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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it best to have your first indulgence with someone you know as this may make the whole scenario less nervous or would it make it more awkward after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our first time was at a swingers hotel, with a stranger we found that worked best for us,

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm here to be the extra male so to me its better to meet "strangers" and focus on their needs and expectations/fantasies.

In my experience every couple have different interests so an easy to say MMF threesome becomes far more challenging.

I'd say choose your "stranger" with care. All three players should enjoy in equal amounts. Maybe DP is on your wish list?

At least on Fab you can check verifications which you can't do with vanilla friends. If the whole thing doesn't end up ticking your boxes its also easier to explain that to a fellow fabber.

Good luck

xxalan

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Definitely with a stranger.

How the fuck else am I gonna get new mmf situations?...

This side of life a secret from everyone I know in my usual life

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"Is it best to have your first indulgence with someone you know as this may make the whole scenario less nervous or would it make it more awkward after "

We would say for the first time it helps if the man is a swingers you have met socially eg in a club situation.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Just remember - friends were strangers to you at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it best to have your first indulgence with someone you know as this may make the whole scenario less nervous or would it make it more awkward after "

For me yes definitely. I love mmf especially with two bi men but I have always known at least one guy quite well before hand. So he knows what I like etc and normally has a word with the other guy. Makes it flow smoother. I hope you enjoy it when it happens. It's quite addictive

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

our first mmf was with an old friend .... 10 years on we still laugh and love.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first 3 some was this amazing sexy woman came upto me in a bar in manchester and was chatting to me and just came out with it her husband loves to watch her with on other guy and she loves it even more and asked me to join them

I nearly chocked on my drink

But wow what a night

It was like porn on another level we we're at it all night explosive sex all over there hotel room and he filmed the whole thing on his video camera on a stand

I feel like the porn king

So any genuine couples out there you know what to do message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had lots of threesomes some with people i know and some with complete strangers.I would suggest best is with people you do not know,There can be no emotional attachemnt after etc..I had a threesome with a freind and his wife then they split up 2 years later and she nearly cost me my marrige.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its best 1st time with strangers

the buzz cannot be put into words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are going to do this this year with a guy mrsflirty has been chatting with,

Like the advise says we are hoping to meet him at kestrals and take it from there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys ..... The search continues lol

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By *orks Randy MANMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Our first was with best pal . Was awesome

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

In our experience, it's easiest with half of another couple, at least for first encounters. I'd say this mainly as we enjoy the intimate part of the sex, but with another perosn who is happily in a relationship, there is no emotional need beyond the sexual friendship.

We've had a few mmf and mff threesome experiences with our single vanilla friends over the last few years, dates (we are in a poly relationship) and between those and the experiences of our single friends, we've seen how things can sometimes be a little awkward afterwards, with the realisation for the single person that whilst they were part of the fun, they aren't able to be as emotionally central as the other two.

It really depends what everyone is looking for, but emotions can often get caught up between couples and singles and this can be a good or bad thing, depending how it's handled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In our experience, it's easiest with half of another couple, at least for first encounters. I'd say this mainly as we enjoy the intimate part of the sex, but with another perosn who is happily in a relationship, there is no emotional need beyond the sexual friendship.

We've had a few mmf and mff threesome experiences with our single vanilla friends over the last few years, dates (we are in a poly relationship) and between those and the experiences of our single friends, we've seen how things can sometimes be a little awkward afterwards, with the realisation for the single person that whilst they were part of the fun, they aren't able to be as emotionally central as the other two.

It really depends what everyone is looking for, but emotions can often get caught up between couples and singles and this can be a good or bad thing, depending how it's handled"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest someone you don't know....but do talk a bit before hand...set ground rules/boundaries etc.

At the end of the day if it goes wrong you can cut and run and haven't damaged a friendship.

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

For us it was a stranger, never looked back since !!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our was at a club first time dipping our toes so to speak more than toes dipped lol she loved it lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our first was a guy off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it best to have your first indulgence with someone you know as this may make the whole scenario less nervous or would it make it more awkward after

For me yes definitely. I love mmf especially with two bi men but I have always known at least one guy quite well before hand. So he knows what I like etc and normally has a word with the other guy. Makes it flow smoother. I hope you enjoy it when it happens. It's quite addictive "
im a bi man i would love to join you both your stunners xx

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