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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me again.

How come I do not appeal to so many.

I know you lot can be brutal so

What am i doing wrong

Does my face not fit?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You've had 6 meets in 2 months. Maybe the only problem is your expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me again.

How come I do not appeal to so many.

I know you lot can be brutal so

What am i doing wrong

Does my face not fit? "

you know 6 meets in 2 months is good going for a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you just had 4 meets in the last 6 weeks im guessing your greedy or yet another attention seeker

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Me again.

How come I do not appeal to so many.

I know you lot can be brutal so

What am i doing wrong

Does my face not fit? "

How many threads, variations on the same theme are you going to start?

You're coming across desperate and I'm sure that's not your intent.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"As you just had 4 meets in the last 6 weeks im guessing your greedy or yet another attention seeker"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No not desperate.

So many sent messages are left unread.

Is it ok to try again.

Maybe in convo with others?

So many profiles say they are looking for a regular fb.

That's wat I want to.

But just get ignored

Is the profile picture really the decider?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at me. Please won't somebody look at me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That pic of you laying on the bed with your hat on your cock? ditch it. the b&w pic with your hat, make it your avatar, it's a keeper!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've had 6 meets in 2 months. Maybe the only problem is your expectations. "

I think he's using these posts as an ad to drum up some business by getting people to read his profile

6 meets? It must be working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace the fact that you the majority of people are not likely to fancy you.

Now that's not a suggestion that you're ugly or any other insult, it's just how it is. Stop looking at your sent mailbox and worry about what you can control, ie.......your replies you do get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

another attention seeking thread hey LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not attention seeking at all.

I have used tge forums for advice and take it all on board.

Moat of you forum Folk have been in the scene for a while.

You know wat appeals

And the answers to

What women want.

The majority of forum users live miles away so no I'm not using this as a place to advertise, i'm here for useful and some unuseful criticism.

Don't be haters just for asking advice.

After all isn't this wat forums are for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So many profiles say they are looking for a regular fb.

That's wat I want to.

But just get ignored

Is the profile picture really the decider? "

Finding a friend with benefits isnt easy x

But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

So many profiles say they are looking for a regular fb.

That's wat I want to.

But just get ignored

Is the profile picture really the decider?

Finding a friend with benefits isnt easy x

But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same. "

I've not really got the wow factor. People (women)like me the more they spend time with me.

Whats called a grower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not attention seeking at all.

I have used tge forums for advice and take it all on board.

Moat of you forum Folk have been in the scene for a while.

You know wat appeals

And the answers to

What women want.

The majority of forum users live miles away so no I'm not using this as a place to advertise, i'm here for useful and some unuseful criticism.

Don't be haters just for asking advice.

After all isn't this wat forums are for?

"

same type of threads you post all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same.

This"

Who said I can't

Just real word is vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same.

This

Who said I can't

Just real word is vanilla "

Not at all

Noone is truly vanilla

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same.

This

Who said I can't

Just real word is vanilla

Not at all

Noone is truly vanilla "

In my opinion and the ladies I've dated.

In the real world ladies want commitment and monogamy

I want a friend for good sex no dramas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes everyone lives to far away, it boils down to distance. I find it strange that on internet dating you will hardly never find one that is 2min from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Six verifications in two months.That's not far from averaging 1 week a meet. Christ knows how many you could get if you weren't so negative. Some single guys on here go months without a look in. Keep doing what your doing Casanova. Got any tips for us mere mortals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same.

In my opinion and the ladies I've dated.

In the real world ladies want commitment and monogamy

I want a friend for good sex no dramas

"

You still need to give a little and as for no dramas.......I think you enjoy a little drama here

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land


"Me again.

How come I do not appeal to so many.

I know you lot can be brutal so

What am i doing wrong

Does my face not fit? "

Your pictures appeal to gay/bi men not women. Sorry xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But as I've often read here.... If you can't pull in the vanilla world the fab world will be the same.

In my opinion and the ladies I've dated.

In the real world ladies want commitment and monogamy

I want a friend for good sex no dramas

You still need to give a little and as for no dramas.......I think you enjoy a little drama here "

I don't see the forums as dramas. Some friendly some sarcastic. I dont take it to heart x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me again.

How come I do not appeal to so many.

I know you lot can be brutal so

What am i doing wrong

Does my face not fit?

Your pictures appeal to gay/bi men not women. Sorry xx"

So wat pictures do you prefer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face photos that are clear. .

thats all I ask for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not desperate.

So many sent messages are left unread.

Is it ok to try again.

Maybe in convo with others?

So many profiles say they are looking for a regular fb.

That's wat I want to.

But just get ignored

Is the profile picture really the decider? "

You have had six meets. Have you asked them if they would like to be FB's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

please stop writing 'wat'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just an observation, and I'm not a "hater"...

You do realise it is Christmas?

People are with family, friends, kids are off school etc etc.

You have had a bloody good two months compared to others. Stop sounding so needy with the what is up with me thread, start planning for the New Year.

Just a thought and probably not an original one...

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Me again.

How come I do not appeal to so many.

I know you lot can be brutal so

What am i doing wrong

Does my face not fit? "

. At your last meet was on the 19 th , and you have had various meets in the last six weeks ,what is the key purpose of this thread . How many meets are you expecting?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"please stop writing 'wat'!"

Oh thank you for saying it. I was dying to say something but didn't want to be a typing nazi.

But any guy who repeatedly types wat would put me off meeting, or chatting any further. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at me. Please won't somebody look at me!!! "

Ive looked at u...quite a few times!! Haaaa)

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

for someone who has had 6 meets in two months i do have to ask...

what the bejesus were your expectations if that amount of meets in such a small space of time and you are still grumbling?

i bet 99% of men on the site would be cock-a-hoop to be in your position.....

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Well 7 people seem to like your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

you know 6 meets in 2 months is good going for a single guy "

Is it?

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"No not desperate.

So many sent messages are left unread.

Is it ok to try again.

Maybe in convo with others?

So many profiles say they are looking for a regular fb.

That's wat I want to.

But just get ignored

Is the profile picture really the decider? "

if it was the decider you wouldn't of had any meets. Think this has come across wrong but I'm tired lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've had 6 meets in 2 months. Maybe the only problem is your expectations. "

Or a feeble look at me thread

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

You have had 4 meets on two months? Thats not at all bad, so I don't get what your problem is......

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