FabSwingers.com forum: Married with genuine reason to play away

By *he Wabbits OP Couple
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

I am a 47 year old man thinking about indulging the Bromsgrove area, my wife is very ill & we can not make love like we used to because of her illness, we have discussed me playing solo, but I am unsure about getting back in, we've been away from swinging for a long time, & I am nervous & we live in a new area. Please help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you want help with?

It's really up to you and wife to discuss between the two of you, if she has given her full consent then maybe set up a single male profile and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you want anyone to say. Like the previous reply it is up to the two of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a really sad situation you're in. I only meet married/attached men with the OH consent, and as long as your wife is willing to speak to any prospective meets then give it a try if you want to. But if you don't feel comfortable doing it, then don't as you wont enjoy it.

Good luck

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By *he Wabbits OP Couple
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Thank you all, I think I've just lost a great deal of confidence. I might just try some socials first without playing. Then the take it from there. We used to be regulars at Chameleons, but the thought of walking in on my own scares me to death.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest attending forum or club socials to help build your confidence, then move from there at your own pace.

Good luck

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I am a 47 year old man thinking about indulging the Bromsgrove area, my wife is very ill & we can not make love like we used to because of her illness, we have discussed me playing solo, but I am unsure about getting back in, we've been away from swinging for a long time, & I am nervous & we live in a new area. Please help?"
. Sorry to hear about your wifes illness. Alzheimer's is a very difficult illness to manage . I am sure that your confidence will come back and a few hours away from looking after your wife will be beneficial to both you and her.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I am a 47 year old man thinking about indulging the Bromsgrove area, my wife is very ill & we can not make love like we used to because of her illness, we have discussed me playing solo, but I am unsure about getting back in, we've been away from swinging for a long time, & I am nervous & we live in a new area. Please help?. Sorry to hear about your wifes illness. Alzheimer's is a very difficult illness to manage . I am sure that your confidence will come back and a few hours away from looking after your wife will be beneficial to both you and her. "

The lady doesn't have Alzheimers

she has Parkinson's

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Thank you all, I think I've just lost a great deal of confidence. I might just try some socials first without playing. Then the take it from there. We used to be regulars at Chameleons, but the thought of walking in on my own scares me to death."

hey guys x this is a big step for you and you know just how hard it is for genuine single guys, I guess it will be harder than most given the suspicious nature of people on here.

Always happy to give you a lift to chams when me and letsbe go up but we only really go for the bbw nights these days.

Good luck in taking this step as I know it is a big step for you noth x

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I am a 47 year old man thinking about indulging the Bromsgrove area, my wife is very ill & we can not make love like we used to because of her illness, we have discussed me playing solo, but I am unsure about getting back in, we've been away from swinging for a long time, & I am nervous & we live in a new area. Please help?. Sorry to hear about your wifes illness. Alzheimer's is a very difficult illness to manage . I am sure that your confidence will come back and a few hours away from looking after your wife will be beneficial to both you and her.

The lady doesn't have Alzheimers

she has Parkinson's "
. Apologies . I should have re checked the profile before writing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a married man myself it is difficult on here. Unfortunately to many people have been lied to by "single men" & has put them off meeting anyone who is married, yes even with permission.

Attending clubs as a single can be quiet daunting. I'm often encouraged by my wife to go, however I sometimes just don't want to go on my own & end up not going.

Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and go, you'll probably enjoy the atmosphere and wonder what all the fuss was about. Try to remember the first time you went with your wife, it's those same feelings but just on your own.

If I were closer I'd go with you (as a straight male, lol), at least we would be able to have a laugh together.

Good luck fella & total admiration for having such a strong relationship that you can do this alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd suggest attending forum or club socials to help build your confidence, then move from there at your own pace.

Good luck

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