FabSwingers.com forum: Do people even meet on here?! Help!!! Lol

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here for months now recently sarted using the site more but still struggling to even get conversating with anyone let alone meets! Any advise from anyone would be great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here for months now recently sarted using the site more but still struggling to even get conversating with anyone let alone meets! Any advise from anyone would be great."

Don't come in here!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Remove yourself if you have nothing decent to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove yourself if you have nothing decent to say "

Remove myself?

Hahaha.

First of all I was joking.

Eek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol remove yer self woman xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove yourself if you have nothing decent to say "

Bossy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Remove yourself if you have nothing decent to say

Bossy. "

Im a bossy kinda guy

haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Remove yourself if you have nothing decent to say

Remove myself?

Hahaha.

First of all I was joking.

Eek. "

Ok then i apologise lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol remove yer self woman xx

I've tried.

I'm a stubborn bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove yourself if you have nothing decent to say

Bossy.

Im a bossy kinda guy

haha "

I wouldn't meet anyone that's bossy. If you give off that vibe in messages, maybe that's contributing to your lack of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it may be clear why now

He's bossy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it may be clear why now

He's bossy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive dug myself a good deep hole here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remove the cock shots from your profile, correct the grammar and typos in your profile, block single guys from messaging you and remove that line of txt from your profile, ALL CAPS IS ANNOYING ON ANY LEVEL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read your profile and we wouldn't consider meeting you. Perhaps a re-think is in order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll generally find the ratio of women to men is 1 to 3 billion. Also, don't think why won't these women drop their knickers for me, I am a single straight male after all. You'll be set for a fall.

Take it easy. If something happens, great. If not, don't be a whining child about it

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Just want to clarify... Would you consider receiving pleasure from a man?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I'd suggest waiting a few years OP. Growing up is a difficult time and complicating it won't help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive dug myself a good deep hole here lol"

Climb in.

I'll get the shovel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive dug myself a good deep hole here lol"

First rule of politics....and of Fab. If you are in a hole - stop digging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol remove yer self woman xx

I've tried.

I'm a stubborn bitch. "
you is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol remove yer self woman xx

I've tried.

I'm a stubborn bitch. you is

I....is.

No. Can't.

I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive dug myself a good deep hole here lol"
block list fodder...starts with a moan then an order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol remove yer self woman xx

I've tried.

I'm a stubborn bitch. you is

I....is.

No. Can't.

I am.

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you will

Please

Oh go on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out any local events happening in your locality whether it be clubs or socials.

Attend them, get your face known and start networking.

Also have patience and things will improve.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'll generally find the ratio of women to men is 1 to 3 billion. "

3 billion?? Well I wish some of them would bledi well move to live nearer me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op I been here half a decade lol but yes 3 billion men to 1 woman sounds accurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i meet if they are nice and i fancy them

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Been on here for months now recently sarted using the site more but still struggling to even get conversating with anyone let alone meets! Any advise from anyone would be great."

Get yourself into the chat rooms - it's a quick and easy way to get to talk with people you might otherwise not be able to communicate with (age preferences etc).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove yourself if you have nothing decent to say "
yep that'll do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here a while had no problems with meets communication is key and of course politeness.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I get meets

Perfect ur profile ask for advice here.

Perfect your lyrics, don't ask mundane generic questions think out the box.

Don't be to full on about sex straight away.

Your first introduction messages, Stand out

Write 3 or 4 paragraphs, no text speak proper spelling and punctuation.

I'm no brad Pitt but I do well

Had some amazing meets with singles and couples.

I've found my Nye date on here.

Good luck dude

Remember... Ask for advice here.

Ask advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sigh.

I can't leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only been on here for a few weeks , I message a couple of people on a regular basis and hopefully have one or two meets in the new year . It's all about how you talk to people that counts .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Been on here for months now recently sarted using the site more but still struggling to even get conversating with anyone let alone meets! Any advise from anyone would be great."

What does 'conversating' mean? My advice is to smile in your face photo, OP. Like this:

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm still waiting for the ladies to leave then we can Talk about them..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm still waiting for the ladies to leave then we can Talk about them..

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blueskies is yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still waiting for the ladies to leave then we can Talk about them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refuse to conversate with anyone.... It's just my rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't meet anyone that's bossy. If you give off that vibe in messages, maybe that's contributing to your lack of meets. "

How about someone who is reasonably charming and a good lover?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove yourself if you have nothing decent to say "

Oo touchy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much an epic fail of a thread. All honesty we are all timewasters none of us meet. The clubs are made up, and there is no such thing as a bi single female. Sorry but someone had to tell him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I get meets

Perfect ur profile ask for advice here.

Perfect your lyrics, don't ask mundane generic questions think out the box.

Don't be to full on about sex straight away.

Your first introduction messages, Stand out

Write 3 or 4 paragraphs, no text speak proper spelling and punctuation.

I'm no brad Pitt but I do well

Had some amazing meets with singles and couples.

I've found my Nye date on here.

Good luck dude

Remember... Ask for advice here.

Ask advice

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

A night in a club is worth 100 days on fab. You will meet more people that way and you might even get to play if your lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I get meets

Perfect ur profile ask for advice here.

Perfect your lyrics, don't ask mundane generic questions think out the box.

Don't be to full on about sex straight away.

Your first introduction messages, Stand out

Write 3 or 4 paragraphs, no text speak proper spelling and punctuation.

I'm no brad Pitt but I do well

Had some amazing meets with singles and couples.

I've found my Nye date on here.

Good luck dude

Remember... Ask for advice here.

Ask advice "
You said it twice lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sigh.

I can't leave."

Good. Wouldn't want you to xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry but this thread made me laugh..jeez..so men are stressy!! Unlike us women who are very laid back

Have a look at your profile fella, maybe a few changes will help. Try n relax n be friendly, no one will want to talk to you, never mind meet you if you don't come across as a nice fella first. X. Good luck hun, hope the advice works x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been here a while had no problems with meets communication is key and of course politeness.......

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And social skills. Oh, and maybe getting out in real life too!

And be a bit realistic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty much an epic fail of a thread. All honesty we are all timewasters none of us meet. The clubs are made up, and there is no such thing as a bi single female. Sorry but someone had to tell him. "

I can verify that!

p.s. I do go to club. My social skills appear acceptable in that conxet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My advice is to smile in your face photo, OP. Like this:

This is my favourite comment of the week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no one on here meets, we just talk about it, we're not real, we're just a figment of your imagination!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I refuse to conversate with anyone.... It's just my rule.

Haven't you never conversated with no-one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your ever in Scotland come waste time with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here for months now recently sarted using the site more but still struggling to even get conversating with anyone let alone meets! Any advise from anyone would be great."

Change your profile image to the black and white one of your body as it is a far nicer photo

Not that your ugly far from it but the profile image does you no favours

Also realise this website is all about promoting yourself and making your profile stand-out from the crowd so ask how can I achieve that and make females/couples thing he is of real interest?

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

quote "And don't forget to ignore every bit of advice given. That's Fab' law "

And then post a week later asking the same question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really need to get a meet mate get green ticked then u get lots for offers

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

The beauty of site like this is Men, women and couples alike have the power to browse for what they are looking for, check out a profile that catches their eye and either act or just move on to the next until they find exactly what they are looking for without the hassle of needless interaction.

With so many single guys to choose from women and couples are bound to keep searching until they find exactly what they are looking for. Most have a certain fantasy or sernario they want to experience and choosing the right person to join them with that is important.

You really have to make yourself stand out. Just being a guy with a cock isn't enough to make someone jump into bed with you. Study the lads who are doing well. What are they offering? Or what do they have to offer?

What do The people who've met them have to say about them? This should give you a good idea of what people are looking for.

Also try taking some more photos of you smartend up. Women do like a bit of rough but I would switch your viz vest photo for a shirt or nice suit. Intelligence and sophistication win every time. Add more body picks but try and steer clear of any cock picks unless you have something to seriously shout about

In the 14 years we've been dabbling we've only had three meets with single guys and only the most recent was a success. The first two almost put us off forever. Getting it right is important.

Stand out, Have patience, have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really need to get a meet mate get green ticked then u get lots for offers "

He's straight. I sincerely doubt he will get lots of offers from women.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"Really need to get a meet mate get green ticked then u get lots for offers

He's straight. I sincerely doubt he will get lots of offers from women."

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

"Ive dug myself a good deep hole here lol"

havent you ..maybe thats why your having no luck ..youve an attitude problem ..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Remove yourself if you have nothing decent to say "

I think this comment might lower your chances. When people make decisions on whether or not to allow a single man into their home to have sex, they naturally enough do their research - check out the profile, photos, verifications, get into a conversation etc.....but some also check the little green arrow to see what the potential meet has been saying in the forums. Capice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove yourself if you have nothing decent to say

And if they have a sense of humour

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Remove yourself if you have nothing decent to say

etc.....but some also check the little

green arrow to see what the potential

meet has been saying in the forums.

Capice?

And if they have a sense of humour :-

D"
in that case, a few good jokes to and fro will cancel out any cross-patchiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you do start chatting to couples or ladies on here don't start getting all heavy with the sex talk, nothing more off putting than someone who comes across that they want the meet to run to a script. It's got to be spontaneous so go with the flow

Chat about general stuff not constant sex stuff

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"When you do start chatting to couples or ladies on here don't start getting all heavy with the sex talk, nothing more off putting than someone who comes across that they want the meet to run to a script. It's got to be spontaneous so go with the flow

Chat about general stuff not constant sex stuff "

definitely this. The number of times I have been chatting to a nice guy, getting close to meeting, and then its suddenly seriously heavy on "you'll wear this, do this and then this" and I lose all interest. Its a definite no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for the advice, ill take it on board.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat about general stuff not constant sex stuff

That's always an instant block from me. Especially the crap they say they will do to you without even meeting. Boring and immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat about general stuff not constant sex stuff

Met a couple a while back and the guy was constantly messaging saying what he was going to do, what he wanted J to wear, asking what I wanted to do to his partner etc. was a shit meet when they arrived and he was 2 pumps and a fart.. All mouth and no trousers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat about general stuff not constant sex stuff

That's always an instant block from me. Especially the crap they say they will do to you without even meeting. Boring and immature."

I often find these types are the ones who don't meet, all talk, wanting a quick wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here for months now recently sarted using the site more but still struggling to even get conversating with anyone let alone meets! Any advise from anyone would be great."

I'd just relax mate. Desperation or at least seeming desperate isn't attractive. This site isn't the be all and end all of your sex life I'm sure. Also, try the social scene, its amazing how far mingling with your fellow fabbers can take you....

Remember patience is a virtue.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Been on here for months now recently sarted using the site more but still struggling to even get conversating with anyone let alone meets! Any advise from anyone would be great."

Try humour (not dirty, filthy humour as most women here have heard that). Be complimentary (as it is a 'buyer's' market; nobody here wants to shack up so how wealthy, etc does not cut any ice) but not too complimentary as to sound fake, shallow and a doormat

But whatever you do, do not sound desperate; don't sound arrogant either as the delete and block button is only a finger tip away and once used, is forgotton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check the meets and events and club reviews, see all those people going to clubs and reviewing them, they are all getting meets.

What is it they are doing that you are not ?

Oh yeah that's right going to clubs.

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By *LT22Man
over a year ago

Teddington

Yes we do. I'm a single bloke not overwhelmed with meets. But the people I have met and spoken with are really nice, it takes time and patience, don't expect to have your world set On Fire.

As has been said get out socials clubs meetings.

Happy New year to one and all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove the cock shots from your profile, correct the grammar and typos in your profile, block single guys from messaging you and remove that line of txt from your profile, ALL CAPS IS ANNOYING ON ANY LEVEL."

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Been on here for months now recently sarted using the site more but still struggling to even get conversating with anyone let alone meets! Any advise from anyone would be great."

I don't see how you are struggling to get meets because you're a nice looking guy. Maybe you should try doing a bit of socialising so you can get some contacts going? Maybe try and get some party invites or even host a party and ask some people?

Have to say if i was 20 years younger and 5 stone lighter i'd be messaging you lol.

Mrs WD40

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Chat about general stuff not constant sex stuff

That's always an instant block from me. Especially the crap they say they will do to you without even meeting. Boring and immature."

Deffo not the sex stuff - i mean i can live with a couple of questions but constant instructions before you've even met?

We had one meet & i was toying with it when the woman in the other couple told me how she liked to shout instructions over on how to fuck her man.... I was like i am so not going back there....

Talk to a woman on here like you would a woman in a pub/club or supermarket. Respect where respect is due. When you have her knickers off & are screwing her wildly then you can treat her like a cum slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet.

All my verifications are fake and my messages are no longer than one line...

Any other response may foster conversation

Haha

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By *ebedeedoodahMan
over a year ago

Greenford

Who needs hello, X factor or dancing on ice when you've got a thread like this

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Been on here for months now recently sarted using the site more but still struggling to even get conversating with anyone let alone meets! Any advise from anyone would be great."

Yes! Always at clubs and always worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat about general stuff not constant sex stuff

That's always an instant block from me. Especially the crap they say they will do to you without even meeting. Boring and immature.

Deffo not the sex stuff - i mean i can live with a couple of questions but constant instructions before you've even met?

We had one meet & i was toying with it when the woman in the other couple told me how she liked to shout instructions over on how to fuck her man.... I was like i am so not going back there....

xx"

If she wants to be treated like a cum slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...so has anyone conversated yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...so has anyone conversated yet?"

I've been conversating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our eyes, even your current status won't do you any favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too busy filling their faces with cake and watching jezza to get a reply my fellow midlander!!

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