FabSwingers.com forum: Dogging advice?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

Please could I ask for some advice? I’ve been dogging a few times within the last year and had some great success but always with pre-arranged meets. However I have tried to get spontaneous meets as well. I’ve visited quiet places and seen cars but had no indication they were looking for doggers. How do you normally handle these situations?

Situation One: Today I visited one car park and there was a car with its side lights on (but shining onto a reservoir), there was NO interior light on but all the windows were stemmed up! I pulled into the car park and parked with my car facing the OTHERWAY to where their car was parked (so I could see them in the rear view mirror). I waited a while then got out the car and stood by the door of my car. I did not approach the car. It was clear someone was inside have sex but not clear if they wanted to be watched or more. After about 5 minutes of standing outside my car I assumed they wanted to be left alone so I left. I would hate to spoil someone’s night by ruining their fun!

Situation two: I pulled into another car park and could see another car with its interior light on and clear movement in the car of two people. However I pulled into the car park and parked at the opposite end but it was too far to clearly see what was happening in the car. I got out of the car and stood by my door again and waited. The interior light of the other car went OFF. Again I stood there for about 5 - 10 minutes and could see cigarette lights from inside the other car. I wasn’t sure but I think they may have been boy racers out for a smoke or something?

Should I have approached both cars? I’m not into ruining peoples fun if they want to be left alone!

Thanks for any advice!