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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well today is friday we live an area of around 150 local and new swingers most of whome are on here and other sites some are on our SO CALLED friends list yet we can not find a meet we have done everything to change the norm even employed a regesterd sitter for our children and looked for hotell meets etc yet nothing ? So advice would be apreciated please are we just pig ugly or boreing . Whatever it is we can change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Well today is friday we live an area of around 150 local and new swingers most of whome are on here and other sites some are on our SO CALLED friends list yet we can not find a meet we have done everything to change the norm even employed a regesterd sitter for our children and looked for hotell meets etc yet nothing ? So advice would be apreciated please are we just pig ugly or boreing . Whatever it is we can change "

stop looking for a meet and get to a club and see what happens :P

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

my advice .. delete all your "friends" .its total waste of time ..as youre now finding out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Well today is friday we live an area of around 150 local and new swingers most of whome are on here and other sites some are on our SO CALLED friends list yet we can not find a meet we have done everything to change the norm even employed a regesterd sitter for our children and looked for hotell meets etc yet nothing ? So advice would be apreciated please are we just pig ugly or boreing . Whatever it is we can change

Been its not us some can do it some cant and nearest club is over 1.50 mins away

stop looking for a meet and get to a club and see what happens :P"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile seems ok, can't judge without pics so can't comment on looks.

Maybe everyone is skint after christmas and just staying in?

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

It is surprisingly hard to get meets on here. It wasn't, a few years ago but now it is.

And, to the usual commentors, not everyone wants to go to socials, it'd be nice if you accepted that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We atend as many partys as we can due to work a d family comitments we also chat to a huge amount of othdrs on her but to no avail its not just since the hollidays its bee very quiet for a few years were not newbies in any meens and have had a prety busy mmeting schedule but im talking of late

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please accept apologies for the terible spelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Please accept apologies for the terible spelling "

I see what you did there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last few meets we have arranged have no showed on us. We were let down by 1 couple 3 times. Different excuse every time. We have gone to now meeting at clubs and parties x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not alone we looking for Saturday to no avail makes us giggle twinsparks are a great couple seen them a few time localy at clubs parties xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were looking for guys....and more local, then you would have no trouble with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of public pics might be one. You can be discreet about face pics. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be a lull in swingers

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I can't see any photos except for the avatar which looks good so cant comment Your profile is my type too - the bit I liked was the having a laugh bit - very similar outlook to me. Lots of good quality meets...

Sorry, no idea why anyone would NOT want to meet you unless they are all meeting no one.

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Slash and burn; a quick message to all on your 'friends list' that you will be culling those that don't reply within 72 hours and, then, start hitting the delete button.

Private parties are the way ahead; at least you have more control than at a Club as to who gets in.

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Add a couple of pics so that non friends can at least decide if your worth messaging.

Id not be suprised if your friends list is vastly smaller after this post.

Show some humour in your profile. Rather than "shes fit, bi and im a bloke"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might have blocked all the willing ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks bear xxxx wil show more piks but dont think that wil help as i only hide them last nite

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


" Thanks bear xxxx wil show more piks but dont think that wil help as i only hide them last nite"

Great pics- wish you were closer and went to Manchester clubs. Sometimes the people you want to meet just aren't going out for a whole variety of reasons including the common Cold. Not sure how far it is for you to get to a club but pretty sure you would have fun in one.

Him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Such lovely comments xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a couple but there are no pics of the male at all. Why??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are no locals here in penge either lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are a couple but there are no pics of the male at all. Why??"

simply his wish to not show on public but shows in a pvt mesage due to nature of employment its that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant see why as love your profile and photos . good luck xxx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"You are a couple but there are no pics of the male at all. Why??

simply his wish to not show on public but shows in a pvt mesage due to nature of employment its that simple "

Sorry but if you are looking for couples as well, there is no excuse not to have pics of him as well, they don't have to show his face or anything, I have plenty of me on my profile but no one would pass me on the street and think, 'hang on that was _oxy_minx'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pics wankbanked for future use..

such a shame me and my hot imaginary chick live so far away(she's visiting family in 1976(I hope she doesnt go through with killing her grandmother again))

shame you have great feedback too..do your friends?

and as suggested above..it does generally help when a couple show themselves both off...however in the mean time am wanking furiously at that gorgeous smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are a couple but there are no pics of the male at all. Why??

simply his wish to not show on public but shows in a pvt mesage due to nature of employment its that simple

Sorry but if you are looking for couples as well, there is no excuse not to have pics of him as well, they don't have to show his face or anything, I have plenty of me on my profile but no one would pass me on the street and think, 'hang on that was _oxy_minx' "

We ignore couple profiles where there's only pics of the female. Usually means either the man is an arse and using the female as bait, or he thinks that women will fuck anything and their opinion doesn't matter. Or both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wat is the point of a pik of greg other than a face pik no one would know its him total shite and the atitudes from some.on here prove why tbis site has changed so much over the years think were carry on the way wer going and as far as greg forceing me tottaly wrong its normally me who orga ises said future meets and while im on the subject profiles are to be read and not just fliked through to piks as stated in profile witch was wrote by me the fem we dont just shag any one infact conta t any of ths veryfications and ule see were only a soft play couple so yet again people jump before they walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and there you go.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


" Wat is the point of a pik of greg other than a face pik no one would know its him total shite and the atitudes from some.on here prove why tbis site has changed so much over the years think were carry on the way wer going and as far as greg forceing me tottaly wrong its normally me who orga ises said future meets and while im on the subject profiles are to be read and not just fliked through to piks as stated in profile witch was wrote by

me the fem we dont just shag any one infact conta t any of ths veryfications and ule see were only a soft play couple so yet again people jump before they walk"

I like to see body type of a man I'm going to potentially have sex with so.for me there's a lot of point in having the mans pictures on a profile. The thing is you must run your profile exactly as you please but if you don't want to make any changes to it then you must accept the consequences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also when asking for advice dont get arsy when you read something you might not necessarily want to read.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Also when asking for advice dont get arsy when you read something you might not necessarily want to read. "

One thing I have discovered about asking for advice is that it very quickly concentrates my mind on the course of action I definitely do not want to take

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater


" and there you go. "

Attitudes change. We are much more visual these days and expect to see a picture of .. well .. everyone.

I have gone to job interviews and searched facebook to get in idea of the guy whos running the interview.

I know for a fact that no pics of him would have my wife passing straight over and moving on. Same for me in fact. Nothing worse than spending ages getting a social arranged just to discover she has married Shrek.

We all have to work a little harder now.

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