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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " nope... not at all.... but some people like to think with their "wallets" and "cocks" as opposed to their brain and the saftey elements of meeting strangers its kinda like when people "scoff" at meeting socially first before playing..... mindset being everything that isn't playing is a waste of time | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol nope... not at all.... but some people like to think with their "wallets" and "cocks" as opposed to their brain and the saftey elements of meeting strangers its kinda like when people "scoff" at meeting socially first before playing..... mindset being everything that isn't playing is a waste of time " and yet socials can be done at clubs so win win | |||
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"just winds me up thats all why cant i think about my safety and the club of choice i feel safe " Most of my meets are at clubs as thats where i feel safest x | |||
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"just winds me up thats all why cant i think about my safety and the club of choice i feel safe " Your safety is the most important factor here and yes a club offers a higher safety element. Some men simply don't like rejection and react by saying stupid things xx | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " I like you prefer to meet at clubs. As I feel safer. After a bad experience at someone's house. I won't be meeting outside a club again. You have to do what is right for YOU! | |||
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"You can meet where you want. I see quite a few profiles that mention club meets only. If they're messaging stuff like that then you're better off not having met them. x" its the respect of people giving me which im finding shocking, when they say BUT im genuine and im no stranger | |||
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"just winds me up thats all why cant i think about my safety and the club of choice i feel safe " At least you have clubs close enough. Enjoy and ignore idiots | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " Why do you care what they think? | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol Why do you care what they think?" its one of thoese weeks thats all if a person cant respect my wishes or criteras they have no hope in hell :P | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " take no notice chick, I don't even bother looking for meets on here because I only meet at clubs, and they either want you to hold their hand to gain cheap entry or don't show at all! I just take myself off to a club and take pot luck who's there, and funnily enough I've never met a timewaster in a club yet | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " Not wrong at all. Safety, convenience, no time wasters, good atmosphere - all this and more at a Club. Not sure why anyone bothers with answering emails, vetting, making sure the person is real, sorting out a suitable venue, date and time and then fully expecting that there is only a 50/50 chance of them actually showing up. | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol Not wrong at all. Safety, convenience, no time wasters, good atmosphere - all this and more at a Club. Not sure why anyone bothers with answering emails, vetting, making sure the person is real, sorting out a suitable venue, date and time and then fully expecting that there is only a 50/50 chance of them actually showing up." this thank you | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " We can fully understand this. Even as a couple we only play in clubs. Socially it's a great environment, there is always a choice of who to play with, it's safer, and there is no embarrasment or feelings of wasted time if you choose not to play or if someone doesnt appeal to you. | |||
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"If you are only meeting in clubs maybe take the bit out of your profile where it says "unless i know you or been conversing for a while". That may give some the impression that if they send a few messages you will meet 1 to 1. Otherwise just ignore and block any insults. It's easy " thats for people ive met x | |||
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"If you are only meeting in clubs maybe take the bit out of your profile where it says "unless i know you or been conversing for a while". That may give some the impression that if they send a few messages you will meet 1 to 1. Otherwise just ignore and block any insults. It's easy thats for people ive met x" It would be easier just to tell those you have met rather than giving others false hope? I have different rules for those i know but i don't put it on my profile as others think it's for them if we have only chatteda little. Just an idea to make things clearer. Up to you what you do it's your profile but might help cut down on misunderstanding leading to insults. | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " there as some stupid twats on here how can you be any of the above cause your not making anything out of it. | |||
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" ... I would go as a single woman and not advertise the fact on here. I might say which clubs I attend but not invite men to meet me there unless I was sure I wanted sex with him. " I have previously been on here for three years. Neither now nor then have I received messages of that nature, with that wording. I can see elsewhere on the forums that you declare to be capable of encouraging men to jump off a bridge. It would be interesting to see what messages you had sent their way for them to go so low and write those words to you? | |||
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"If you are only meeting in clubs maybe take the bit out of your profile where it says "unless i know you or been conversing for a while". That may give some the impression that if they send a few messages you will meet 1 to 1. Otherwise just ignore and block any insults. It's easy thats for people ive met x" just changed it x | |||
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" ... I would go as a single woman and not advertise the fact on here. I might say which clubs I attend but not invite men to meet me there unless I was sure I wanted sex with him. I have previously been on here for three years. Neither now nor then have I received messages of that nature, with that wording. I can see elsewhere on the forums that you declare to be capable of encouraging men to jump off a bridge. It would be interesting to see what messages you had sent their way for them to go so low and write those words to you?" the guy i was telling to jump off a bridge was not on here and a life long friemd and just in jest. Nothing as i when i say i generally only meet at organised socials or clubs they hate the fact i dont meet at home or theirs | |||
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"Your life Your choice of lifestyle You do what you think is best for you I know that's how I view my life For me my home is my place and I'd never invite someone there I don't know or trust 100% So meeting at a club seems sensible" | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " Delete and block. Do what you want to do and what you feel comfortable with, anyone worth your time will respect that and not give you abuse for it! " Not sure why anyone bothers with answering emails, vetting, making sure the person is real, sorting out a suitable venue, date and time and then fully expecting that there is only a 50/50 chance of them actually showing up." I don't meet in clubs. I understand why other people do....but if you get the other bits right than the showing up ratio is a hell of a lot better than 50%.... | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " I guess this is because they have to make an extra effort - well screw them. Fantastic way of sorting the dreamers from the doers I do exactly the same. Some people are soo not worth bothering about. | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " go for it your safety comes first and your relaxed there so do it your way x | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " I personally wouldn't meet you because I'm really not into clubs, but I absolutely agree with your mentality, safety must always come first, how the fuck does this make you a hooker, unless your asking for money for sex, that's nonsense. Just ignore the nobs and stick to your guns | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " No your not clubs are sexy environments that are safe and clean and you ent got the embarresment of the hotel clerk looking at you thinking I know what you've been doin. Walk of shame | |||
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"Your life Your choice of lifestyle You do what you think is best for you I know that's how I view my life For me my home is my place and I'd never invite someone there I don't know or trust 100% So meeting at a club seems sensible" This x | |||
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"Its your choice and its fine but single men usually have to pay about 40 pounds to get in so effectively they are paying for sex" No, they are paying to get into a club. You shouldn't expect sex, whether in a club or otherwise. | |||
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"Its your choice and its fine but single men usually have to pay about 40 pounds to get in so effectively they are paying for sex" Technically not going to a club no matter what you pay is no guarantee you are going to have sex what you are paying is entry to the establishment so no it isn't paying for sex it's paying for the possibility of it this is the misguided opinion of a lot of blokes it seems and it's wrong ! | |||
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"Its your choice and its fine but single men usually have to pay about 40 pounds to get in so effectively they are paying for sex No, they are paying to get into a club. You shouldn't expect sex, whether in a club or otherwise." I agree! | |||
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"Single men pay to get in in the hope of getting sex.unless you are a regular swinger" That's not the fault of the women though is it? | |||
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"Single men pay to get in in the hope of getting sex.unless you are a regular swinger That's not the fault of the women though is it?" Nope! I would happily pay to gain entry into a club! Like I said before us women don't set the prices... The club do! Take it up with them! Some people just it is ok to disrespect women on here and see them as a soft target! Shame on those how do! As I was also saying before it is still cheaper than booking a hotel!! | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " Me and Mo are the same, but for us it's more of a time issue x | |||
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"Im not saying it is..what im saying is most single me who pay to get into a club are going there hoping to have sex so effectively they are paying to be in an environment were sex may happen" Although I don't agree with certain points of the OP (I don't make it a condition of the meet to go to a club), I will make it clear that I will be at the club and the guy is welcome to come and say hello. The guy is in no way obligated to go to the club, therefore its his decision whether he pays or not. If he then assumes he will get sex by attending the club then he is definitely going with the wrong attitude. | |||
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"Im not saying it is..what im saying is most single me who pay to get into a club are going there hoping to have sex so effectively they are paying to be in an environment were sex may happen Although I don't agree with certain points of the OP (I don't make it a condition of the meet to go to a club), I will make it clear that I will be at the club and the guy is welcome to come and say hello. The guy is in no way obligated to go to the club, therefore its his decision whether he pays or not. If he then assumes he will get sex by attending the club then he is definitely going with the wrong attitude." I am the same at no point i promise no-one sex and if they are joining a club for sex as they think they are guaranteed it they wont last long | |||
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"Im not saying it is..what im saying is most single me who pay to get into a club are going there hoping to have sex so effectively they are paying to be in an environment were sex may happen" In which case go and hire a whore to ensure you get what you want. | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " Works for us meeting at clubs x if you don't get on its not a wasted night xx | |||
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"Afternoon lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs. i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs Surley my safety is important or am i wrong lol " Absolutely YOUR choice don't let the SAD haters ruin your fun! x | |||
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"no yer not wrong,id never meet alone,always in public" That's coz you're an hexibitionist | |||
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"no yer not wrong,id never meet alone,always in public That's coz you're an hexibitionist " yus,,,,,im a peacock | |||
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