FabSwingers.com forum: only meeting at clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

You're not wrong.

Entirely your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your life

Your choice of lifestyle

You do what you think is best for you

I know that's how I view my life

For me my home is my place and I'd never invite someone there I don't know or trust 100%

So meeting at a club seems sensible

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

nope... not at all.... but some people like to think with their "wallets" and "cocks" as opposed to their brain and the saftey elements of meeting strangers

its kinda like when people "scoff" at meeting socially first before playing..... mindset being everything that isn't playing is a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just winds me up thats all

why cant i think about my safety and the club of choice i feel safe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

nope... not at all.... but some people like to think with their "wallets" and "cocks" as opposed to their brain and the saftey elements of meeting strangers

its kinda like when people "scoff" at meeting socially first before playing..... mindset being everything that isn't playing is a waste of time

and yet socials can be done at clubs so win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just winds me up thats all

why cant i think about my safety and the club of choice i feel safe

Most of my meets are at clubs as thats where i feel safest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just winds me up thats all

why cant i think about my safety and the club of choice i feel safe

Your safety is the most important factor here and yes a club offers a higher safety element.

Some men simply don't like rejection and react by saying stupid things xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can meet where you want.

I see quite a few profiles that mention club meets only.

If they're messaging stuff like that then you're better off not having met them. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most know me know the club i love and most last night saw my smile wide as and happy as hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

I like you prefer to meet at clubs. As I feel safer. After a bad experience at someone's house. I won't be meeting outside a club again.

You have to do what is right for YOU!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can meet where you want.

I see quite a few profiles that mention club meets only.

If they're messaging stuff like that then you're better off not having met them. x"

its the respect of people giving me which im finding shocking, when they say

BUT im genuine and im no stranger

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Clubs offer a safe place to socialize and play in and a good way of meeting new people so any sensible person should understand your way of thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just winds me up thats all

why cant i think about my safety and the club of choice i feel safe

At least you have clubs close enough.

Enjoy and ignore idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's pretty clear is that some people try and get others to do what they want by questioning, ridiculing or insulting their preferences.

I know, I know, it's boring but once again worth repeating its all about finding people who like doing what you do not about getting people to do what you like.

Lots of people prefer clubs. You can 'try before you buy', have the choice of speaking or even playing with several people in the same night and the atmospheres are friendly and welcoming.

They are also a bit hit and miss and you're reliant on luck as to who's there.

So just choice then and any halfwit who can't respect the choices of others will probably reap their just rewards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

Why do you care what they think?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We mainly meet at clubs first then if we click meet privately afterwards.

Not so much for safety more so we can enjoy the day if the meet was crap or did not turn up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

Why do you care what they think?"

its one of thoese weeks thats all

if a person cant respect my wishes or criteras they have no hope in hell :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That depends if the club employs you to entice men in you have no intention of having sex with. I would go as a single woman and not advertise the fact on here. I might say which clubs I attend but not invite men to meet me there unless I was sure I wanted sex with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all entirely your choice and means you don't have to meet strangers at home or be let down and home alone etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore the losers.

They're only saying nasty things because they know full well that they've gone from slim chance to no chance of getting a meet with you and rather than accepting the fact as part of life, they choose to throw their toys out of the pram.

My advice to them would be along the lines of, well if you really want a meet with this person, rather than whining that she won't come to yours, why not get yourself to one of the clubs she goes to - or arrange to meet her at one.

That said, I can understand why some may be put off by the idea of only meeting at clubs, as there is a strong bias with regard to entry fees - and without wishing to debate the whys or wherefores, the rights the wrongs, the inequalities etc, I do actually understand why this is the case - but, of course, for you ladies, entry and indeed membership fees are very low (in some cases, free entry) whereas for single guys, such costs are disproportionately, and significantly higher.

Even so, I would not agree that this entitles anyone to hurl insults such as the ones you have been receiving.

Stick to your guns. This site is all about personal preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

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take no notice chick, I don't even bother looking for meets on here because I only meet at clubs, and they either want you to hold their hand to gain cheap entry or don't show at all!

I just take myself off to a club and take pot luck who's there, and funnily enough I've never met a timewaster in a club yet

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

Not wrong at all. Safety, convenience, no time wasters, good atmosphere - all this and more at a Club.

Not sure why anyone bothers with answering emails, vetting, making sure the person is real, sorting out a suitable venue, date and time and then fully expecting that there is only a 50/50 chance of them actually showing up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I e been asked how much I charge because I meet in clubs.

Zilch.

It's a safety thing.

It's your body. Be safe xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

Not wrong at all. Safety, convenience, no time wasters, good atmosphere - all this and more at a Club.

this thank you

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

We can fully understand this. Even as a couple we only play in clubs. Socially it's a great environment, there is always a choice of who to play with, it's safer, and there is no embarrasment or feelings of wasted time if you choose not to play or if someone doesnt appeal to you.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Is totaly up to you how n where you have your fun ... For those who feel the need for sarky comments simply block em! Who needs that drama anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its your decision plus it saves on messing your sheets up which a lot of guys who want to meet at mine seem to forget when they ask can they cum everywhere "only if you are paying for the laundry to be done mate"

Guys are the same when i say i wont go to theirs or randomly meet as I like to let someone know where I am and definitely who I am with x

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

I recently decided to do most of my meeting at clubs, for the simple reason that, because it takes so long to get myself up to an acceptable standard then I want to make the most of the time I have dressed!

This seems to put a lot of guys off, to which I surmise that A)they don't actually want to be seen in public with me, or B)they don't want to pay to get into a club.

Either way its not my problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet at clubs. States so clearly on my profile and whilst I don't mind arranging meeting people inside I will not go as a couple. Have my favourite clubs but I am in no way linked to any club. Never been called an escort etc tho. (if I was why am I so bloody skint?)

If people don't like meeting in clubs fine, just block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all know the main reason is because of the cost involved for the guy. We have suggested that guys meet us in the club but most don't want to have to pay a membership and/or inflated single guy entrance price.

However your safety is the most important thing

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If a guy wants to be at a club when I'm there thats up to him but I'd never expect a single guy to meet me there because of hiw much it costs for them to get in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are only meeting in clubs maybe take the bit out of your profile where it says "unless i know you or been conversing for a while". That may give some the impression that if they send a few messages you will meet 1 to 1.

Otherwise just ignore and block any insults. It's easy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you are only meeting in clubs maybe take the bit out of your profile where it says "unless i know you or been conversing for a while". That may give some the impression that if they send a few messages you will meet 1 to 1.

Otherwise just ignore and block any insults. It's easy

thats for people ive met x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Otherwise just ignore and block any insults. It's easy

thats for people ive met x"

It would be easier just to tell those you have met rather than giving others false hope?

I have different rules for those i know but i don't put it on my profile as others think it's for them if we have only chatteda little. Just an idea to make things clearer. Up to you what you do it's your profile but might help cut down on misunderstanding leading to insults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

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there as some stupid twats on here how can you be any of the above cause your not making anything out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" ... I would go as a single woman and not advertise the fact on here. I might say which clubs I attend but not invite men to meet me there unless I was sure I wanted sex with him. "

I have previously been on here for three years. Neither now nor then have I received messages of that nature, with that wording.

I can see elsewhere on the forums that you declare to be capable of encouraging men to jump off a bridge.

It would be interesting to see what messages you had sent their way for them to go so low and write those words to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Otherwise just ignore and block any insults. It's easy

thats for people ive met x"

just changed it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" ... I would go as a single woman and not advertise the fact on here. I might say which clubs I attend but not invite men to meet me there unless I was sure I wanted sex with him.

I have previously been on here for three years. Neither now nor then have I received messages of that nature, with that wording.

I can see elsewhere on the forums that you declare to be capable of encouraging men to jump off a bridge.

It would be interesting to see what messages you had sent their way for them to go so low and write those words to you?"

the guy i was telling to jump off a bridge was not on here and a life long friemd and just in jest.

Nothing as i when i say i generally only meet at organised socials or clubs they hate the fact i dont meet at home or theirs

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

"Your life

Your choice of lifestyle

You do what you think is best for you

I know that's how I view my life

For me my home is my place and I'd never invite someone there I don't know or trust 100%

So meeting at a club seems sensible"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's not wrong if that's shat you're comfortable with. The blokes that say those things to you are probably the very reason you feel the need to only play in clubs so ignore them!

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

We only meet in clubs for the first time. Safety first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

Delete and block. Do what you want to do and what you feel comfortable with, anyone worth your time will respect that and not give you abuse for it!

I don't meet in clubs. I understand why other people do....but if you get the other bits right than the showing up ratio is a hell of a lot better than 50%....

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By *ittenwantstoplayWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I prefer meets at clubs or a social drink somewhere i know. O never invite people home because i don't feel safe.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

I guess this is because they have to make an extra effort - well screw them.

Fantastic way of sorting the dreamers from the doers

I do exactly the same. Some people are soo not worth bothering about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just gotten one idiot banned because he started calling me nasty names when I said no called all swingers riddled with aids and rotten and I was a disgrace having loads of old men going through me one after the other as I only meet at clubs don't idiots like this realise this is why women like to meet in the safety of clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

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go for it your safety comes first and your relaxed there so do it your way x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I wish we had clubs up this way that I could meet at - I'd much rather meet in a club.

However, I make do and always have a social somewhere public first, and then decide on plans from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

I personally wouldn't meet you because I'm really not into clubs, but I absolutely agree with your mentality, safety must always come first, how the fuck does this make you a hooker, unless your asking for money for sex, that's nonsense.

Just ignore the nobs and stick to your guns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end if the day it's all about choice, if guys don't want to meet in clubs that's fine, use that as a filter, however you have every right to decide on where you feel safe, and if that's in a club environment then you absolutely have the right to say you'll only meet there.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I only meet at a club now, but I still get loads of messages saying 'Want to come to mine now?' etc. If they won't come to the club then I won't meet them and that's the end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

No your not clubs are sexy environments that are safe and clean and you ent got the embarresment of the hotel clerk looking at you thinking I know what you've been doin. Walk of shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet at clubs as the kids at home ect, nothing wrong with it at all.

Calling you names, well are you not glad you never invited those ones back.

I think far better single woman meeting at clubs.

Her

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

That is what your block button is for. Why worry about what muppets think?

As a couple we also prefer to meet people at clubs or parties because you always find people to play with.. Plus there is far fewer awkward moments, less having to listern to life stories or people's troubles or hang ups. You also don't have to worry about the no shows or the people who cancel the meeting five mins before you arrive having been on route for god know how long...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your life

Your choice of lifestyle

You do what you think is best for you

I know that's how I view my life

For me my home is my place and I'd never invite someone there I don't know or trust 100%

So meeting at a club seems sensible"

This x

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

You should absolutely only ever do what you feel comfortable with and what is right for you...On top of that, if you make it clear [as you have] what it is you are looking for, then how can that be wrong?

Good luck to you I say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only do club meets as it states twice on my profile for the very same reason as OP.. safety!

I have had people try to covince me to meet outside a club. When i stick to my guns they tell me it's my loss or that a shame! I tell them it is for them! Lol

As a single women I don't chose what clubs charge or not charge people for entry! I think of it is way... If you were to book a hotel for a meet wouldn't it be cheaper to go to a club??? More chance of playing if the other one does turn up or you don't click in person? ?? Stops wasting everyone's time and their is always other people in the club you might click with????

Personally I get more turned on in a club environment with things going on around and the relaxed surrounding!

Like I said earlier OP. Their lost. Plenty of other people of the same thinking that go to clubs! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its your choice and its fine but single men usually have to pay about 40 pounds to get in so effectively they are paying for sex

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Its your choice and its fine but single men usually have to pay about 40 pounds to get in so effectively they are paying for sex"

No, they are paying to get into a club. You shouldn't expect sex, whether in a club or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its your choice and its fine but single men usually have to pay about 40 pounds to get in so effectively they are paying for sex"

Technically not going to a club no matter what you pay is no guarantee you are going to have sex what you are paying is entry to the establishment so no it isn't paying for sex it's paying for the possibility of it this is the misguided opinion of a lot of blokes it seems and it's wrong !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its your choice and its fine but single men usually have to pay about 40 pounds to get in so effectively they are paying for sex

No, they are paying to get into a club. You shouldn't expect sex, whether in a club or otherwise."

I agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men pay to get in in the hope of getting sex.unless you are a regular swinger

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Single men pay to get in in the hope of getting sex.unless you are a regular swinger"

That's not the fault of the women though is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not saying it is..what im saying is most single me who pay to get into a club are going there hoping to have sex so effectively they are paying to be in an environment were sex may happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single men pay to get in in the hope of getting sex.unless you are a regular swinger

That's not the fault of the women though is it?"

Nope! I would happily pay to gain entry into a club! Like I said before us women don't set the prices... The club do! Take it up with them! Some people just it is ok to disrespect women on here and see them as a soft target! Shame on those how do! As I was also saying before it is still cheaper than booking a hotel!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

Me and Mo are the same, but for us it's more of a time issue x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Im not saying it is..what im saying is most single me who pay to get into a club are going there hoping to have sex so effectively they are paying to be in an environment were sex may happen"

Although I don't agree with certain points of the OP (I don't make it a condition of the meet to go to a club), I will make it clear that I will be at the club and the guy is welcome to come and say hello. The guy is in no way obligated to go to the club, therefore its his decision whether he pays or not. If he then assumes he will get sex by attending the club then he is definitely going with the wrong attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im not saying it is..what im saying is most single me who pay to get into a club are going there hoping to have sex so effectively they are paying to be in an environment were sex may happen

I am the same at no point i promise no-one sex and if they are joining a club for sex as they think they are guaranteed it they wont last long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look it's your life and your safety - if they don't like it use "block" and "delete" a simple solution.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

"Im not saying it is..what im saying is most single me who pay to get into a club are going there hoping to have sex so effectively they are paying to be in an environment were sex may happen"

In which case go and hire a whore to ensure you get what you want.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

Works for us meeting at clubs x if you don't get on its not a wasted night xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afternoon

lately well last few months i have decided to only meet at clubs.

i love meeting singles but i prefer the club environment to home

I have had messages from men calling me a "hooker" "paid woman" or "escort" as i choose to meet at clubs

Surley my safety is important

or am i wrong lol

Absolutely YOUR choice don't let the SAD haters ruin your fun! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet in clubs for several reasons. First one is my own safety.

Secondly, it takes me a long time to get ready. I can do a quick makeover in half an hour but I prefer to take my time and really enjoy getting ready. I hope it shows.

Seeing as it takes so long to get ready, and quite a while to transform back, I want to maximise my time as Rachael so a quick blow job in the back of some guys car, although fun, isn't worth all that effort in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lately I've mostly been attending clubs but although I might say to a guy I'll be there I make no promises that he'll get his hands on me.

It's then their choice whether or not they go. If I want to play I will if and if I don't I won't. Been swinging long enough to know what I want and more importantly what I don't.

Just ignore the nasty messages they'll always be part of fab unfortunately xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no yer not wrong,id never meet alone,always in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no yer not wrong,id never meet alone,always in public"

That's coz you're an hexibitionist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no yer not wrong,id never meet alone,always in public

That's coz you're an hexibitionist

yus,,,,,im a peacock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your feedback

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