FabSwingers.com forum: socials

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's the deal with big social events? ... Is it up to the organiser who goes...even tho u are paying like everyone else...or is it a clique.... or is it if ur face fits lol...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could well be any of the above but get your name down give it a whirl

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did and was told to pm them..I couldn't cause they blocked me lol..xx

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

normally you would out your name down in the thread and they are normally a case of "first come" when it comes down to attendance...

i have been to scottish socials in the past and it is a great oppotunity to sit and talk to people..... the key is not to stand around like a lemon!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"normally you would out your name down in the thread and they are normally a case of "first come" when it comes down to attendance...

i have been to scottish socials in the past and it is a great oppotunity to sit and talk to people..... the key is not to stand around like a lemon!!!"

Yes _abio I know honey.... No need for ignorance and rudeness though...they just blocked me . Lol . Aw well xx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe it's filters that are stopping you or them PMing?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the deal with big social events? ... Is it up to the organiser who goes...even tho u are paying like everyone else...or is it a clique.... or is it if ur face fits lol...

It's up to the organiser who goes. So it depends what they are looking for. Eg sexual preference, age, looks, body type etc. It can be quite selective but for most its just whoever wants to go.

They can also be cliquey especially if they are a regular event. From personal experience I have been banned from a monthly event due to personal issues with someone else who goes.

It is strange that your blocked though? Do they have the event listed on the forum and you can message them via that?