FabSwingers.com forum: Appreciate some thoughts from you...

By *Kopenmind OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Hey hey

I have been on fab a little while and been getting a lot of positive feedback about my attitude, openness and profile etc... but despite that feedback I'm only getting thanks but no/not our type... they all wish me well and good luck though.

I wonder if there is anything else I could do... besides grow another few inches in height, lose a few pounds and buff up a bit! :/

Appreciate the feedback from you all..... haha now queue the trolls.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plastic surgery ?! There's not a lot you can do if you're not someone's type. I wouldn't let it worry you, happens to me all the time !

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is a bit bulked out. It does make you come across as intelligent, but also comes across a bit like a CV as well.

You could just mention you're a working, single dad after spontaneous sex, rather than go into all about that's why you're on here. And the fact that you are after "a guiding hand" i don't think that many people are into being one for you (as you might have gathered from lack of replies to your post asking for advice).

But obviously you have to be honest in your profile, and have to come across as what you want to come across as, but most people are looking for fun on here so it's best to try as come across as you but the fun version.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just learn not to take anything personally.

You simply cannot be all things to all men/women.

If you get a knock back, let it go, move on. It's probably not you, and if you're not somebody's cup of tea, that's just the way the cookie crumbles.