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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So ladies what would you consider to be there perfect message to get of a guy what is it you want to hear and be in this first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So ladies what would you consider to be there perfect message to get of a guy what is it you want to hear and be in this first message "

Good luck with this one mate no matter what you put will get you a slap round the chops. Delete block and then you start questioning your self what am I doing wrong am I not polite.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"So ladies what would you consider to be there perfect message to get of a guy what is it you want to hear and be in this first message "

There isn't a one size fits all message. Just read the profile and be polite really.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think there's such a thing as the 'perfect' message.

All you can do is read the profile of the recipient, acknowledge in some way that you've read it and suggest you fit their criteria and show your personality.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"So ladies what would you consider to be there perfect message to get of a guy what is it you want to hear and be in this first message "

3 words....

no such thing......

its not something you can template.... different people will want different things

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

Don't worry about trying to get your leg over on here mate it ain't going to happen go to the clubs socials ect that's the way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Demonstrate that you have actually read their profile first and write something you feel is appropriate for them.

The blanket cut/paste approach won't make the recipient feel special in fact it's a fast way to get yourself blocked haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry about trying to get your leg over on here mate it ain't going to happen go to the clubs socials ect that's the way forward "

Or....on here....it works fine if you send the perfect message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the ladies profile first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry about trying to get your leg over on here mate it ain't going to happen go to the clubs socials ect that's the way forward

Or....on here....it works fine if you send the perfect message."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry about trying to get your leg over on here mate it ain't going to happen go to the clubs socials ect that's the way forward

Or....on here....it works fine if you send the perfect message.

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Hi again Vicky.....see you for that coffee soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry about trying to get your leg over on here mate it ain't going to happen go to the clubs socials ect that's the way forward

Or....on here....it works fine if you send the perfect message."

^^^^ This and what Beth says. Clubs and socials are good. But in a previous life on here have met plenty of ladies and couples from direct messages. Read the profile, include something relevant in your message to show you have read it and try to say why they should consider you for a meet. Good luck.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

1. read the profile

2. reference any points made in it

3. comment on the photos

4. dont type like we are cake ("Mmmmmmmm")

5. don't type like you know how we "like it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shrek could send the same message as brad pitt and guess who'd get the reply...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The perfect message is from the guy with a profile I find interesting, with pics I'm attracted to.

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

You've got more chance of winning the lottery mate 200 bloke to 1 girl not good odds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got more chance of winning the lottery mate 200 bloke to 1 girl not good odds "

Sounds like a nasty gb!! shotgun goin first!!

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford


"You've got more chance of winning the lottery mate 200 bloke to 1 girl not good odds

Sounds like a nasty gb!! shotgun goin first!! "

Gb? Enlighten me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So ladies what would you consider to be there perfect message to get of a guy what is it you want to hear and be in this first message "

Sounds like you lack the imagination to concoct your own and want someone to do it for you so you can cut and paste it.

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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

Just send them a pic and if there interested they'll get in touch

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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham


"Just send them a pic and if there interested they'll get in touch "

With a nice note saying why your interested in them of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love you. When are we getting married?"

Works every time, 1% of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience 99.9% of messages go unanswered anyway

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