FabSwingers.com forum: FAO bi women

By *ady Lick OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Im not sure if I've posted this in the right section but.....I came on this site primarily to meet like minded sexy bi women. Im not having much luck. Are there any women reading this that actually have successful ff meets and if so what do you think I'm doing wrong?

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not sure if I've posted this in the right section but.....I came on this site primarily to meet like minded sexy bi women. Im not having much luck. Are there any women reading this that actually have successful ff meets and if so what do you think I'm doing wrong?

Thanks in advance

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That's right, its almost impossible to find a woman here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks in advance

The male fb..."might" want to be involved at some point in the future...Most single bi females I know just roll their eyes and move on at that point...it's just way too familiar a scenario...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks in advance

Women do exist like you are looking for. Keep persevering. Try the chat rooms

Char xx

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By *ady Lick OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Thanks

Maybe I should put the word 'might' in caps or just remove that bit altogether. Lol xx

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Why not just take it out. If you want to meet as a single female first. Then whenever you feel it's right in the future if you do happen to find a regular female friend to play with you can bring it up then.

I'd think by the time a little trust has developed it would be easier to bring that up and may even get a fairer consideration?

That's all a complete guess btw lol. Good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I know a bi lady. She is delightful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks

Maybe I should put the word 'might' in caps or just remove that bit altogether. Lol xx

You need to be clear. Is he expecting to join you or will you be meeting 1:1 with the women you're looking to meet...so many female profiles have a male buddy who comes out of the woodwork as soon as anyone shows interest...

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By *ady Lick OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Right I've taken a few bits out now. Hopefully that will make a difference and I can start singing "Here come the girls".....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks in advance

The male fb..."might" want to be involved at some point in the future...Most single bi females I know just roll their eyes and move on at that point...it's just way too familiar a scenario..."

Yep. The profile was great up until that point. As a single fem who meets both fems and couples I like to know what I'm getting from the beginning. Hate the ......do you mind if my FB joins in. Well yeh actually cos id go for a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks in advance

Finding genuine bi female either as a single it within a couple has been a challenge. We have been lucky on only a couple of occasions. Someone in this thread mentions male partners wanting involvement but even if the males does not and it's made clear that is the case still it's off putting.

May be club bi nights could be the way forward.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Right I've taken a few bits out now. Hopefully that will make a difference and I can start singing "Here come the girls".....lol

Works for us

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By *ittle Miss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Suffolk UK

Single bi fem here.... dont go out of my way to meet other single women. Prefer to meet a couple with bi-fem and all three play together. Ive met a lovely couple and we play quite regularly as ff, fm and ffm...

Im not one for meeting a couple where the male 'is present and will watch, maybe join in...' not one for putting on an ff show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks

Maybe I should put the word 'might' in caps or just remove that bit altogether. Lol xx

There's way too many of the above! Your profile reads much better now you've taken the fb out, but I'd still need to confirm that he wouldn't be present or snuck in at the last minute. I enjoy meeting couples, but when I'm meeting a single bi fem, then that's exactly what I'm expecting.

Good luck. x

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By *lackbirdtimestwoWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I'm a bi female whose had successful FF meets in the past, I would say have a telephone conversation as soon as, that builds trust, but the same rules aply as meeting anyone, ( for me in my experience) I'm usually just as nervous meeting a single woman as meeting a couple or a single guy,, perseverance is key and patience, I like lots of chats on kik or text as well as chatting before meeting,, as a single girl safety is paramount xxx good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with what's been said. I meet couples and I meet single bi fems but I want to make that choice from the outset. If he's going to be involved at all I advise you to get a couples profile so girls can check you both out. A single profile should be just that, the profile of a single.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

Have to ask why no gay women ? If its a ff meet then surely it wont matter too much ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, all your meet veris are from men but your preferance is bi females? And the alarm bells do go off as soon as you mention your male fb

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

I have chatted to this lady for some time and can confirm that her frustration at the lack of ladies is palpable.

She speaks of women so sexily I know she would be a great and sexy partner if any would like to meet her

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Thanks in advance

The male fb..."might" want to be involved at some point in the future...Most single bi females I know just roll their eyes and move on at that point...it's just way too familiar a scenario...

I agree with this as the old "can my male friend join in?" has popped up too many times in my experience for me not to raise my eyebrows at the fb part.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I have chatted to this lady for some time and can confirm that her frustration at the lack of ladies is palpable.

She speaks of women so sexily I know she would be a great and sexy partner if any would like to meet her

Are you her fb?

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

Perseverance is a virtue.

Your profile reads well, but what would make me think twice is your friends list, which mostly consists of men, couples and tvs, and your male only veris (although I suspect that you've met them to prove that you're genuine...).

As others have stated above, keep on chatting to women, le out the wheat from the chaft (you'll probably come across a few men along the way

) and you'll eventually find someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have chatted to this lady for some time and can confirm that her frustration at the lack of ladies is palpable.

She speaks of women so sexily I know she would be a great and sexy partner if any would like to meet her

And your role in this would be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I need a lovely lady to sit on my face! Hard to find on here

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

"I have chatted to this lady for some time and can confirm that her frustration at the lack of ladies is palpable.

She speaks of women so sexily I know she would be a great and sexy partner if any would like to meet her

And your role in this would be?"

I have no role in anything she chooses to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm allowed to enjoy myself with others f's as long as am certain it's a f... some single f profiles are from men trying ?... but yes single f's meet on here just take your time

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Stick with I'm sure it'll happen, so worth it when it does xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emily would love a FF meet. But her rule not mine (seriously although most refuse to believe it) is that Im present as she feels unsafe and like shes cheating if Im not. But I NEVER play on meets wether it be with males females or couples. So far most single fems wont come due to her rule or are very up for it then stop talking or no show when arrangements are made. Its a shame as Id happilly leave them to it Im not a fan of watching ff I find it pretty dull and certainly have no wish to join in but till Emily has met a girl and got her confidence up she wont let me leave them.. Rock and a hard place I guess.

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By *imandlinCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Linda would love to sit on your face and spank your willing arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women do exist on here just takes a little time x try going to socials and clubs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Linda would love to sit on your face and spank your willing arse. "

Ironic for this post - posted by the male half. Can she not speak for herself?

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

"Linda would love to sit on your face and spank your willing arse.

Ironic for this post - posted by the male half. Can she not speak for herself?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just swinging bi, ( pardon the pun) thought I'd share some love. Xx

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Welcome to visit London, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I visit London quite a bit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you now !

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Oh interesting, fancy a coffee xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be your waiter you two !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my, seems like my next trip to London will be a promising one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just swinging bi, ( pardon the pun) thought I'd share some love. Xx"

swing by us and share anything

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

"Just swinging bi, ( pardon the pun) thought I'd share some love. Xx

swing by us and share anything

That extend too anyone, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh my, seems like my next trip to London will be a promising one x"
may I message you a face pic ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, sure xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'tis done

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

just keep trying.. it all seems to happen when you're not looking

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By *ady Lick OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Thanks everyone. Some helpful advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if it's just my experience but around 3 or 4 years ago I found it easy to find and meet interesting bi women on here.

But I do have a definite feeling that we're getting rarer - most of the women that I've met have left and I don't see that many new ones joining up....

Perhaps that's just the nature of life - things change..!

But I live in hope ..

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

"I don't know if it's just my experience but around 3 or 4 years ago I found it easy to find and meet interesting bi women on here.

But I do have a definite feeling that we're getting rarer - most of the women that I've met have left and I don't see that many new ones joining up....

Perhaps that's just the nature of life - things change..!

But I live in hope ..

If you lived in Northampton you would be a little happier I think.

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