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By *ipsTeaser OP   Couple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

How much contact do people generally have once you have arranged a meet?

We rescheduled our first meet due to sickness and have the new date coming up; we've exchanged a few messages since the quantity of which am comfy with, however with time between it all I find myself mulling things over and am wondering about what works for people a balancing between too much being needy and not enough looking like you've lost interest!

Interested in people's opinions as fab seems to almost have its own set of 'conventions' to follow!

Sorry if it's a bit of a ramble not sure am really making sense, prob ridiculously overthinking as usual

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"How much contact do people generally have once you have arranged a meet?

We rescheduled our first meet due to sickness and have the new date coming up; we've exchanged a few messages since the quantity of which am comfy with, however with time between it all I find myself mulling things over and am wondering about what works for people a balancing between too much being needy and not enough looking like you've lost interest!

Interested in people's opinions as fab seems to almost have its own set of 'conventions' to follow!

Sorry if it's a bit of a ramble not sure am really making sense, prob ridiculously overthinking as usual "

I think it's almost impossible to judge. I've got it both right and wrong doing either. Just have to do what you think you would like and hope it works for them.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

BTW, nice arse but the shoe shot would really turn me on if there was a bit more ankle in it. LOL. he he

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By *ipsTeaser OP   Couple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"BTW, nice arse but the shoe shot would really turn me on if there was a bit more ankle in it. LOL. he he "

Not my arse but bugs will be pleased lol

Give me a minute and you can approve or disapprove one with an ankle in

Tig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See how they respond? If conversation is going well then carry on chatting. If they reply quickly then they probably have time to chat, if they take ages to reply and only give terse replies then they're probably too busy to chat.

I've spent all day chatting to guys who don't wanna come across as needy but if i have time to chat then i love talking so didn't mind.

After a while of knowing and chatting with someone it becomes easier to just start a conversation or leave a message knowing the other person doesn't mind and will chat when they have time and even being ignored coz they have other priorities is fine too coz they are mates now and that's how mates are, they make time for you when they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BTW, nice arse but the shoe shot would really turn me on if there was a bit more ankle in it. LOL. he he

Not my arse but bugs will be pleased lol

Give me a minute and you can approve or disapprove one with an ankle in

Tig"

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"BTW, nice arse but the shoe shot would really turn me on if there was a bit more ankle in it. LOL. he he

Not my arse but bugs will be pleased lol

Give me a minute and you can approve or disapprove one with an ankle in

Tig"

Can't really make them out very well on the small avatar pic. Any chance of putting it in public.

Or if it's already in private you can friend me and I'll give my critique.

You can always unfriend me again tomorrow. !!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"BTW, nice arse but the shoe shot would really turn me on if there was a bit more ankle in it. LOL. he he

Not my arse but bugs will be pleased lol

Give me a minute and you can approve or disapprove one with an ankle in

Tig

"

And yet another very sexy arse. IS this site turning me into a sexy arse pic pervert or what? LOL

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By *ipsTeaser OP   Couple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

Will make public, just for you.... Not like me to show pics.... what's going on with me ???

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By *ipsTeaser OP   Couple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

Just to show what my arse looks like it's also temporarily public too... So many people think bugs arse is mine my ego is a bit bruised maybe lmfao

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By *ipsTeaser OP   Couple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"See how they respond? If conversation is going well then carry on chatting. If they reply quickly then they probably have time to chat, if they take ages to reply and only give terse replies then they're probably too busy to chat.

I've spent all day chatting to guys who don't wanna come across as needy but if i have time to chat then i love talking so didn't mind.

After a while of knowing and chatting with someone it becomes easier to just start a conversation or leave a message knowing the other person doesn't mind and will chat when they have time and even being ignored coz they have other priorities is fine too coz they are mates now and that's how mates are, they make time for you when they can."

Thanks.

I think am doing ok with messages on here, as I only nip on and off during day and don't always have time to instantly chat, so put in the longer responses once I've a bit more me time. It's the text ones am conscious of,though as you say as the friendship develops it will prob be easier to judge.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I tend to only meet those I've been chatting with for a good while so just carry on as normal with messages as we have been. X

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Will make public, just for you.... Not like me to show pics.... what's going on with me ???"

Oh yes. I'm in heaven now. LOL. Can even make out the sexy nobbles on the ankle bone. LOL

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I tend to only meet those I've been chatting with for a good while so just carry on as normal with messages as we have been. X"

Is it OK to chat even if I'm out side your age range? !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend just to go on gut instinct. With some people it's a few messages and a meet, others it takes lots of messages. I think you can tell from a few messages if they're your type of people.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I tend to only meet those I've been chatting with for a good while so just carry on as normal with messages as we have been. X

Is it OK to chat even if I'm out side your age range? !!"

I'm forum chatting only for now. My inbox is mostly ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See how they respond? If conversation is going well then carry on chatting. If they reply quickly then they probably have time to chat, if they take ages to reply and only give terse replies then they're probably too busy to chat.

I've spent all day chatting to guys who don't wanna come across as needy but if i have time to chat then i love talking so didn't mind.

After a while of knowing and chatting with someone it becomes easier to just start a conversation or leave a message knowing the other person doesn't mind and will chat when they have time and even being ignored coz they have other priorities is fine too coz they are mates now and that's how mates are, they make time for you when they can."

I like your posts. You have an incredible insight into some things. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like regular contact from someone I'm planning on meeting and from those I plan to meet again if I don't I tend to think they have changes their mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See how they respond? If conversation is going well then carry on chatting. If they reply quickly then they probably have time to chat, if they take ages to reply and only give terse replies then they're probably too busy to chat.

I've spent all day chatting to guys who don't wanna come across as needy but if i have time to chat then i love talking so didn't mind.

After a while of knowing and chatting with someone it becomes easier to just start a conversation or leave a message knowing the other person doesn't mind and will chat when they have time and even being ignored coz they have other priorities is fine too coz they are mates now and that's how mates are, they make time for you when they can.

I like your posts. You have an incredible insight into some things. x "

Thanks. I do chat a lot if i'm honest and am an expert on that...

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I like regular contact from someone I'm planning on meeting and from those I plan to meet again if I don't I tend to think they have changes their mind "

Noted.

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