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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would say I'm new but I've been here for just over 3 months. I've had no meets yet. I'm not complaining, I know now these things take time. I've messaged a countless amount of women and either been ignored or I'm not to there fancy.... Which of course is perfectly resonable.... Maybe not the ignoring bit. Ha.

So this thread is me thinking out of the box and is for any women passing by who is interested.

I am willing to travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you need to be more targeted in who you're messaging, instead of messaging countless females. For example, you're too far from me so it wouldn't be in your interest to contact me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck to ya bro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a good looking chap and its a good profile. Thing is there are hundreds of men here in the same boat. Go to clubs, attend social nights which is just a night out meeting other like minded people. Dont have to play but meeting ib person gives you a gateway to fun. Put in the work and you will get them meets. Hope this helps good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could suggest the usual....clubs, socials etc.

Reading the help and FAQs available to all.

Sorting your profile out if it needs it...I haven looked so I won't comment on it myself.

Hundreds of threads started asking exactly the same thing....read them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swit swoo.

I would.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Unlike most single guys who ask for advice your profile is pretty decent.

The verification from a male friend really means nothing as it's not really an independent verification but will alloe ypu to mail those who block non - verified members.

It maybe the accommodation/ travelling that may put people off but you have offered solutions.

Not sure what to advise aside from what has already been mentioned.

Maybe try a club/ social events which means people get to meet you in person incase you are being bypassed in message format.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow a beard or become a pirate. Worked for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would msg you, but i dont match your preferences and there for am unable to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you not interested?

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Grow a beard or become a pirate. Worked for me "

Oh my. Hello matey x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the horney ones lives 200 miles away plus, so yes you might need to travel abit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grow a beard or become a pirate. Worked for me "

Arrrrrr Jim lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought mentioning private mails was forbidden on here? Now the op can't even say what he said without getting into trouble himself.

Back to the topic, the veri from a male friend is stupid but at least you can message people who block non verified, actually a sneaky way to get round it cos it's not a proper meet veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 3 months OP, you still are relatively new. As has been said, oh countless times before, most (not all) single guys don't get there first meet until they've been here around 6 months.

You just need to be patient.

It will happen when it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very nice smiley face but way too far and out of my age group so pointless me sending you a message and likewise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very nice smiley face but way too far and out of my age group so pointless me sending you a message and likewise"

Mmm, you need to look closer to home Miss Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll get there in the end pal ...it's the long game here. Personally, I think there's much more luck to be had on more vanilla sites... but there you go.

Good luck

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"I've messaged a countless amount of women"

Here's how that looks to "women":

"I've messaged so many women, it's obvious I have no particular standards or even interest in the women I've sent a cut and paste crappy message to. I haven't really made any effort to read their profiles because, if I had, I wouldn't have messaged "countless" women. In short, I don't care who I meet, so long as I get a shag. From anyone."

With that in mind, would you meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried googly eyes on your penis? "

Pmsl One day someone will actually try it on your advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried googly eyes on your penis?

Pmsl One day someone will actually try it on your advice."

If I was willing to show mine I'd dress it up with googly eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost count how many times I've said it today. Making myself laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've lost count how many times I've said it today. Making myself laugh "

Yeah making me chuckle now.....More the thought someone is going to try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've lost count how many times I've said it today. Making myself laugh

Yeah making me chuckle now.....More the thought someone is going to try it."

Haha. Could be cult. Might have to sue disney. I think they've stolen my idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've messaged a countless amount of women

Here's how that looks to "women":

"I've messaged so many women, it's obvious I have no particular standards or even interest in the women I've sent a cut and paste crappy message to. I haven't really made any effort to read their profiles because, if I had, I wouldn't have messaged "countless" women. In short, I don't care who I meet, so long as I get a shag. From anyone."

With that in mind, would you meet you?"

So if he fails in his conquest, he should just give up and never message any more women ever again? I too have messaged 'countless' women, but that is only because of the constant rejection causing me to look elsewhere. I do want a regular thing and I always read profiles before messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very nice smiley face but way too far and out of my age group so pointless me sending you a message and likewise

Mmm, you need to look closer to home Miss Kinky "

I do

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