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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do woman or couples prefer slimmer guys ? Or am I wasting time trying to lose weight ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who ya gonna call?

Sorry thought it was a Ghostbuster thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not considering losing weight to please others are you? I'm not into slim guys but many are, no one is everyone's type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like slim don't .....I prefer bigger guys

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I will admit I only go for toned guys, but then I am on the petite side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women don't got for 6pack guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you bring this subject up frequently, you obviously have a major complex about your weight. If you want to lose weight then do it for yourself and not because of answers you get on a public forum.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Most women don't got for 6pack guys lol "

Actually a lot do but they need to be more than just a 6 pack. It's all part of a package.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're not considering losing weight to please others are you? I'm not into slim guys but many are, no one is everyone's type. "
no I want to do it for myself first but sometimes u need some thing to stride for if that makes sence .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you bring this subject up frequently, you obviously have a major complex about your weight. If you want to lose weight then do it for yourself and not because of answers you get on a public forum. "

Bloody hell legs !!! Diplomatic as ever !!!

Have you ever thought of joining the diplomatic corp lol

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Do woman or couples prefer slimmer guys ? Or am I wasting time trying to lose weight ? "

If you are trying to lost weight because of strangers on a swinging website, then yes, you are wasting your time.

Do it for you and the benefits it will bring you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women don't got for 6pack guys lol

Actually a lot do but they need to be more than just a 6 pack. It's all part of a package. "

Good point and yes as the whole package.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you want to lose weight anyway, and Fab gives you the motivation to stick to it, then go for it!

Remember, lose half a stone and you notice the difference. Lose a stone and other people will notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do woman or couples prefer slimmer guys ? Or am I wasting time trying to lose weight ?

If you are trying to lost weight because of strangers on a swinging website, then yes, you are wasting your time.

Do it for you and the benefits it will bring you.i just want to look in mirror and not see some fat bloke looking back at me . Don't help that I look like a panda at min "

Well if that's the case, only you can make the change. Nobody here can do it for you. Stop talking about it and do it. Not tomorrow, or next week, or next month. Start now, change has to be committed to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do woman or couples prefer slimmer guys ? Or am I wasting time trying to lose weight ?

If you are trying to lost weight because of strangers on a swinging website, then yes, you are wasting your time.

Do it for you and the benefits it will bring you.i just want to look in mirror and not see some fat bloke looking back at me . Don't help that I look like a panda at min

Well if that's the case, only you can make the change. Nobody here can do it for you. Stop talking about it and do it. Not tomorrow, or next week, or next month. Start now, change has to be committed to."

good point I shouldn't have put post up .

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Do woman or couples prefer slimmer guys ? Or am I wasting time trying to lose weight ? "

Some do, some don't, same as some prefer tall/small, blonde/dark, WE/average, cut/uncut blah blah blah.

Lose weight because you want to not for anyone else.

I've just dropped 30lbs in 3.5months. Would I shovel cake in till I gained it all back if all the blokes on here said they thought I looked better bigger. Would I hell!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you bring this subject up frequently, you obviously have a major complex about your weight. If you want to lose weight then do it for yourself and not because of answers you get on a public forum. "

Was thinking déjà vu when clicked on.

Subtle point well done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women don't got for 6pack guys lol "

Why do you always say this....?? Every single woman I know loves a six pack....including my lesbian friend, her girlfriend has one.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If you are doing it to get more action, you may be disappointed. If you want to do it for yourself to feel better and more confident, then go for it.

I honestly got more offers when I was much bigger. I'm not sure if guys think some bigger girls are easier, or if there are loads of big lady admirers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women don't got for 6pack guys lol

Why do you always say this....?? Every single woman I know loves a six pack....including my lesbian friend, her girlfriend has one."

That's good they are, yeah I say it cos when emailing few they say sorry not into gym guys kinda thing, that's why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women don't got for 6pack guys lol

Why do you always say this....?? Every single woman I know loves a six pack....including my lesbian friend, her girlfriend has one.That's good they are, yeah I say it cos when emailing few they say sorry not into gym guys kinda thing, that's why."

They're letting you down gently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women don't got for 6pack guys lol

Why do you always say this....?? Every single woman I know loves a six pack....including my lesbian friend, her girlfriend has one.That's good they are, yeah I say it cos when emailing few they say sorry not into gym guys kinda thing, that's why.

They're letting you down gently!"

lol yes I guessthat's a better approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you bring this subject up frequently, you obviously have a major complex about your weight. If you want to lose weight then do it for yourself and not because of answers you get on a public forum.

Bloody hell legs !!! Diplomatic as ever !!!

Have you ever thought of joining the diplomatic corp lol "

She does raise a very valid point however

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women don't got for 6pack guys lol "

i go for muscles but i would say you are slim,not big gym type that i like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women don't got for 6pack guys lol

i go for muscles but i would say you are slim,not big gym type that i like.

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I am 180lbs, not that slim lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined here with the hope of only meeting tall dark handsome men, slim too. I actually only ever met two guys who fitted that description, well most of it anyway. I've met mainly bigger guy's so just be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you dont look particularly muscular in your pics.slim and not really lean.i love the lean ripped look of bodybuilders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you dont look particularly muscular in your pics.slim and not really lean.i love the lean ripped look of bodybuilders. "
I know. I got the body like van dam, peter andre types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

van damme? are you serious?

he was a lot biggers and he was ripped,sorry but you are not van damme

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"van damme? are you serious?

he was a lot biggers and he was ripped,sorry but you are not van damme"

hugh jackman shape a good one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"van damme? are you serious?

he was a lot biggers and he was ripped,sorry but you are not van damme"

I am and I don't need you telling me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering how long does it take go muscle up ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"van damme? are you serious?

he was a lot biggers and he was ripped,sorry but you are not van dammeI am and I don't need you telling me. "

as long as you think you are,and you keep posting it on every thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"van damme? are you serious?

he was a lot biggers and he was ripped,sorry but you are not van dammeI am and I don't need you telling me.

as long as you think you are,and you keep posting it on every thread "

Thanks and will keep doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do woman or couples prefer slimmer guys ? Or am I wasting time trying to lose weight ? "

Some prefer slim guys, some prefer muscular ones, some prefer chubby ones, some prefer tall ones, some prefer short ones, some prefer beardy ones, some prefer shaved all over...most though, will go for a guy who has a personality. As long as you can make girls laugh, you're off to a great start.

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs


"Do woman or couples prefer slimmer guys ? Or am I wasting time trying to lose weight ? "

I prefer tall - slim - young men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're only wasting your time if you lose weight for others, only ever change anything about yourself for yourself.

weight loss is a hard slog, pounds can be shed easily enough at first but maintaining that loss involves a change in your lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do woman or couples prefer slimmer guys ? Or am I wasting time trying to lose weight ?

I prefer tall - slim - young men "

im tall so one out off three lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've lost just over 7 1/2 stone this year but haven't done it to make myself more attractive to guys but to make me healthier and feel better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've lost just over 7 1/2 stone this year but haven't done it to make myself more attractive to guys but to make me healthier and feel better

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do u feel more confidant ? X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Is van dam that fat bastard dahn the chippie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do woman or couples prefer slimmer guys ? Or am I wasting time trying to lose weight ?

Some prefer slim guys, some prefer muscular ones, some prefer chubby ones, some prefer tall ones, some prefer short ones, some prefer beardy ones, some prefer shaved all over...most though, will go for a guy who has a personality. As long as you can make girls laugh, you're off to a great start. "

I have met a 5'6" guy, a little beardy, cuddly with long fairish hair. best of all world's

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I've lost just over 7 1/2 stone this year but haven't done it to make myself more attractive to guys but to make me healthier and feel better

do u feel more confidant ? X"

good question, I've always been a confident person but apparently I carry myself completely different now also I like the fact that I can wear the clothes I want. Still got a good way to go but if feeling good about myself is the same as feeling confident then yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've lost just over 7 1/2 stone this year but haven't done it to make myself more attractive to guys but to make me healthier and feel better

do u feel more confidant ? Xgood question, I've always been a confident person but apparently I carry myself completely different now also I like the fact that I can wear the clothes I want. Still got a good way to go but if feeling good about myself is the same as feeling confident then yes.

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i want to do it to feel more confidant , I think if u feel more confidant people can pick up on that and u can have more fun . And more sex lol . Guess it's different for everyone

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I've lost just over 7 1/2 stone this year but haven't done it to make myself more attractive to guys but to make me healthier and feel better

do u feel more confidant ? Xgood question, I've always been a confident person but apparently I carry myself completely different now also I like the fact that I can wear the clothes I want. Still got a good way to go but if feeling good about myself is the same as feeling confident then yes.

i want to do it to feel more confidant , I think if u feel more confidant people can pick up on that and u can have more fun . And more sex lol . Guess it's different for everyone "

I do think people are attracted to confidence, but people are attracted to all sorts of build. I've always roughly had the same amount of messages whatever size I've been

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've lost just over 7 1/2 stone this year but haven't done it to make myself more attractive to guys but to make me healthier and feel better

do u feel more confidant ? Xgood question, I've always been a confident person but apparently I carry myself completely different now also I like the fact that I can wear the clothes I want. Still got a good way to go but if feeling good about myself is the same as feeling confident then yes.

i want to do it to feel more confidant , I think if u feel more confidant people can pick up on that and u can have more fun . And more sex lol . Guess it's different for everyone I do think people are attracted to confidence, but people are attracted to all sorts of build. I've always roughly had the same amount of messages whatever size I've been

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think I need to do it for me plus excercise is good for me mentally to clears my head , might sound mad but it works

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I've lost just over 7 1/2 stone this year but haven't done it to make myself more attractive to guys but to make me healthier and feel better

do u feel more confidant ? Xgood question, I've always been a confident person but apparently I carry myself completely different now also I like the fact that I can wear the clothes I want. Still got a good way to go but if feeling good about myself is the same as feeling confident then yes.

i want to do it to feel more confidant , I think if u feel more confidant people can pick up on that and u can have more fun . And more sex lol . Guess it's different for everyone I do think people are attracted to confidence, but people are attracted to all sorts of build. I've always roughly had the same amount of messages whatever size I've been

think I need to do it for me plus excercise is good for me mentally to clears my head , might sound mad but it works "

good luck, I've got another 3 1/2 stone to go yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do woman or couples prefer slimmer guys ? Or am I wasting time trying to lose weight ?

Some prefer slim guys, some prefer muscular ones, some prefer chubby ones, some prefer tall ones, some prefer short ones, some prefer beardy ones, some prefer shaved all over...most though, will go for a guy who has a personality. As long as you can make girls laugh, you're off to a great start.

I have met a 5'6" guy, a little beardy, cuddly with long fairish hair. best of all world's "

Sounds a little like me, except I'm more like a balding hobbit hehe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are trying to lost weight because of strangers on a swinging website, then yes, you are wasting your time."
I want to lose weight with a stranger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've lost just over 7 1/2 stone this year but haven't done it to make myself more attractive to guys but to make me healthier and feel better

do u feel more confidant ? Xgood question, I've always been a confident person but apparently I carry myself completely different now also I like the fact that I can wear the clothes I want. Still got a good way to go but if feeling good about myself is the same as feeling confident then yes.

i want to do it to feel more confidant , I think if u feel more confidant people can pick up on that and u can have more fun . And more sex lol . Guess it's different for everyone I do think people are attracted to confidence, but people are attracted to all sorts of build. I've always roughly had the same amount of messages whatever size I've been

think I need to do it for me plus excercise is good for me mentally to clears my head , might sound mad but it works good luck, I've got another 3 1/2 stone to go yet

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well u look sexy to me x have nice Xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim guys...what an intriguing topic on this site, though I hesitate to use the word at all given so many people describing themselves as "curvy"

Is that a euphamism, or just a tad more polite than the often more appropriate or honest F word...? Yes, some people prefer bigger partners, and we all respect the right of individuals etc etc

BUT a lot on here simply use this as an excuse to venture little further than the fridge as an exercise routine......

Thank you, rant over.

Al. VERY fit, Ipswich. xx

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs


"I've lost just over 7 1/2 stone this year but haven't done it to make myself more attractive to guys but to make me healthier and feel better

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Fantastic well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim guys...what an intriguing topic on this site, though I hesitate to use the word at all given so many people describing themselves as "curvy"

Is that a euphemism, or just a tad more polite than the often more appropriate or honest F word?"

I have gone from a size 10 to a size 12 this year. For good reasons.

I have changed my body type on here from average to curvy.

So, what are you going to say to me? A curvy size 12 or a fat size 12?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Slim guys...what an intriguing topic on this site, though I hesitate to use the word at all given so many people describing themselves as "curvy"

Is that a euphemism, or just a tad more polite than the often more appropriate or honest F word?I have gone from a size 10 to a size 12 this year. For good reasons.

I have changed my body type on here from average to curvy.

So, what are you going to say to me? A curvy size 12 or a fat size 12?"

curvy to me meens shapely in a very sexy way a size 12 ain't fat . It's very Shapley x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Slim guys...what an intriguing topic on this site, though I hesitate to use the word at all given so many people describing themselves as "curvy"

Is that a euphamism, or just a tad more polite than the often more appropriate or honest F word...? Yes, some people prefer bigger partners, and we all respect the right of individuals etc etc

BUT a lot on here simply use this as an excuse to venture little further than the fridge as an exercise routine......

Thank you, rant over.

Al. VERY fit, Ipswich. xx

"

Can I ask how you've morphed your hand onto your cock in your photo? It's looks very weird!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do woman or couples prefer slimmer guys ? Or am I wasting time trying to lose weight ? "

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God, I hope so Otherwise I've no chance on Fab .... Seriously though its a personal preference, and I've been doing ok. Merry Christmas all, and may 2015 be as much swinging fun as 2014 has been

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

I prefer slimmer guys because I'm a little round pudding and can't be arsed with the huffing and puffing involved when meeting big round puddings lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"curvy to me meens shapely in a very sexy way a size 12 ain't fat . It's very Shapley x "
thanks Greg, my question was directed at Aleastanglia. So I probably should have specifed that it was his post I qouted in my question.

;-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"curvy to me meens shapely in a very sexy way a size 12 ain't fat . It's very Shapley x thanks Greg, my question was directed at Aleastanglia. So I probably should have specifed that it was his post I qouted in my question.

;-)"

ups soz have good Xmas x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer slimmer guys because I'm a little round pudding and can't be arsed with the huffing and puffing involved when meeting big round puddings lol "
pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id much prefer someone a little over weight than a little under weight.....

Florence x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm apple shap wich isn't very good health wise so dr say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm apple shap wich isn't very good health wise so dr say "

Well diet then........

Not for the people of Fab, not for your looks, but for your health!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The honest truth is that if you get into shape it won't hurt your chances with women.

It will improve your health and if you chose a group activity like cycling or football then you might also have a little fun.

Although by losing weight don't expect it to transform your chances with women.

A mate of mine lost about 5 stone and commented to me one day, I can't understand it I've lost all this weight but I still can't get a women.

To which I replyed, your not fat anymore buddy but you are still ugly

Ah boys we are all bastards

Anyway good luck with what ever you decide

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm apple shap wich isn't very good health wise so dr say

Well diet then........

Not for the people of Fab, not for your looks, but for your health!!!!"

i need to plus got a ski hol coming up in newyear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm apple shap wich isn't very good health wise so dr say

Well diet then........

Not for the people of Fab, not for your looks, but for your health!!!!i need to plus got a ski hol coming up in newyear "

Yes and you bare a lot of skin in those

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