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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all you lovely people

I was told today that my profile pics are very "cock heavy" and I shouldn't have a cock pic as my main profile pic

So I would appreciate your help in deciding which pic I should have as my main pic

Either fab the most appropriate pic or tell me on here , thanks in advance xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They certainly wernt lying when they said your pics were cock heavy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

17th June is rather alarming.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They certainly wernt lying when they said your pics were cock heavy "

Lol but which one should be my profile pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They certainly wernt lying when they said your pics were cock heavy

Lol but which one should be my profile pic?"

Its your profile mate, cock pics are not everyones favorites

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yep, that's a lot of cocks

Why not take some bum or torso pics? A bit of variety. Something less alarming for people when they look at your pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep, that's a lot of cocks

Why not take some bum or torso pics? A bit of variety. Something less alarming for people when they look at your pics."

Should my face pic be my main profile pic or will that really scare the girls away? Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi all you lovely people

I was told today that my profile pics are very "cock heavy" and I shouldn't have a cock pic as my main profile pic

So I would appreciate your help in deciding which pic I should have as my main pic

Either fab the most appropriate pic or tell me on here , thanks in advance xxxxxxxx"

Your face picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi all you lovely people

I was told today that my profile pics are very "cock heavy" and I shouldn't have a cock pic as my main profile pic

So I would appreciate your help in deciding which pic I should have as my main pic

Either fab the most appropriate pic or tell me on here , thanks in advance xxxxxxxx

Your face picture "

Which one?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi all you lovely people

I was told today that my profile pics are very "cock heavy" and I shouldn't have a cock pic as my main profile pic

So I would appreciate your help in deciding which pic I should have as my main pic

Either fab the most appropriate pic or tell me on here , thanks in advance xxxxxxxx

Your face picture

Which one?"

The most recent one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi all you lovely people

I was told today that my profile pics are very "cock heavy" and I shouldn't have a cock pic as my main profile pic

So I would appreciate your help in deciding which pic I should have as my main pic

Either fab the most appropriate pic or tell me on here , thanks in advance xxxxxxxx

Your face picture

Which one?

The most recent one. "

Thanks will change it now and see if it helps

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I understand the cock thing. A guy explained it to me once and if it's your thing go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will be attracted to your face before your cock so it's a no brainer really. If you're willing to show face pics in public then a clear one is always a good place to start. 25 different angles of the same cock won't do it for most.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People will be attracted to your face before your cock so it's a no brainer really. If you're willing to show face pics in public then a clear one is always a good place to start. 25 different angles of the same cock won't do it for most."

Which face pic do you think I should use?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand the cock thing. A guy explained it to me once and if it's your thing go for it. "

What is "the cock thing"?

It's not working so what face pic shall I use?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People will be attracted to your face before your cock so it's a no brainer really. If you're willing to show face pics in public then a clear one is always a good place to start. 25 different angles of the same cock won't do it for most.

Which face pic do you think I should use?"

Well considering the only clear face shot is the one you're displaying................

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People will be attracted to your face before your cock so it's a no brainer really. If you're willing to show face pics in public then a clear one is always a good place to start. 25 different angles of the same cock won't do it for most.

Which face pic do you think I should use?

Well considering the only clear face shot is the one you're displaying................"

There's two but will try the full length one

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I understand the cock thing. A guy explained it to me once and if it's your thing go for it.

What is "the cock thing"?

It's not working so what face pic shall I use?"

I just mean having loads of cock pictures, I know some men enjoy showing it and on here if thats what you want to do .....go for it. You have put the picture I meant up.

Hope it works for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand the cock thing. A guy explained it to me once and if it's your thing go for it.

What is "the cock thing"?

It's not working so what face pic shall I use?

I just mean having loads of cock pictures, I know some men enjoy showing it and on here if thats what you want to do .....go for it. You have put the picture I meant up.

Hope it works for you."

I hope it works too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any one else able to offer advice on the best pic for me to use?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At some point you've just gotta go with what YOU think is best rather than ask for dozens of opinions. You'll get dozens of different answers and will be no wiser for it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Any one else able to offer advice on the best pic for me to use?"

Do you really want a cock picture as your avatar?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At some point you've just gotta go with what YOU think is best rather than ask for dozens of opinions. You'll get dozens of different answers and will be no wiser for it."

Just some advice along the way is nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any one else able to offer advice on the best pic for me to use?

Do you really want a cock picture as your avatar? "

No that's why I am asking you lot which pic I should use lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Any one else able to offer advice on the best pic for me to use?

Do you really want a cock picture as your avatar?

No that's why I am asking you lot which pic I should use lol"

We said face picture and you only have two, one of which isn't very clear. Your choice now I feel.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Nor particularly impressed with any of the cock pics really. Choose one. Just one. Junk the rest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any one else able to offer advice on the best pic for me to use?

Do you really want a cock picture as your avatar?

No that's why I am asking you lot which pic I should use lol

We said face picture and you only have two, one of which isn't very clear. Yo

ur choice now I feel."

Ok then I will stick with the one I have up now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

?? I thought you was wearing a hat at a jaunty angle x must remember to wear my reading glasses!

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

What pic you put up on your Profile is down to you, not for us to decide in a Poll!

In short, ditch virtually all of the cock pics to Private viewing. You can leave one on your profile, so long as you balance it up with others, say a torso and/or bum shot.

Put it on perspective; if you have any chance of getting a meet,people want to see what you look like, facially.

Plus, to keep on asking us what do I do here, which pic will I use etc etc, portrays a bit of negativity and doesn't actually promote yourself well at all!

Good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Some men enjoy having lots of pictures of their cock and like to think of people looking at them. I don't know if that's the case here but if it is there's no harm in it. If a woman had loads of pictures of her genitals I doubt it would be recommended that she hid most of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"?? I thought you was wearing a hat at a jaunty angle x must remember to wear my reading glasses!"

Lol I know it does look a bit like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pic first, then body / torso / arse pic, one cock pic.

Have a think what you want, and what you think highlights your best features, or your best way to match up with people you want to sell yourself too, so to speak.

Be social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some men enjoy having lots of pictures of their cock and like to think of people looking at them. I don't know if that's the case here but if it is there's no harm in it. If a woman had loads of pictures of her genitals I doubt it would be recommended that she hid most of them. "

Yeah but I think generally women don't get turned on by randam cock pics whereas men live to see pussy and boobs

So I know I need to ditch at least some of the cock pics

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some men enjoy having lots of pictures of their cock and like to think of people looking at them. I don't know if that's the case here but if it is there's no harm in it. If a woman had loads of pictures of her genitals I doubt it would be recommended that she hid most of them.

Yeah but I think generally women don't get turned on by randam cock pics whereas men live to see pussy and boobs

So I know I need to ditch at least some of the cock pics"

If you genuinely think that then I would say ditch all but one, up to you which one you keep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some men enjoy having lots of pictures of their cock and like to think of people looking at them. I don't know if that's the case here but if it is there's no harm in it. If a woman had loads of pictures of her genitals I doubt it would be recommended that she hid most of them.

Yeah but I think generally women don't get turned on by randam cock pics whereas men live to see pussy and boobs

So I know I need to ditch at least some of the cock pics

If you genuinely think that then I would say ditch all but one, up to you which one you keep."

May take your advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Decision decisions lol

Now which cock pic shall I keep lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some men enjoy having lots of pictures of their cock and like to think of people looking at them. I don't know if that's the case here but if it is there's no harm in it. If a woman had loads of pictures of her genitals I doubt it would be recommended that she hid most of them.

Yeah but I think generally women don't get turned on by randam cock pics whereas men live to see pussy and boobs

So I know I need to ditch at least some of the cock pics

If you genuinely think that then I would say ditch all but one, up to you which one you keep.

May take your advice"

Good lord you don't want to do that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some men enjoy having lots of pictures of their cock and like to think of people looking at them. I don't know if that's the case here but if it is there's no harm in it. If a woman had loads of pictures of her genitals I doubt it would be recommended that she hid most of them.

Yeah but I think generally women don't get turned on by randam cock pics whereas men live to see pussy and boobs

So I know I need to ditch at least some of the cock pics

If you genuinely think that then I would say ditch all but one, up to you which one you keep.

May take your advice

Good lord you don't want to do that! "

Are you not good at giving?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some men enjoy having lots of pictures of their cock and like to think of people looking at them. I don't know if that's the case here but if it is there's no harm in it. If a woman had loads of pictures of her genitals I doubt it would be recommended that she hid most of them.

Yeah but I think generally women don't get turned on by randam cock pics whereas men live to see pussy and boobs

So I know I need to ditch at least some of the cock pics

If you genuinely think that then I would say ditch all but one, up to you which one you keep.

May take your advice

Good lord you don't want to do that!

Are you not good at giving?"

I'm excellent at giving......advice that is. Whether it's worth taking is another question altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just fabbed a good profile pic.

Yes definitely too much cock in your pics.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We just fabbed a good profile pic.

Yes definitely too much cock in your pics.

Good luck x"

Thank you x

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"?? I thought you was wearing a hat at a jaunty angle x must remember to wear my reading glasses!"

Funny enough I was thinking that and I have my glasses on!

karen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"?? I thought you was wearing a hat at a jaunty angle x must remember to wear my reading glasses!

Funny enough I was thinking that and I have my glasses on!

karen"

The worse thing is I am a good photographer with my proper cameras

The ones on fab are with my iPhone

Might start offering a pro fab photography service

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Hi all you lovely people

I was told today that my profile pics are very "cock heavy" and I shouldn't have a cock pic as my main profile pic

So I would appreciate your help in deciding which pic I should have as my main pic

Either fab the most appropriate pic or tell me on here , thanks in advance xxxxxxxx"

. Keep your face photo and add a new one . It might help if you add some hobbies and interests to your profile . Only you can make the decision as to how best to market yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"?? I thought you was wearing a hat at a jaunty angle x must remember to wear my reading glasses!

Funny enough I was thinking that and I have my glasses on!

karen

The worse thing is I am a good photographer with my proper cameras

The ones on fab are with my iPhone

Might start offering a pro fab photography service"

With the ones you have up, I doubt you'd get many takers...not exactly a good advertisement for your skills...

I never understand why guys with foreskins have so many pictures with their foreskin over the end of their cock...it just doesn't look attractive...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a female..A sexy torso does it for me..or the little bit above the cock where your snail trail starts..teasing is def better than full on cock pics..its all about the mystery for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P.s First glance at your profile pic and it looks like you are wearing a large hat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"P.s First glance at your profile pic and it looks like you are wearing a large hat!"

My initial advice was to change his profile pic from a cock pic to a face pic.

Now that he has done so ...I'm not so sure!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"?? I thought you was wearing a hat at a jaunty angle x must remember to wear my reading glasses!

Funny enough I was thinking that and I have my glasses on!

karen

The worse thing is I am a good photographer with my proper cameras

The ones on fab are with my iPhone

Might start offering a pro fab photography service

With the ones you have up, I doubt you'd get many takers...not exactly a good advertisement for your skills...

I never understand why guys with foreskins have so many pictures with their foreskin over the end of their cock...it just doesn't look attractive..."

Ok so I will remove pics where my foreskin isn't pulled back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a female..A sexy torso does it for me..or the little bit above the cock where your snail trail starts..teasing is def better than full on cock pics..its all about the mystery for me "

I have a pic showing my lower stomach area but I am not exactly a gym freak

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

loving all your advice x

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Abandon all hope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why should I abandon all hope?

Has two meets recently and both provided nice feedback lol

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