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" I can't guarantee these tips will insure you get laid but they will improve your chances a hell of a lot more then a large percentage of guys on the site who don't read the forums and will continue sending out those one liners ![]() All good advice ! But I'm not here to get laid ? I'm here for mutual fun,exciting times and experiences ? | |||
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"Get involved, jump into the forums, visit a swingers club or go to a social. That way you can get to know more people and spark more interest in you. Even with a well worded message and a glowing profile you may still not hear back from people on here because single females can get around 100+ messages a day, couples not as much. If they don't answer they're not being rude just otherwise it becomes a full time job. I've seen days where as soon as ginger has read one message 3 new ones hsve arrived. Patience is the key, it may take awhile before you arrange a meet. By that I mean longer then 2 weeks. Its a site for swingers yes but no where in the name does it mention sex so stop thinking that every conversation is going to end up with a sweaty fuck and relax. I can't guarantee these tips will insure you get laid but they will improve your chances a hell of a lot more then a large percentage of guys on the site who don't read the forums and will continue sending out those one liners ![]() Someone buy this lad a pint. | |||
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"Great advise And if I can add one more thing.... Be polite The gorgeous going lady I (mickey) met at the weekend daily receives vulgar and even abusive messages. It's so bad she is thinking about leaving the site We don't mind as it means we keep her to ourselves ![]() Is it being nice to say Minnie has a very nice sexy arse, or is that just me being a bit of a perv? LOL ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Get involved, jump into the forums, visit a swingers club or go to a social. That way you can get to know more people and spark more interest in you. Even with a well worded message and a glowing profile you may still not hear back from people on here because single females can get around 100+ messages a day, couples not as much. If they don't answer they're not being rude just otherwise it becomes a full time job. I've seen days where as soon as ginger has read one message 3 new ones hsve arrived. Patience is the key, it may take awhile before you arrange a meet. By that I mean longer then 2 weeks. Its a site for swingers yes but no where in the name does it mention sex so stop thinking that every conversation is going to end up with a sweaty fuck and relax. I can't guarantee these tips will insure you get laid but they will improve your chances a hell of a lot more then a large percentage of guys on the site who don't read the forums and will continue sending out those one liners ![]() And Ginger's is pretty nice to. Defo one of the best arses on here IMHO. ![]() | |||
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"The sensible guys already know this. The 'target audience' will probably never read it. And tbh - spoon feeding will only result in a good profile being created for the same person who set it up with no thought in the first place. Shit profiles, bad attitudes and less than positive behaviour are all useful identifiers. If someone can't work out themselves how to interact on a site such as this without guidance then maybe they should reconsider using one. Just a thought! ![]() This is the unfortunate truth. The sensible guys, the ones with a brain who understand that meeting people is about human interaction, and not just being a penis owner, already know. Sadly the 'target audience' as mentioned, are the lizard-brained knuckle grazers that just look at the pictures! | |||
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"Who was asking" Plenty of men ask for advice. If you don't need or want it you don't need to read or follow it | |||
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"Great advise And if I can add one more thing.... Be polite The gorgeous going lady I (mickey) met at the weekend daily receives vulgar and even abusive messages. It's so bad she is thinking about leaving the site We don't mind as it means we keep her to ourselves ![]() ![]() ![]() All positive feed back is always gratefully received with thanks ![]() | |||
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"Who was asking Plenty of men ask for advice. If you don't need or want it you don't need to read or follow it " For some it will be useful if they don't know, some will never take advise | |||
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"Great advise And if I can add one more thing.... Be polite The gorgeous going lady I (mickey) met at the weekend daily receives vulgar and even abusive messages. It's so bad she is thinking about leaving the site We don't mind as it means we keep her to ourselves ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() In that case I'll say it. "Minnie's got a very nice, sexy arse." xx. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The sensible guys already know this. The 'target audience' will probably never read it. And tbh - spoon feeding will only result in a good profile being created for the same person who set it up with no thought in the first place. Shit profiles, bad attitudes and less than positive behaviour are all useful identifiers. If someone can't work out themselves how to interact on a site such as this without guidance then maybe they should reconsider using one. Just a thought! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Also the huge male to female ratio will play in hand and as well where you live, certain places there just wont be any horney women no matter how good your profile is ![]() as he said effort been the word, effort in reward out, put the effort in to put yourself to the top of that pile then that ratio of men to women doesnt come into play, and if your willing to travel then where you live isnt as big a factor as you make out either, again its back to that word, how much effort someone is willing to put in to be successful, its down to the individual, sit back and hope something lands your way, or put the effort in, get out there and make it happen. | |||
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"Cinnamon here and having been a single guy once on here know the frustrations you might feel but also being part of a couples account and been privy to gingers account think some of you are shooting yourself in the foot from the off. You are the majority! There are more "single" men on here then there is single and attached females combined. To attract their attention you have to face stiff competition. So how do I do that I hear you ask? With everything in life the more effort you put in the better the result. When writing your profile "I'll fill this in later..." or "I like fucking...." is not going to cut it. Try to sell yourself more, describe yourself, what do you like and what your looking for. Try to be honest it might cost you meets from one section of the crowd yes but then there's others who you'd be just what their looking for. " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Also the huge male to female ratio will play in hand and as well where you live, certain places there just wont be any horney women no matter how good your profile is ![]() Yes just what you said and I did, if your willing to travel, seen few travel over 200miles for a meet, that is just to far, rather wait for someone local lol. | |||
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"Also the huge male to female ratio will play in hand and as well where you live, certain places there just wont be any horney women no matter how good your profile is ![]() and thats your choice, but those that do choose to travel will get more meets, from experience people do travel large distances after striking up friendships online to meet people, but more local meets are fun too. | |||
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"The same could be said about pussy pics...you have a few of both on your profile to be fair." We were offering constructive advice as we've seen profiles where the only pictures were cock pics all from different angles. What we have is 1 pussy pic and 3 cock pics where one shows torso as well. | |||
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"The same could be said about pussy pics...you have a few of both on your profile to be fair. We were offering constructive advice as we've seen profiles where the only pictures were cock pics all from different angles. What we have is 1 pussy pic and 3 cock pics where one shows torso as well. " The men your advice is aimed at will never accept or get it tbh those men that do are well verified can be found in clubs or on this forum so although kind of you to try I think you may be fighting a losing battle ![]() | |||
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""Next up is add some pictures and not just cock pics! Some women like the surprise like unwrapping a gift at xmas besides they've all seen at least one and there's not much difference. Tease them with body pics, tight boxer shorts but if you wish to be discreet keep your face pic for friends." The same could be said about pussy pics...you have a few of both on your profile to be fair." I'm not so sure about that. I think guys' attitude to pussy pics is probably quite a bit different from gals attitude to cock pics. That being said, as I was stuffing the turkey this Christmas, it did remind of some of the less well taken pussy pics I've seen on here. Sorry if that offends but it happens to be true. | |||
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"For all Master and Teachers John 8: 1-7 "If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her."" I think you have posted on the wrong thread lol. | |||
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"For all Master and Teachers John 8: 1-7 "If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her."" " mummy, put that brick down!" | |||
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"Cinnamon here and having been a single guy once on here know the frustrations you might feel but also being part of a couples account and been privy to gingers account think some of you are shooting yourself in the foot from the off. You are the majority! There are more "single" men on here then there is single and attached females combined. To attract their attention you have to face stiff competition. So how do I do that I hear you ask? With everything in life the more effort you put in the better the result. When writing your profile "I'll fill this in later..." or "I like fucking...." is not going to cut it. Try to sell yourself more, describe yourself, what do you like and what your looking for. Try to be honest it might cost you meets from one section of the crowd yes but then there's others who you'd be just what their looking for. " ![]() | |||
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"The same day posted this did see at least 2 new posts from guys asking for help so seems some are too lazy to even read through the forums lol" Sometime I think that's down to being new, not knowing how to search and they go straight to posting | |||
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"Get involved, jump into the forums, visit a swingers club or go to a social. That way you can get to know more people and spark more interest in you. Even with a well worded message and a glowing profile you may still not hear back from people on here because single females can get around 100+ messages a day, couples not as much. If they don't answer they're not being rude just otherwise it becomes a full time job. I've seen days where as soon as ginger has read one message 3 new ones hsve arrived. Patience is the key, it may take awhile before you arrange a meet. By that I mean longer then 2 weeks. Its a site for swingers yes but no where in the name does it mention sex so stop thinking that every conversation is going to end up with a sweaty fuck and relax. I can't guarantee these tips will insure you get laid but they will improve your chances a hell of a lot more then a large percentage of guys on the site who don't read the forums and will continue sending out those one liners ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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