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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How far would you or have you travelled to meet a special couple or person? X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

we will travel a one hour drive to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How far would you or have you travelled to meet a special couple or person? X "

270 miles. Bloody good party it was too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How far would you or have you travelled to meet a special couple or person? X "
distance cant be my barrier tbh in as much their is a chemistry btw us I can travel any where xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How far would you or have you travelled to meet a special couple or person? X "
distance cant be my barrier tbh in as much their is a chemistry btw us I can travel any where xx

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

id travel to the front door to let them in no furthere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2015 is to be my road trip year so I'll be travelling a fair distance to meet people. It'll mainly be in clubs though. Would hate to travel 200 miles for a no show!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done a four hour train journey before now. It was a second meet though. I wouldn't travel that distance for the first meet. Living where I do I'd have to travel over an hour anyway, unless they come to me of course

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By *arkedMan
over a year ago

Trim


"How far would you or have you travelled to meet a special couple or person? X "

So far that was 115 miles/2hrs 20mins, but will travel anywhere in (South or Northern) ireland if Im lucky enough to be invited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I used to travel for an hour around London to meet and fuck, but not anymore, now I will travel just 2 miles as I am abit bored of traveling lol.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Cheshire to Northampton really well worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About an hours drive seems reasonable for a meet.

We do arrange club meets too though and most are a fair way further.

So far, all travel has been worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish i had the time but can't realistically travel further than an hour away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2015 is to be my road trip year so I'll be travelling a fair distance to meet people. It'll mainly be in clubs though. Would hate to travel 200 miles for a no show! "

would love to accomdate you in blackpool :P

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

30 mins max, unless it's london, for a good reason, then that's an hour away.

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

I would travel 30-45 mins if i have never met before. If I have met and played several times before then I would travel further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've traveled to Texas before to meet a girl, she wasn't from off here, and she traveled here as well, but i have traveled to Southend in the past

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By *hmed7894Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I've done a four hour train journey before now. It was a second meet though. I wouldn't travel that distance for the first meet. Living where I do I'd have to travel over an hour anyway, unless they come to me of course "

Id come to you

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall

For socials and gatherings I have been all over. For a one on one or one on two , even socially, have travelled to London, Liverpool and have a trip planned to Scotland next/this year. However those trips tend to be weekends away, no point wasting a trip, and with people i know and trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

110 miles. It was well worth it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am heading in to a town/city anyway, then no limit to travel. For first meet, anything up to an hour / 50 miles. Second/subsequent meets where I'm sure of meeting up - whatever distance/time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah 1h 10 miles

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

200 miles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very far, I just lure them here to me instead

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Up to two hours. I have traveled further for super genuine people for regular day/overnight or weekend meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right people, distance is no object. If it didn't work out then there's always a weekend away out of it.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I went to Miami

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would travel anywhere really. With cheap flights and hotels can make a mini break of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthest for me was Burton on Trent. Twice for different people.

First was a 24 yr old Nurse I had previously met in an hotel in Brum. Took food with me, cooked her a top notch meal (Sea Bass as main course) and stayed over night. Sadly she no longer on site....met a guy n went 'nilla.

Second was to my good friends boxchaser for a party. They had been to a few of mine, and have been to one since (well Bobbie has).

So worth the travel for people you know n are genuine....about hour and half?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A flight to Portugal !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't generally have a limit to how far I travel. Depends on the person and type of meet! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 hours to get there as I never really appreciated the distance on non motorways. But one of the best meets ever luckily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I would walk 500 miles....

Agree with those that say that distance is no object for the right person.

To be fair, no shows aren't restricted to long distance meets. Had a no show less than 5 miles away.

There are a few people on here quite a dustance away that I would love to meet. Hoping to meet a few this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don"t travel but accom. Furthest been Portugal and made a very long weekend about 4 times a year to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel up to 2 hours if i felt someone was genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About an hour, and we won't meet people who have to travel more than that to us for a first meet. It isn't no shows we're bothered about but more feeling obliged to play with someone we're not attracted to because of the time and distance...or someone feeling that about us

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

It would depend on how much I wanted to meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We normally say about an hour away. We have travelled further for quality and for parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How far would you or have you travelled to meet a special couple or person? X "

Ten to twelve miles, not sure they would show or maybe no spark so unless met them before could be waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We generally pick a place and make a weekend out of it, if we get a social or play meet its a bonus, if not we go exploring sights etc, so in that case it could be 200 miles away, but as a general rule if it's a midweek meet, be it social or play we will travel 60/70 miles.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"We generally pick a place and make a weekend out of it, if we get a social or play meet its a bonus, if not we go exploring sights etc, so in that case it could be 200 miles away, but as a general rule if it's a midweek meet, be it social or play we will travel 60/70 miles.

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Was about to write something very similar apart from we always have a back up for a no show, usually a party to go to letting the host know we're a maybe, however, we've been fortunate not to have had to do that yet. We rarely meet in the week, just too busy and complicated but if we do it's 10 miles max as we'll need to get back, not a fan of the week meets tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How far would you or have you travelled to meet a special couple or person? X

Ten to twelve miles, not sure they would show or maybe no spark so unless met them before could be waste of time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How far would you or have you travelled to meet a special couple or person? X "

Ive travelled a 400 mile round trip and planning another for new year x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travelled all over england Wales and Scotland for meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to drive, so distance isn't really an issue, apart from the time it takes when working the following day

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

If I really want to meet them, distance is not a factor. Of course I'd like to meet closer to home but for me it's a cool way of exploring parts of the country I haven't seen before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthest I have gone is Northampton .not from this site tho.but I'd probably go a bit further I guess

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Dont mind distance, but closeness means the chances of repeats, and ever better sex, goes up.

Had a meet and want to repeat but she is so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 hours each way, and 18 months later we were married lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it's Marion Cottilard I'd go even to Japan

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Furthest I have travelled was an 800 mile round trip (but was combined with football)

Regularly travel 300 mile round trip to see someone special (not from fab)

Had a fabber travel 400 mile round trip to see me - and we met numerous times.

Now, I tend to look locally unless its someone really special that we click with and have a good online friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travel 60 to 80 miles to party/clubs and blokes I've met through them to see privately

I don't travel more than 15miles to people I don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right meet, any distance!!! We travelled down to London to meet a lovely couple!!!

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By *effrey45Man
over a year ago

Lytham

Surely it all depends on how you know eachother - for a one off I wouldn't be travelling far due to previous let downs

Having said that I have find memories of driving regularly to Newcastle for fantastic overnighters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went from Dunguness Kent to Stirling to meet a woman years ago and wow it was well worth the effort.

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By *renaaJirkaCouple
over a year ago

Prague and New York

We travel few times a year to party in Vienna Austria.

And its worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drove from home to Leeds for a party and it was class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leeds to southampton for a 3 day sex fest yummy!

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

2hrs 45mins.... And the memories still makes me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flew to Dublin. That meant a 240+ mile round trip to Liverpool airport then an hour each way from Dublin airport. Not a bad trip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over an hour to clubs (chams/xtasia). Two an a bit hours to a party....but the couple had been to my parties...and for them it's close to 4 hours n 2 changes by train! So fairs fair lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to drive, so distance isn't really an issue, apart from the time it takes when working the following day"

I too love driving.

Although not the little shopping trolley i'm currently lumbered with until I can get the beast back on the road.

(The rear axle went bang just before Christmas)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm travelling between Newcastle and Bedfordshire on Thursday not for a meet but may see if I can squeeze one in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelled to London for a meet and I've had a couple of guys fly to Ireland to meet me and all have led to repeat meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

within 5 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a guy drive over from Germany a few times, took him 18 hours driving and ferries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we really click with someone will travel half way - not travelled over an hour yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to london and Manchester so prob that far

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Heading to Coventry from Dublin this weekend. Managed to arrange the trip to coincide with the rugby but to be honest it's the guy I'm more eager about. When the chemistry feels right then its worth the travel (hopefully)

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"I don't generally have a limit to how far I travel. Depends on the person and type of meet! X"

Pretty much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im off to wales in a few weeks, around a 450 mile round trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a fb travel from cornwall to manchester to see me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't rule out a good distance to travel, I don't meet often so I regard it as a mini adventure or break either way. Parties and such I'll travel however far, for the right ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the furthest I've been is 160mi round trip.. Very well worth it.. Well I've done it a few times.. know the way without satnav now hehehe..

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Not very far, I just lure them here to me instead "

Waiting in anticipation,

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

About an hour which works for us as our 3 favourite clubs are within reach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the longest I've traveled is a 160 mile round trip to a club.

Most of the clubs I've been to are around an hour's drive or so. I don't think I would put in more that a two hour drive for a one off meet unless I had met the person/couple before.

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By *dward and WallisCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

Lincoln to St Tropez worth every Euro Shagging none stop for 4 days and nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not very far, I just lure them here to me instead "

Ain't that the truth. Haha

I've always said that if the person is worth travelling for, distance should be no barrier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't rule out a good distance to travel, I don't meet often so I regard it as a mini adventure or break either way. Parties and such I'll travel however far, for the right ones."

Is 200 miles pushing it lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've driven 160 miles round trip before, but think nothing of 350 miles as the crow flies for the right person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A thousand miles

No stopping me if my interest is aroused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd travel anywhere, if it didn't work out there's the bonus of a weekend away somewhere new.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

As long as there's chemistry distance isn't an issue.

Re my veriys I've done a 500 mile round trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthest we have travelled is 40 miles but wouldn't go that far for a first meet, 3 clubs within 15 miles of us so don't have to travel too far, maybe we should broaden our horizons x

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