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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I don't get many messages. Please read my profile and comment on here or message me some improvements please. Happy to take criticism but please don't be abusive. Nice messages always get replies xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And there's my point lol x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you seem to have done okay on here, why not write to the females that you have met and ask them what attracted them to you...

you would be dealing with actuals and not hypotheticals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is well written, and would appeal to a wide audience I think.

Nice pics too, showing off your body and letting peeps know there's more to see.

One thing I noticed is that you are open to bi play but state straight.

Go get 'em if the messages are not coming in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be blunt photos awful, you state your straight but in your profile you state bi play then talk about arranging a meet for a friend all a bit confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be blunt photos awful, you state your straight but in your profile you state bi play then talk about arranging a meet for a friend all a bit confusing "

I agree, pics are a total turn off, one cock pic and the other out of focus. Relatively well written, much better than many but the pics are doing you no favour in my opinion, sorry. You were given some good advice in your other similar thread yesterday.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

As a single guy, it's all down to you to make the effort and make that initial contact. Effort = results. With the sheer number of men on here sending messages to ladies, we don't really have much need to make that first contact. I have never sent a first message to anyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I appreciate your honesty, especially flame haired and gillyhicks. I've changed the photo for the reasons you state and changed the profile to be less confusing.

It great when someone else reads it as they see things you don't xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say you need a better selection of pics. I like normal pics, like on a night out having fun, maybe in a nice suit, a torso pic. I never message guys that don't have face pics but understand not everyone wants to put a face pic on public display. Cock pics are a total turn off and I just move to the next profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't see the previous profile before the changes, but it's looking like a good one. Maybe some more pics, not necessarily very explicitive (can keep that for private), but such as back and bum and an erection under briefs.

Portia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy, it's all down to you to make the effort and make that initial contact. Effort = results. With the sheer number of men on here sending messages to ladies, we don't really have much need to make that first contact. I have never sent a first message to anyone on here."
I know. I am abit lazy myself so don't send many messages out lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy, it's all down to you to make the effort and make that initial contact. Effort = results. With the sheer number of men on here sending messages to ladies, we don't really have much need to make that first contact. I have never sent a first message to anyone on here.I know. I am abit lazy myself so don't send many messages out lol."

It's just one of those things on here. I don't send much in the way of messages, but what I do send is personal to each profile.

My profile has what I hope are reasonable pics and my face is there so I'm not trying to hide anything and still anything I send out get deleted with no reply most of the time.

It's just par for the course. The women here may not appreciate the amount of mail they get, feeling that it's to much, but they still rule the roost.

You'd be better trying the clubs if you're willing. Nothing beats face to face chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've added a face pic but maybe that will scare people away now. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've added a face pic but maybe that will scare people away now. X"

AW bless ya don't be daft lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've added a face pic but maybe that will scare people away now. X"

Try one where your smiling. That may help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please try and look like you're happy even if you're not, smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy, it's all down to you to make the effort and make that initial contact. Effort = results. With the sheer number of men on here sending messages to ladies, we don't really have much need to make that first contact. I have never sent a first message to anyone on here.I know. I am abit lazy myself so don't send many messages out lol.

It's just one of those things on here. I don't send much in the way of messages, but what I do send is personal to each profile.

My profile has what I hope are reasonable pics and my face is there so I'm not trying to hide anything and still anything I send out get deleted with no reply most of the time.

It's just par for the course. The women here may not appreciate the amount of mail they get, feeling that it's to much, but they still rule the roost.

You'd be better trying the clubs if you're willing. Nothing beats face to face chat. "
Yes I been to few clubs, but recently abit expensive to get in, last one I went to was last year, mind you I don't mind my profile floating around in cyber space

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