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By *ancyachatnow OP   Man
over a year ago

Naas

I had a couple profile with my wife and was offered at least 100 meets a week ??

We had a ball

She has retired for a few Months so I set up a Single Male profile

Shit ........ Its like I hit a wall

You've got to do all the running

It seems Irish Women are just looking for pen pals as 50% of there profiles say no meeting ????

The UK scene seems to be swinging crazy , I need to relocate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort in.......rewards out..... A notion to think about.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If the above is true, why is your profile so poor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Effort in.......rewards out..... A notion to think about."

Though the amount of effort you have to put in as a single male is considerably higher than any other profile type.

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

You can have the best profile but if you aren't attractive you won't get a meet ( as a single male)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so your wife has retired from the scene?... would she move to the UK too?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

hmmmm......

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Major readjustment of expectations and attitude Is required here. ..or you could relocate, but can't see that fixing your problem..

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

Try getting a meet if you are married and on here alone. Virtually impossible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyway in seriousness..

when you recieved lots of attention as a couple..I bet you barely looked at the single males mailing who didnt have pics on their profile...

its not hard to work out, if you imagine yourself as the receiver of mails...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you had so much fun as a couple, does that really make you a 'swinging virgin'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are the 'customers' the blokes are the shops, you have to convince them to shop at yours

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Women are the 'customers' the blokes are the shops, you have to convince them to shop at yours "

that is probably quite true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are the 'customers' the blokes are the shops, you have to convince them to shop at yours

that is probably quite true "

Its very much a buyers market on here, single male supply VASTLY outweighs the demand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you had so much fun as a couple, does that really make you a 'swinging virgin'? "

I wondered this too!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have always found it easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you had so much fun as a couple, does that really make you a 'swinging virgin'?

I wondered this too!"

I sorta took it as : had lots of offers..never met anyone.

OP, you should state that you are married and have consent..plus you say you can accom..I find it a bit strange the couples profile disappeared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, you should state that you are married and have consent..plus you say you can accom..I find it a bit strange the couples profile disappeared "

does seem a bit strange!

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By *az_1976Man
over a year ago

Peterborough/Huntingdon

It's not easy I admit but still fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, you should state that you are married and have consent..plus you say you can accom..I find it a bit strange the couples profile disappeared

does seem a bit strange! "

Also says had a couple profile with wife, but was told about fab from a friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just lower your standards! Go ugly early, you don't look at the mantle piece while you're stoking the fire!

Tell them they have an amazing personality and those drawers will drop, give them some sort of bs about why you don't want to see them again, and job done! Why do you think clubs have bbw nights and not stunning leggy blond nights?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have always found it easy"

It's not difficult to get meets from fab, be they social or sexual. A good profile with interesting and informative text and a variety of photos, lets people think 'yeah' instead of 'nah'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always found it easy

It's not difficult to get meets from fab, be they social or sexual. A good profile with interesting and informative text and a variety of photos, lets people think 'yeah' instead of 'nah' "

nah...but thanks for trying

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we venture to deceive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just lower your standards! Go ugly early, you don't look at the mantle piece while you're stoking the fire!

Tell them they have an amazing personality and those drawers will drop, give them some sort of bs about why you don't want to see them again, and job done! Why do you think clubs have bbw nights and not stunning leggy blond nights?! "

"Don't look at the mantelpiece whilst stoking the fire" ha ha ha ha! Classic!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Just lower your standards! Go ugly early, you don't look at the mantle piece while you're stoking the fire!

Tell them they have an amazing personality and those drawers will drop, give them some sort of bs about why you don't want to see them again, and job done! Why do you think clubs have bbw nights and not stunning leggy blond nights?! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So a swinging virgin but you did it for ages with your wife and "your friend" told you about the site but you've been here for ages on a couples profile? If you had been on this site before then you should know that profiles with no pics get nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just lower your standards! Go ugly early, you don't look at the mantle piece while you're stoking the fire!

Tell them they have an amazing personality and those drawers will drop, give them some sort of bs about why you don't want to see them again, and job done! Why do you think clubs have bbw nights and not stunning leggy blond nights?! "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have always found it easy

It's not difficult to get meets from fab, be they social or sexual. A good profile with interesting and informative text and a variety of photos, lets people think 'yeah' instead of 'nah'

nah...but thanks for trying "

Win some, lose some....

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

the clue's in the name, " fab swingers" why not try a dating site, then return as a couple and back to the good old days. connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The successful guys are enjoying this site to its full. Getting meets, being sociable, going to clubs. Whilst the whiny 'fancy a fuck'/no effort but I expect women to fall at their feet' guys continue to put up posts like this. I know who I'd rather meet!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Some men have it hard on here... Others seem to do ok.

There will be common traits for both the successful and the not so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The successful guys are enjoying this site to its full. Getting meets, being sociable, going to clubs. Whilst the whiny 'fancy a fuck'/no effort but I expect women to fall at their feet' guys continue to put up posts like this. I know who I'd rather meet!"
Nice one. See Yer tonight. Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Player.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The successful guys are enjoying this site to its full. Getting meets, being sociable, going to clubs. Whilst the whiny 'fancy a fuck'/no effort but I expect women to fall at their feet' guys continue to put up posts like this. I know who I'd rather meet! Nice one. See Yer tonight. Mwah "

Happy Christmas Tosh. Go on have a little whine - it's Christmas (ooooo see what I did there lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that little green arrow great

Two days ago he had been on here for 3 years and never had a message.......how things change, it's almost like he is not telling the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The successful guys are enjoying this site to its full. Getting meets, being sociable, going to clubs. Whilst the whiny 'fancy a fuck'/no effort but I expect women to fall at their feet' guys continue to put up posts like this. I know who I'd rather meet! Nice one. See Yer tonight. Mwah

Happy Christmas Tosh. Go on have a little whine - it's Christmas (ooooo see what I did there lol)"
happy Xmas hun. I do like a little wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't that little green arrow great

Two days ago he had been on here for 3 years and never had a message.......how things change, it's almost like he is not telling the truth "

that was another profile lololol..

he only commented on that thread...

but he did point out the guy hadnt acted upon advice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't that little green arrow great

Two days ago he had been on here for 3 years and never had a message.......how things change, it's almost like he is not telling the truth "

Whoops wrong green arrow

Never post hung over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you serious. I can't keep up with my inbox, and the amount of ladies that send me unsolicited pics of their private parts is shocking. Sometimes I feel like a piece of meat. It's so bloody frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just lower your standards! Go ugly early, you don't look at the mantle piece while you're stoking the fire!

Tell them they have an amazing personality and those drawers will drop, give them some sort of bs about why you don't want to see them again, and job done! Why do you think clubs have bbw nights and not stunning leggy blond nights?! "

Swinging sites... making ugly women big headed since 1999.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Swinging sites... making ugly women big headed since 1999. "

Oh never thought of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just lower your standards! Go ugly early, you don't look at the mantle piece while you're stoking the fire!

Tell them they have an amazing personality and those drawers will drop, give them some sort of bs about why you don't want to see them again, and job done! Why do you think clubs have bbw nights and not stunning leggy blond nights?!

Swinging sites... making ugly women big headed since 1999. "

I was big headed way before 1999 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just lower your standards! Go ugly early, you don't look at the mantle piece while you're stoking the fire!

Tell them they have an amazing personality and those drawers will drop, give them some sort of bs about why you don't want to see them again, and job done! Why do you think clubs have bbw nights and not stunning leggy blond nights?!

Swinging sites... making ugly women big headed since 1999.

I was big headed way before 1999 lol"

But you're not ugly.

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