FabSwingers.com forum: Would appreciate a bit of help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,

I can't seem to have any success, on here, so I was hoping the people on here would be kind enough to point out where i'm going wrong?

The most i have been able to get, is a few emails, back and forth. I tried to setup meets as quickly as possible, so I could get verified as quickly as possible

As my profile shows, i've been on here over a year, but i've only made a real effort this past 6-7 months.

At first, when i was unsuccessful, I incorporated more detail into my profile (likes and dislikes, etc), and when i contacted people, i was polite and non-pushy.

I'm convinced i could have a great time on this site, if i could just make the breakthrough, so please help me.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

You need to put something about you in your profile. Most people I know would simply skip over your profile given it's current contents.

IMHO - women generally never get in touch with me *just* by looking at my profile. Get into the chat rooms and 'get yourself known'. Only then are you likely to have any success in setting up a meet.

Don't give up. The key is to be positive. Negativity doesn't go down well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete your current profile and start again.

Upload a few better pics .

Get a veri even if only social and be more proactive .

Good luck

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Boring photo and negative, uninspiring text (the same as every other guy who posts asking for advice).

Show us who you are (you don't have to show a face pic if you're worried about that), tell us who you are and what you can do, sell yourself.

Think of it this way - women on this site have loads of men to pick from. Now imagine you are one of those women. Look at your profile. Would you bother with it or would you go for the next guy with body photos, who gives you more than a hint of who they are/what they have to offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos are one of the main "hooks" to get people interested. Your cock shot in some bobbly boxers is not going to give you the breakthrough you want.

You state athletic as your body type yet fail to build on that with a nice torso pic.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Your profile says 'if you're interested' - interested in what? Nothing at all in your profile or pic that would interest anybody! Sorry to be brutal, but more effort needed all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ve been on here about a year, but never really paid much attention to it, til recently."

This line would sum up why i wouldnt reply to a message of you

looks like you are lazy and cant be bothered

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't know what you're doing so can't tell you what you're doing wrong.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There's loads of threads from single guys asking for profile and message advice... I'd visit those and take on board the advice given.

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

You have written more in your OP than your whole profile text, so what in your text will prompt people to contact you for more???

Your photo is also pretty boring to be honest, have a variety of shots.

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