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Feeling alone at Christmas

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So after raising my family, they have now all flown the nest and making their own families and I face the prospect of Christmas day alone, something I am not looking forward to at all !

Anyone else had Christmas day alone and any tips to stop me drinking myself into a blubbering mess sat in front of the television?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have they not invited you to theirs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on my own, not my first one alone. Kinda used to it now. No tips, apart from you're not the only one. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be alone..well me and my cat.Its too much travelling for me...and I'm not getting overpriced taxis.See them on the 27th.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Ive spent a few alone, mostly when my other half goes to see parents abroad. Personally I love it but the best advice is not to wallow in it, just have a normal day.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Just me and the cat here as well, I actually love it on my own.

I have heaps of food and drink in. I can get up when I want, eat what and when I want, watch what I want, so my best advise is to try and enjoy it, it's not the end of the world being on your on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get d*unk Enjoy yourself with a glass of champagne and a good movie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just me and the cat here as well, I actually love it on my own.

I have heaps of food and drink in. I can get up when I want, eat what and when I want, watch what I want, so my best advise is to try and enjoy it, it's not the end of the world being on your on "

can i cum doon ur chimney?

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By *assycouple69Couple
over a year ago

stone


"So after raising my family, they have now all flown the nest and making their own families and I face the prospect of Christmas day alone, something I am not looking forward to at all !

Anyone else had Christmas day alone and any tips to stop me drinking myself into a blubbering mess sat in front of the television?"

Ur more than welcome to join us x we are alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well strictly speaking I wont be on my own cos I'll be with family for the 3rd year in a row. But I do miss waking up to somebody special on Christmas day and spoiling them. But hey ho. The rest of the year I enjoy being single. X

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Just me and the cat here as well, I actually love it on my own.

I have heaps of food and drink in. I can get up when I want, eat what and when I want, watch what I want, so my best advise is to try and enjoy it, it's not the end of the world being on your on

can i cum doon ur chimney? "

As long as you don't make a mess

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

ive gone from cooking for 20+ to me and my mum on christmas day. i miss the hustle and bustle of having young kids but hey life goes on ...enjoy the peace xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been on my own 2 year now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have they not invited you to theirs?"
sadly not an option, some are overseas others have work/in-law commitments

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So after raising my family, they have now all flown the nest and making their own families and I face the prospect of Christmas day alone, something I am not looking forward to at all !

Anyone else had Christmas day alone and any tips to stop me drinking myself into a blubbering mess sat in front of the television?"

Be glad you still have your children? Even if they arent with u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a good few Christmas days alone. Tips…think of what you have got rather than what you haven't, find a good film and get lost in it and think of all the trouble you can get yourself into in 2015! xx

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

medway

had last year alone....was excellent...get a day pass to local marriott hotel and go for a swim in morning sauna n jaccuzzi also...plenty of people to chat to. then take a drink in the bar followed by another swim in afternoon!! excellent day and people so friendly!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I spent last Christmas on my own. As I'd been working lots, I was happy to have a lazy day in front of the TV. It was bliss!

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By *uggarbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Looks like there are alot of us on our own. I'm having a pj day with crispy duck pancakes for Xmas dinner and a few drinks watching crapp tv. Bring it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be alone for the first Xmas also....kid's at in-laws this year....gonna be odd I think

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

I'm alone now, except for the dog..

My partner works away and isn't home until end December, my son has a girlie!!!!

Say no more. So I've opened the champagne and in my Christmas pjs x x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm working 12 hours tomorrow wish i was alone

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Oh I forgot, I'm with family tomorrow...dreading it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its our first xmas without kids in over 20 yrs and the mrs is finding it very strange and too quiet. i'm sure we will get used to it though and make our own entertainment

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

Told my partner..."sod it, next year we're away from here".....

He's agreed

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

So many people are on their own at Christmas, some through choice some not so. Lots of threads about this all over various forums.....Happy Christmas to all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame we are not nearer - I am not alone but an hour or two out is always welcomed for the right person.

You have a restful, quiet and well-earned day.

Lots of festive hugs

X

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By *punkyhelmet5Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

Go and volunteer at your local homeless shelter and see them smile when you give them a hot meal and a bed for night. That will leave you feeling very full filling

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By *octorManMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I've had many a Christmas alone. Even with friends I still feel alone. All I try to remember is its just one day and be positive which isn't easy. I'm not in work. I got myself gifts.

I feel better already!

I hope everyone has a good day.

LOL Paul x (for the ladies, manly hug for gents!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im working away from home so alone in a hotel I have invited fabers for a drink this afternoon but no takers

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Go and volunteer at your local homeless shelter and see them smile when you give them a hot meal and a bed for night. That will leave you feeling very full filling "

That's a great idea but remember it's not just Xmas day they need volunteers

Crisis run Day and residential centres in various locations all over the holiday period and are always looking for help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after raising my family, they have now all flown the nest and making their own families and I face the prospect of Christmas day alone, something I am not looking forward to at all !

Anyone else had Christmas day alone and any tips to stop me drinking myself into a blubbering mess sat in front of the television?"

Aww if you get bored, message me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never spent Xmas alone my hart goes out to u people that have too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well so far so good.

I decided to go to work for a few hours this morning, I was dreading the morning the most, now I'm home, nice hot bath with my smelly's and candles

(Christmas present) then a little tipple and some lunch without the prospect of all that washing up lol

Merry Chrismas everyone xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sat watching tv wondering what to do for dinner...no fun on your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well so far so good.

I decided to go to work for a few hours this morning, I was dreading the morning the most, now I'm home, nice hot bath with my smelly's and candles

(Christmas present) then a little tipple and some lunch without the prospect of all that washing up lol

Merry Christmas everyone xxx"

Yay... Good plan...!!

You could always go to the Love Honey sale and indulge yourself.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my mum died last friday...and to be honest feel like utter shite

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"my mum died last friday...and to be honest feel like utter shite"

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. Big (((((hugs)))))

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

Sorry to hear that mate.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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By *1paljungMan
over a year ago

Richmond


"my mum died last friday...and to be honest feel like utter shite"

Best thoughts and wishes for you their pal that's tough. Hope you have someone nearby you can drop into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would any one like to vhat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I too am alone on Christmas Day as usual. Just me and my cat again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"my mum died last friday...and to be honest feel like utter shite"
so sorry mate, sending hugs x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"my mum died last friday...and to be honest feel like utter shite"

My Mum was 87yo on Tuesday and I cannot imagine life without her, though I know one day that time will come.

I feel your pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my mum died last friday...and to be honest feel like utter shite"
my thoughts are with Yer mate

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"So after raising my family, they have now all flown the nest and making their own families and I face the prospect of Christmas day alone, something I am not looking forward to at all !

Anyone else had Christmas day alone and any tips to stop me drinking myself into a blubbering mess sat in front of the television?"

I'm havung my first Christmas alone but a friend of mine has been kind enough to invite me to share the day with her at her parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on my. own for the past 3 years and got use to it

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By *il_MissBMFCWoman
over a year ago

Various Venues Across The UK

It's just another day.. Just celebrating the fact that I'm lucky enough to be in good health, have a roof over my head and food and drink in the fridge..

Here if anybody needs to chat.. And Merry Christmas to you all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should have bought a cat or dog longtime ago as work keeps me away from family for Xmas.Eating alone very boring and drinking alone gets u d*unk easily.just keeping happy tho,chilling on few drinks,movie and lots of calls.

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury


"Should have bought a cat or dog longtime ago as work keeps me away from family for Xmas.Eating alone very boring and drinking alone gets u d*unk easily.just keeping happy tho,chilling on few drinks,movie and lots of calls. "

I know the feeling saw my kids this morning now on my own with a glass of wine maybe next year we should arrange a social and all have some fun

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By *otts_guy13Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Being alone for the holidays are bad, i do not have kids but even when surrounded by people can still feel alone. if anyone in Notts and fancy a drink to not be alone send a message cheer each other up around this season x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my cats loving her can of tuna for xmas lunch..and dinner...and supper

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