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By *aptain.Hook OP   Man
over a year ago

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Why is it so hard to find a mature woman to take advantage of a young guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because we'd prefer somebody of our own age....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a mature woman to take advantage of a young guy?"

Maybe because older, more experienced women like their men to be a bit more subtle? Your profile is a bit 'bull in a china shop'.

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By *aptain.Hook OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Maybe because we'd prefer somebody of our own age....!

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There are some exceptions. I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe because we'd prefer somebody of our own age....!

There are some exceptions. I hope "

Yes there are. Not all older women look for men their own age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the 'script' about at the end of your profile?

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By *aptain.Hook OP   Man
over a year ago

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"What's the 'script' about at the end of your profile?"

It's a DMCA badge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just have to keep looking. Milton Keynes is quite large,there must be one woman who fits your description

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you ask for mature woman but say on profile age is not a prblem

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By *aptain.Hook OP   Man
over a year ago

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"you ask for mature woman but say on profile age is not a prblem "

It's not. For now I am looking for cougars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you ask for mature woman but say on profile age is not a prblem

It's not. For now I am looking for cougars"

You'll find a lot of women don't like those terms either. Try being less like a tabloid newspaper or TV show and be a bit more realistic.

Try not to focus on the age, and try not to give it a label - people are just people, age is meaningless.

Cougar, MILF etc just makes you look like a desperate teenager.

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By *aptain.Hook OP   Man
over a year ago

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"you ask for mature woman but say on profile age is not a prblem

It's not. For now I am looking for cougars

You'll find a lot of women don't like those terms either. Try being less like a tabloid newspaper or TV show and be a bit more realistic.

Try not to focus on the age, and try not to give it a label - people are just people, age is meaningless.

Cougar, MILF etc just makes you look like a desperate teenager."

I correct myself. I'm looking for experienced women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you ask for mature woman but say on profile age is not a prblem "

You shouldn't read what people put on profiles as gospel. It's just guidelines as far as I'm concerned. I change who I'm looking for constantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other text at end of profile....the Sydney University nonsense. Also shows a massive lack of awareness....if you are following advice and "fixing" your profile....then bin this pointless guff too!

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By *rince Charming 69Man
over a year ago

Loughborough

Because your profile is rubbish!

Effort in = rewards out........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the 'script' about at the end of your profile?

It's a DMCA badge."
ok, but what's that?

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By *aptain.Hook OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Why is it so hard to find a mature woman to take advantage of a young guy?

Maybe because older, more experienced women like their men to be a bit more subtle? Your profile is a bit 'bull in a china shop'."

How about now?

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Why is it so hard to find a mature woman to take advantage of a young guy?"

I can't tell you are looking for a mature lady from your profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would prefer a more mature woman in most cases. I like to have the emotional connection too, which is more difficult to achieve with younger women.

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By *aptain.Hook OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Why is it so hard to find a mature woman to take advantage of a young guy?

I can't tell you are looking for a mature lady from your profile...

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That's because I changed my profile text

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By *aptain.Hook OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Personally I would prefer a more mature woman in most cases. I like to have the emotional connection too, which is more difficult to achieve with younger women."

I agree with you. Plus they know what they want.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Personally I would prefer a more mature woman in most cases. I like to have the emotional connection too, which is more difficult to achieve with younger women.

I agree with you. Plus they know what they want."

This is a huge assumption. I think most women that are actively seeking sex on a swinging site have a good idea of what they want their age isn't a factor in that. As a mature woman myself I find that what I wanted when I first started swinging is different to what I want now.

If you mean that a mature woman will go about getting what she wants with confidence and less drama and is less likely to behave differently with men and

women then I'd agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you mean that a mature woman will go about getting what she wants with confidence and less drama and is less likely to behave differently with men and

women then I'd agree. "

I think that's the point indeed.

Talking about your preferences, what did it evolved into as you say? And, is it a common evolution? If you don't mind telling of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also wanted a mature woman, but now I am to old for them lol

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Personally I would prefer a more mature woman in most cases. I like to have the emotional connection too, which is more difficult to achieve with younger women.

I agree with you. Plus they know what they want."

Dont think you should generalise.. If it is experience you want there are ladies that will amuse you for payment

How would your emotional cennection come to play.. would you take an older wonen out to wine and dine.. go on holidays to create this emotional connection. Or just expect her to get a room and you sneak in when no one is looking..

How old is older for you BTW.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you mean that a mature woman will go about getting what she wants with confidence and less drama and is less likely to behave differently with men and

women then I'd agree.

I think that's the point indeed.

Talking about your preferences, what did it evolved into as you say? And, is it a common evolution? If you don't mind telling of course"

I don't know if it's a common evolution.

I don't think it's stopped evolving, it's an ongoing thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking about your preferences, what did it evolved into as you say? And, is it a common evolution? If you don't mind telling of course"


"I don't know if it's a common evolution.

I don't think it's stopped evolving, it's an ongoing thing

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Hmm, it's turning into a scientific discussion, don't you think?

But seriously, I wonder if there is a desire of more and more different experiences over time, or if just meeting good, nice, appropriate people for quality time together always works.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Talking about your preferences, what did it evolved into as you say? And, is it a common evolution? If you don't mind telling of course

I don't know if it's a common evolution.

I don't think it's stopped evolving, it's an ongoing thing

Hmm, it's turning into a scientific discussion, don't you think?

But seriously, I wonder if there is a desire of more and more different experiences over time, or if just meeting good, nice, appropriate people for quality time together always works."

Are the two mutually exclusive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are the two mutually exclusive?"

Well said! Definintely not. Looks like science is pretty useless to explain lust and erotica... We should do a PhD together!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Are the two mutually exclusive?

Well said! Definintely not. Looks like science is pretty useless to explain lust and erotica... We should do a PhD together!"

I just think that erotic experiences cover so much and can involve so many things other than straightforward sex that trying to explain, define or label is pointless. We both think that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think that erotic experiences cover so much and can involve so many things other than straightforward sex that trying to explain, define or label is pointless. We both think that "

We surely do! Just plain sex is never interesting to me. There is so much more in foreplay - which is like a big box of treasures and sweets, wrapped individually and ready for tucking in... Besides, a classy woman is there to be worshipped and adored, that's what I think.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Keep looking, theres some one out there for every one,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe because we'd prefer somebody of our own age....!

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well said

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