age. Even my name angel is a lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you do about people lying about their age on their profile??

I lie about my age. Even my name angel is a lie "

I thought you were called angel!! So deceiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen one female profile who states in her profile text that she is in fact ten years older than the age shown on her profile but finds she gets blocked by filters if she uses her real age. This particular user is here for a while then UNLOS. Lost count of how many new profiles i've seen her create during my time here

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if admin have to deal with every lie on here, god help them they are going to be busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if admin have to deal with every lie on here, god help them they are going to be busy"

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs

"What do you do about people lying about their age on their profile??

I lie about my age. Even my name angel is a lie

I thought you were called angel!! So deceiving

I'm lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen one female profile who states in her profile text that she is in fact ten years older than the age shown on her profile but finds she gets blocked by filters if she uses her real age. This particular user is here for a while then UNLOS. Lost count of how many new profiles i've seen her create during my time here"

I've had a young lad do the same, on his last profile I pointed out that he will get reported and his profile was UNLOS an hour later

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

No point in lying honestly is the key to swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have come across it a few times. Tbh I judge on the person rather than the date on any documentation...which to be fair I don't ask to see.

It's more about the age you are in your head...as long as not massively out.

Did meet one lady for coffee.....profile said 38. Pics must have been bloody ancient etc. she did admit to being older but didn't say by how much....I would have guessed a fair bit tho!

The "meeting" went no further....but hey, she paid for the coffee n cheesecake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No point in lying honestly is the key to swinging "

Omfg....let me pick myself up of the floor and change my wet undies.......

Try telling this to the thousands of "single" but can't accomodate) guys on the site. At least that's a lie that's often easy to spot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot understand how people lie about age or size ect.

If you are not good enough for them move on, or you just look a fool turning up twenty years older.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No point in lying honestly is the key to swinging "

Nah. Honesty is overrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea why people lie about age. Insecurity maybe. I had a woman contact me who was 25 on her profile which is the lowest I woukd ever consider. She admitted to being 18. instant block. Just definitely not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 99% certain that most proles are embellished in some way.

Just don't meet them, if that's an issue. You could ask them whats the point of lying about there age, 16 years difference is a fair bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been lying I'm brad Pitt not a fat dude from Rochdale !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always lie about my age I am really 41 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No point in lying honestly is the key to swinging

Omfg....let me pick myself up of the floor and change my wet undies.......

Try telling this to the thousands of "single" but can't accomodate) guys on the site. At least that's a lie that's often easy to spot!"

That's not a 'lie' that's easy to spot tho is it ? especially these days with the cost of living/rent etc a lot of guys are sharing. I'm single but can't realistically accom, it just simply isn't a lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why the heck would someone lie about their age ...

To get round the message filters "

There's your explanation.

"No point in lying honestly is the key to swinging

Omfg....let me pick myself up of the floor and change my wet undies..."

Pick me up too while you're there please, thank you!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

there are really two issues here possibly underage lying to get on site and a little poetic licence perhaps for more mature types

ps we are 55 amd 59 ;p;

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

I might have to soon. Big 40 next birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number at the end of the day but I do think that some lie because people have a set age limit and they don't fall in to that limit

And for 55 and 59 _orthyorkypair you look amazing

Hex

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I told someone the other day he was lying told him my son was 36 and I knew what he looked like this guy was 45 if he was a day..

Ridiculous !. dont spose there is much to do. challenge ignore and block I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People telling porkies on Fab , I don't believe it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People telling porkies on Fab , I don't believe it ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 40 and most who know me would vouch for me..

those on my faceach know as I was 40 last march lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No point in lying honestly is the key to swinging

Omfg....let me pick myself up of the floor and change my wet undies.......

Try telling this to the thousands of "single" but can't accomodate) guys on the site. At least that's a lie that's often easy to spot!"

Is it though?

I'm single but I really cannot accomodate, since my now ex has the house, and left me with nothing but very large legal bills. I have to stay with relatives whilst I try to get myself back together.

About people lying about their age - like someone else mentioned above, I've had a couple of encounters where the lady admitted to lying about her age - not that it made any difference to me.

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By *edroseCouple
over a year ago

wigan

Think there one or two on here

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I told someone the other day he was lying told him my son was 36 and I knew what he looked like this guy was 45 if he was a day..

Ridiculous !. dont spose there is much to do. challenge ignore and block I suppose"

Perhaps he'd just had a hard life.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"What do you do about people lying about their age on their profile??"
. I don't spend too much time checking someone's age . The important bit for me is the content of their profile , how it is written , and their pictures . I hardly ever look at the age bit .You can judge age based on pictures anyway.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"No point in lying honestly is the key to swinging

Omfg....let me pick myself up of the floor and change my wet undies.......

Try telling this to the thousands of "single" but can't accomodate) guys on the site. At least that's a lie that's often easy to spot!"
. Seems a bit of a broad generalisation. Why should being single and unable to accommodate be a lie.? People may live with their parents , have children or live in shared accommodation. Not everyone is lucky enough to be able to afford their own exclusive accommodation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very often get men under my age limit message me saying they are really 44 and when I say then why does your profile say less ...most reply that they put lower to get through peoples filters .....I block as what else are they.lying about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No point in lying honestly is the key to swinging

Omfg....let me pick myself up of the floor and change my wet undies.......

Try telling this to the thousands of "single" but can't accomodate) guys on the site. At least that's a lie that's often easy to spot!"

It's also the same for the thousands of "single" girls on here who just "happen" to have a partner/hubby/bf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No point in lying honestly is the key to swinging

Omfg....let me pick myself up of the floor and change my wet undies.......

Try telling this to the thousands of "single" but can't accomodate) guys on the site. At least that's a lie that's often easy to spot!

It's also the same for the thousands of "single" girls on here who just "happen" to have a partner/hubby/bf

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I can't accom but that's because I have kids ....no Bd or hubby in sight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No point in lying honestly is the key to swinging

Omfg....let me pick myself up of the floor and change my wet undies.......

Try telling this to the thousands of "single" but can't accomodate) guys on the site. At least that's a lie that's often easy to spot!. Seems a bit of a broad generalisation. Why should being single and unable to accommodate be a lie.? People may live with their parents , have children or live in shared accommodation. Not everyone is lucky enough to be able to afford their own exclusive accommodation."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our REAL ages on our profile and probably miss out on lots of meets because of it, sometimes we find it most amusing the ages people claim to be xx

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liars always trip up as they tell so many lies they forget what lies they have told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's no big deal is it? Who cares how old anyone is - attraction has nothing to do with age.

I'm actually 112.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

If they are willing to lie about their age, what else are they lying about?

If you can't be honest then you will not be of any interest to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are willing to lie about their age, what else are they lying about?

If you can't be honest then you will not be of any interest to me"

I'll be 113 this year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BY the way, I know plenty of people on here who don't put up their real age - it doesn't mean they're lying about anything else I assure you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been guilty of shaving a year off to get past filters in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Have been guilty of shaving a year off to get past filters in the past

Which no doubt means you're a pathological liar with no control of yourself or your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Have been guilty of shaving a year off to get past filters in the past

Which no doubt means you're a pathological liar with no control of yourself or your life

Damn! I always thought I was more innocent cyclepath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you do about people lying about their age on their profile??"

I have no problem with them lying on their ages but have a problem with them lying about everything else lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BY the way, I know plenty of people on here who don't put up their real age - it doesn't mean they're lying about anything else I assure you."

Yep...mine is usually not quite my real age because I don't like filling in my real date of birth on things. It's not different enough to be significant to anyone and I'm not doing it for filters. There's degrees of lying.

If I'd met someone who looked a certain age, got on well with them and then found out at a later date they were older or younger I'm not sure how bothered I'd be, unless they were someone I was planning to meet regularly. Yes it's a bit dishonest, but if I enjoyed myself with them anyway without knowing that, it wouldn't really matter. (Providing they were legally old enough to be here of course!)

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By *exy hot wife 84Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

If they lie about their age, sexual orientation, size or fake profile pic, they should be banned! Hate liars on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BY the way, I know plenty of people on here who don't put up their real age - it doesn't mean they're lying about anything else I assure you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they lie about their age, sexual orientation, size or fake profile pic, they should be banned! Hate liars on here!"

Most of the site will disappear then.

Why would you believe anything a stranger on the internet tells you anyway. It's just a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I counted 7 lies on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't lie, but then we are at that odd age now... To lie would mean we would be saying we are older or younger, and neither is perfect!

But on the flip side it means we could meet older or younger people

and both are sexy as hell! C x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

lying to get your leg over, what is this world coming to

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By *attbroMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I'm ten years younger than my profile states. Made in error and haven't found a way to correct it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading this thread I made a decision and changed my date of birth accurate to illustrate my real age. Since then the number of messages I've had that praise my figure, my sexiness, my smile and then qualified it with "for your age"!!!!! Hopefully now I will meet the people who aren't ignorant twats.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After reading this thread I made a decision and changed my date of birth accurate to illustrate my real age. Since then the number of messages I've had that praise my figure, my sexiness, my smile and then qualified it with "for your age"!!!!! Hopefully now I will meet the people who aren't ignorant twats.........

Don't be mad, it's a positive thing. Now it's easier to see which are the ignorant twats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm ten years younger than my profile states. Made in error and haven't found a way to correct it "

use contact button and ask admin, they will send you a link to be able to change it once

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By *exy hot wife 84Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

"If they lie about their age, sexual orientation, size or fake profile pic, they should be banned! Hate liars on here!

Most of the site will disappear then.

Why would you believe anything a stranger on the internet tells you anyway. It's just a fuck. "
because this is a proper site! What is the point of a profile, if its all bollocks? And if you look at it like you do, why not go pick a stranger off the streets???? Ay?

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By *exy hot wife 84Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Also even if it takes 50% of people off here....GREAT!!! at least the remaining will be truthful, makes for a better site!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Some People lie on their profiles, in forum posts, in the bar of a swingers club, at socials or in the street.

Standing behind the bar of a swingers club serving people drink and as they become more tipsy, the shite that comes out of their mouths in the hope of getting a feel of a bit of fanny or cock, beggars belief at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they lie about their age, sexual orientation, size or fake profile pic, they should be banned! Hate liars on here!

Most of the site will disappear then.

Why would you believe anything a stranger on the internet tells you anyway. It's just a fuck. because this is a proper site! What is the point of a profile, if its all bollocks? And if you look at it like you do, why not go pick a stranger off the streets???? Ay?"

Ditto.

'Proper site.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No point in lying honestly is the key to swinging "

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